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This shows that they are not usually busy at work, and they like to express themselves and hope to get everyone's attention.
Why do they scare people when they are idle? Because first of all, it must be this kind of idleness, and they usually don't have much work, so they will say that they are idle.
But why do you like to scare people? There may be many reasons, but it boils down to the following.
Get up on the wrong side of the bed. It just so happened that they were in a bad mood that day, so when they saw others, the nameless fire in their hearts was ignited, so they would unconsciously use others as their own punching bag, so when they encounter this kind of person who is in a bad mood, they can only blame us for not looking at the yellow calendar when we go out, and we are considered unlucky.
I want others to pay attention to me.
Why are there so many trolls on the internet now? Even a lot of things have nothing to do with their wool, but they are quite energetic. This kind of person usually hopes that by scolding others, others can pay attention to themselves, which is a kind of eye-catching meaning, because the more intense the words, the more quickly others can pay attention to them.
Express yourself. This is actually similar to what I said above, and it is just to make others pay attention to themselves, and I also hope to scare others with some sharp words, which can show how talented, how connotative, and how ambitious they are.
But no one is worthless, so everyone has their own shining points, so when we are scolded by others, we must first have a deep understanding of ourselves, so as to avoid being hit by the other party to doubt life. Because people just want to attract attention, or even express themselves, they don't understand what others feel at all, so it is the first thing for us to adjust our own mentality.
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People who speak awe-inspiring are actually very unconfident and relatively inferior to others. She must affirm herself by scolding others to satisfy her own need to comfort herself. Therefore, we must face up to our own psychology and needs.
Don't take it lightly, the damage caused by other people's words will not heal.
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Talking like about other people's mental defects, which is very bad. Because at that time, someone else has an eternal scar, and you lift him again, which will cause a lot of harm to others. If you're dealing with people, it's better not to be about other people's mental defects.
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Lack of self-confidence inferiority, often love to criticize others people are very conceited, often unwilling to admit the result of failure, they stubbornly achieve a little gain on the proud, failure point to deny in every way, if you dare not face yourself will limit yourself to the circle, it is difficult to break through! To be able to tap into the potential, you have to keep challenging and face your fragile self!
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This kind of person has a strong ability to protect himself, and sometimes he can't let others get off the stage, as long as others mention him, he is very unhappy, and he slaps others on the south wall, maybe he was born like this! The acquired run-in can be changed.
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A person who likes to find fault with other people's words is a very calculating person. Bad mentality. In the face of this kind of person, it is better to ignore him and have less contact with him.
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First think about whether what you say is really wrong
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