What should I do if I can t forget my ex wife after a divorce?

Leave is gone, it is impossible to reunite after breaking the mirror, finding any excuse to get back together, can not make up for the damage in the other party's heart, if there is nothing to worry about, I personally think it is best to never see each other! When a man gets divorced and comes back to his ex-wife, he is afraid that no one will care about him when he is old, and he thinks beautifully, just like there is only one time in life and he can't do it again, and he doesn't want to turn back when he steps out! If you get divorced, you won't get along with each other, and if you go out so ruthlessly, there is no need to be together, can the broken mirror still be reunited!

It can never be, if you are ruthless, why should I mean it! It's better to go your own way.

Even if the relationship is not completely broken, it is impossible to remarry at this time, they are so adults, divorce is not a trivial matter, it is better to try to calm yourself down, and reflect on what kind of problems have arisen in such a long marriage, especially on your own problems. So don't bother each other, if the other party still has themselves in their hearts, they will wait for each other to calm down and give themselves a chance. ‍‍

Give you a suggestion, admit your mistakes to your ex-wife, admit compensation, and do everything you can to redeem your mistakes, a man admits his mistakes to his wife, not ashamed, I think there is a great chance of getting back together, after all, the old husband and wife have been for many years, there is no love, and family affection must be there. Don't insist on a man's face, admit your mistakes to your wife, just be better.

I've been divorced for ten years and haven't forgotten my ex-wife, but I'm not in pain at all, because time and life are not easy for me to slowly look down on some things, and I also look down on some people, and besides, people are originally alone, and when they leave in the future, they will still be alone, divorced, I look back now, what is it? It's a big deal, what's wrong with living alone! Without women, life goes by the same way.

What's the point of knowing the other party's goodness only after losing? The most important thing is to cherish the person in front of you, everything in the past is over! Fate comes and goes, everything is just fate!

I am a woman, I have experience, after the divorce, I don't know if a man will be nostalgic for a woman, but as a woman, I can't love a man anymore, let alone go back to sleep with him, if the heart dies, it will never be easy to come back.

If you regret it and want to remarry, then it depends on the reason for your divorce. In fact, if you have a child, after so many years, you should know her, as long as you have this idea, solve the problem of divorce, and then pursue it again, it will generally be successful.

You can keep yourself busy, make your life full, and when you are tired, you won't think about so many things, and you can also talk to someone about the depression in your heart, or ask a friend to have a drink to release the bad emotions in your heart. ‍‍

Now that you're divorced, don't always remember the past, if you had been kind to your wife in the first place, you shouldn't have come to this point. If you really can't forget it, go and chase it back, after all, we are familiar with each other.

At present, the most important thing is to accept the facts, dare to face the reality, work hard, work to earn money, and strive to change your bad places. ‍‍

After the divorce, the woman should be consulted, and if both parties voluntarily resume the relationship between husband and wife, they should go to the marriage registration office to register the remarriage.

According to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China:

Article 35: After divorce, where both a man and a woman voluntarily resume their relationship as husband and wife, they must go to the marriage registration office to register their remarriage.

According to the Marriage Registration Regulations:

Article 4 When a mainland resident marries, both the man and the woman shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has permanent residence to complete the marriage registration.

Where a Chinese citizen marries a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident marries a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the marriage registration.

Article 5 Mainland residents who go through marriage registration shall present the following certificates and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) A signed statement that he or she has no spouse and no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

Article 14: Where a divorced man and woman voluntarily resume their relationship as husband and wife, they shall go to the marriage registration authority to register their remarriage. The provisions of these Regulations on marriage registration shall apply to the registration of remarriages.

Where the ex-wife divorces and does not leave home, it shall be handled on a case-by-case basis. At the time of divorce, if the house belongs to the man, or the house was originally the property of the man, after the divorce, the woman shall move out of the house where she lives as soon as possible, and if the ex-wife is unwilling to move out, she shall inquire about the situation with the ex-wife, and find out why the ex-wife is unwilling to move out, and if the ex-wife does not move out due to financial difficulties, the man shall give appropriate assistance to the ex-wife, and the form of assistance can be agreed upon by both parties; If the man does not move out for other reasons, he can seek help from the police and ask the police to persuade the woman to leave as soon as possible.

[Legal basis].Article 1087 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

Article 1000 In the event of a divorce, if one party has difficulties in living, the other party who can afford it shall give appropriate assistance. The specific measures are agreed upon by Shuanghui and filial piety; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

Hello, happy to answer this question for you. The best way to forget your ex-wife is to consider the following: 1. Don't dwell on the past If you don't have children with your ex-wife, then there is no reason to continue to have contact after the divorce.

But if you have children, no matter which side the children are on, then it is inevitable that they will have a connection with each other. However, these connections are only to visit children and the like, and as for the conflict of interests between the two parties, they should be resolved in the divorce. 3. Try to avoid all kinds of meetings, there is a saying that business is not benevolent and righteous, even if you can't be a husband and wife, there is no need to be an enemy.

But after all, two people who have had happiness and pain will definitely have a lot of past memories that they don't want to think about each other. Only by reducing your encounters can you forget her as soon as possible and get new feelings as soon as possible.

In the eyes of everyone around me, my ex-husband and I are living in good conditions now, talented and beautiful, and will not go to the point of divorce, but whether the marriage is suitable is only clear to the parties.

When he got married, his parents only gave the down payment for the house, the head of the house wrote his father's name, and we repaid the loan ourselves.

The bride price money said that there was no bride price, I was really angry when I heard it, the bride price is a rule left by the older generation, no money can be given less, but his family said that there is no bride price.

My ex-husband knew that his mother was doing something wrong and spoke to his mother, because he had already registered at the time, and I thought about giving him up for the bride price, not because of the money, but because of his family's attitude that made me feel cold!

Then his mother saw that my attitude had compromised.

After the birth of my daughter, the expenses and expenses of the family were also large, so I had no choice but to give the child to my mother to take care of, and I lived a separate life with him.

In those years, I would drive 200 kilometers back and forth every weekend to see him and the child, and it was at that time that our lives gradually improved.

As I was about to end my separation, I found out that he was having an affair with a woman with whom he was in business!

When I asked him, he denied it, saying that I was suspicious and sick.

My personality belongs to the kind of personality that is arrogant, and after so many years of marriage, I have seen him chatting and joking with the opposite sex, and I chose to believe it at that time, because I don't think he will be serious.

This time is different, from the past few years that he has had business dealings with this woman, I can feel the changes in him.

Usually my daughter has a cold and fever, and I take the child to the hospital by myself, and his attitude has changed significantly during that time.

I opened a porcelain shop after work, looking for someone to take care of it, the business was not bad, during the opening I asked him to help**Circle of friends, he agreed perfunctorily, **Circle of friends when he blocked the woman alone.

Ask him all kinds of denials, it is really the attitude of not crying when he sees the coffin! Later, I found out about the two of them driving to another city, and he explained that they were going to get a qualification certificate together.

Don't let him contact the woman again, he promised that he would still contact secretly and privately, and then I didn't believe what he said, and when he angered me, I quarreled like crazy, and that kind of life lasted for two years.

I wanted to give my children a complete home and force myself to forget these things, but I found that I couldn't do it, I couldn't sleep all night long, I couldn't sleep all night, and I had some problems with my body, so I filed for divorce.