My boyfriend hides the fact that I have children in the divorce, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    This mainly depends on your attitude, it is wrong for him to hide it from you, maybe it is because he is afraid that he will not associate with him after you know it, or ignore him, which is also a manifestation of selfishness, why do you find out that this fact is what he told you or you found out later? If he takes the initiative to tell you, it means that he still cares about you, and then he wants you to understand the situation and it is up to you to decide, if you only tell him after you find out, then he is the more selfish one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Hello! Here's what you can answer.

    1.The boyfriend hides the fact that you have children in the divorce, and if you can't accept it, leave him immediately, because you are not married at this time, you can choose to "leave".

    2.If your boyfriend hides his marriage history and has children, you must think carefully: "In the future, I have a child who I did not give birth to, and the child needs to be raised, who will raise this child?"

    What should I do if my child lives in my house? "If you can solve all of the above problems, you can get married to your boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If you love him, you have to accept this child, or you can quickly break up with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    The fact that your boyfriend hides from you that he is married and has children is actually cheating, because I am afraid that you will not be able to accept his divorce and children, I think if you don't want to be a stepmother.

    Then you can break up, because he deceived you first.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Break up, your boyfriend is dishonest and cheats on your feelings. If you have never been married, break up decisively, and you can't find a divorced man with a baby.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you can break up with him if you don't mind it, and if you don't mind, you can continue to live with him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, find out why he is hiding it, what is the purpose, if you are afraid that you will know that he is divorced and has children and leave him, then it depends on whether you can accept it, you have to ask your heart, if he conceals it in order to associate with his ex-wife, then it is recommended to go elsewhere.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your boyfriend hides the divorce from you because he is afraid that you will not accept him, and if you love him, you must accept his children, otherwise you will break up decisively.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Break up decisively, don't hesitate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The fact that your boyfriend has children in your divorce is relatively big, at this time you should calm down, don't be blind, don't be impulsive, such a boyfriend is cheating on you everywhere.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your boyfriend hides it from you, this is the case with a divorce and a child. If you know, you can ask, what the hell is going on? I think it's possible that your boyfriend is afraid that you will dislike him, so he doesn't dare to tell you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Break up, the man is dishonest and cheats on feelings. If you have never been married, break up decisively, and do not divorce a man with a baby.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up as soon as possible, this kind of scumbag is not good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you still love him, don't leave him easily, although he hides you, he has children, I believe that he is also afraid of losing you, so he will hide it from you, as long as you still love each other, I believe you will be happy in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If there is concealment, it is deception, it is a lie, your parents will definitely oppose it, they don't want you to be a stepmother, they are lying to you now, I don't know how to lie to you in the future, be sober, your parents will not harm you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sometimes love and actual married life are two different things, if you are very generous, can accept his previous bad, or accept her children, and be good to his children, then you continue with him, if you still have a mustard in your heart, then you have to choose, leave early, don't, grind and chirp, you love her to love everything, including her children.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you still love to be with him, but your feelings will not be as pure as before, you'd better keep an eye on it, once you find out that he has changed his mind or something, break up immediately, don't drag the mud and water, and stop the loss in time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you still like the other person, then you can only accept that the other party hides from you and accept the other person's children. If you can't get past this, then don't be with your boyfriend. These things are actually not trivial, and they should be talked about before marriage anyway.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Feelings are two-sided. It can only be combined if both parties are in love.

    Feelings also need to be managed. Only when two people have similar views will they go far.

    If there is a problem, sit down and communicate sincerely, otherwise the problem will only get bigger. Find the right opportunity, the right place, with a sincere attitude.

    Good luck.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If this is the case, then you have to think clearly, although you still love him, what kind of life will you face in the future? Think about it more, or make your own decision!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The man didn't confess to you from the beginning of this relationship, he just wanted to get your heart first, so that you would definitely accept him, it was too scheming, and you need to think it through.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't want to.

    Nor can this reality be accepted.

    It's better to break up early.

    Otherwise, there will be obstacles between you in the future.

    It's going to be unhappy.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. Dear, you must tell your parents the truth about the person you like, and then your parents don't agree with you, you can help your boyfriend say good things and prove to them that you are right.

    My boyfriend concealed that he was divorced and had children, and I didn't know until a year later, but my parents objected, and I also minded that he had children to hide and lie to me, but I still love it, what should I do?

    Dear, glad to answer for you. <>

    <> boyfriend concealed that he was divorced and had children, and he didn't know until a year that his parents objected, and he didn't mind that he had children to hide and deceive me, but he still loved, first of all, your trade-offs are ridiculous, and a Qinyan person who will deceive even such an important thing as having a child will not rise in the future and will also deceive you, see if you love him enough.

    At. I didn't dare to tell my parents the real situation of the man, but I knew that my parents would definitely oppose it, and we wanted to get married, but we were afraid of being separated.

    Dear, do you still love him as much as before after knowing the fact that he cheated on you.

    How do I want to communicate with my parents?

    Still in love with him. Dear, you're alone, aren't you?

    The man's parents insisted on telling my parents that I wanted to keep it a secret from my parents.

    Then your parents know that her situation will definitely not let you be together, and they don't feel that he can't give you the life you want.

    Dear, love is able to overcome everything.

    Dear, do your parents now know of his existence.

    Thank you, could you please tell me how to deal with my parents?

    Dear, you must tell your parents about the person you like, and then your parents agree that you can help your boyfriend say good things and prove to them that you are right.

    Dear, in fact, it is not the most appropriate time for you to tell your parents.

    Dear, getting married is a big deal, so you have to think about it yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Summary. If he really loves you, when you first met, you should tell you first, you should ask for your opinion first, do you mind his situation like this, if you mind, don't let you fall in love with him. Maybe you'll be impressed by his honesty and marry him willingly.

    Right? The last thing we girls can tolerate is deception.

    Hello, the teacher understands your mood very well, you have a sock and a boyfriend late, he didn't tell you that he was married and had children, which is very unfriendly for lovers, if you are very mindful of giving the child Li Zi as a stepmother, you can propose to break up with him, he should tell you when you first dated, it will hurt you too much.

    If he really loves you, when you first met, you should tell you first, you should first ask for your opinion on Oak or Sakura, whether you Liang Cong mind his situation, if you mind, don't let you fall in love with him. Maybe you'll be impressed by his honesty and marry him willingly. Right?

    The last thing we girls can tolerate is group deception.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Divorce by agreement first, and if it doesn't work out, then file a lawsuit with the court, and it seems that the man and woman can divorce after being separated for a year.

    Divorce by agreement first, and if it doesn't work out, then file a lawsuit with the court, and it seems that the man and woman can divorce after being separated for a year.

    You can also sue him directly.

    The man didn't have a marriage certificate before he got married, he had a child, but I didn't know it, I also had a child, and he knew about it.

    If you don't want to do it, then agree to divorce.

    If you think about it, forgive him.

    After living with me, I had another boy.

    We had been renting a house and had a fight, and I found out he had a small child after he came home.

    We now have a marriage license.

    We now have a marriage license.

    This genus does not belong to bigamy.

    It doesn't belong. Unless he lives with the child's mother, it is bigamy.

    Children don't count.

    Occasionally, they will be together.

    Occasionally, they will be together.

    Do you live together.

    Living together is bigamy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. This shows that your boyfriend's parents are very traditional, according to the traditional Chinese concept, it seems that the first married man marries the second married woman, and the man seems to be at a loss. Especially if the first-married man himself has good conditions in all aspects, it is estimated that the man's family will oppose it relatively loudly.

    They will all hope that their son will find an unmarried woman, because the self-esteem of the second-married woman is strong, and if it is due to the injury of the previous marriage, the self-esteem of the second-married woman will be relatively strong. Once after marriage, after marriage, it is difficult for the husband and wife to be united in some major family problems, worrying that others will calculate her. Selfishness becomes quite obvious, he will prioritize the interests of himself and his children, and if necessary, he will leave the man for money, and if you have children in your first marriage, it is also a burden.

    So your boyfriend doesn't want his parents to know about your second marriage for the time being, and it seems that your boyfriend cares about you very much.

    This shows that your boyfriend's parents are very traditional, according to the traditional Chinese concept, it seems that the first marriage man marries the second marriage to make a banquet girl, and the man seems to be at a loss. Especially if the first-married man himself has good conditions in all aspects, it is estimated that the man's family will oppose it relatively loudly. They will all hope that their son will find an unmarried woman, because the self-esteem of the second-married woman is strong, and if it is due to the injury of the previous marriage, the self-esteem of the second-married woman will be relatively strong.

    Once after marriage, after marriage, it is difficult for the husband and wife to be united in some major family problems, worrying that others will calculate her. Selfishness becomes quite obvious, he will give priority to the interests of himself and his children, and when he wants money, he will leave the man for money, and if you have children in your first marriage, it is also a burden. So your boyfriend doesn't want his parents to know about your second marriage for the time being, and it seems that your boyfriend cares about you very much.

    Should I tell his parents about my second marriage?

    The man doesn't dislike it, and the man doesn't let his parents know, why should you tell it.

    Not long after you got married?

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