Why are you less and less fond of posting on Moments?

I used to post all kinds of news in the QQ space, such as some of my own thoughts, and as time went by, I felt stupid when I looked back after many years, because people are animals that grew up in the environment, and now you look at you in the past, most of you will feel funny - how could I be so naïve at that time.

Now I don't post or post less moments, I basically come out of this mentality.

To tell you the truth, I may think a little too much, but the main thing is that I care too much about other people's opinions, and occasionally I restrain my desire to express myself, feeling that this dynamic does not match my personal label and impression in other people's minds. So forget it, I won't send it, and over time, it seems like I've been diving for a long time.

Because I know that the joys and sorrows of people are not connected, and what you want to express is something that someone doesn't understand, then forget it, it's nothing. What's even more uncomfortable is that the other party misinterprets your meaning, which is very tiring, and it is better to choose silence. Actually, I think that the circle of friends can reflect one side of a person's personality, but it is only one side, it does not represent anything, and it is just a choice.

The circle of friends is a place where many people will look at it every day, and some people may have to look at it dozens of times a day on average, hundreds of times, and they are active in the circle of friends, and often like and interact with friends. This is a new way of life, and some friends may not see each other for a long time, but they can observe each other through the circle of friends. I don't feel alienated gradually.

But there are also many people who are becoming more and more reluctant to post on Moments. They may have to post several updates a day in the past, but now they seem to have disappeared into the circle of friends, in fact, these people are reluctant to post on the circle of friends for the following reasons. One.

Life is stressful and work pressure is high, and more and more people may only click on the circle of friends once a day, let alone post on the circle of friends. Those who are lonely work easily and have a lot of free time may swipe their phones many times a day and look through their moments many times. But there are also some people who are very busy at work, and they want to sleep after eating and taking a shower every day when they get home.

may be brushed two or three times a day at most, let alone post news in the circle of friends. Two. More and more people's mentality has changed, just live their own life, why bother to care about other people's lives, many people have begun to mature as they get older, and they are in charge of him.

They are getting worse and worse, they are not used to interacting with others in the circle of friends, and they don't even want to have a liking friend. I just want to observe quietly. And posting Moments News seems to have become a more private thing for them, so they are unwilling to expose their privacy, and would rather remain silent than post Moments.

In the past, most of the people who posted on Moments were to show off their lives, but now there is nothing to show off, but I like to watch others show off. A lot of a sign of maturity is actually like this. Slowly, I have everything I should have, and I always like to show off when I didn't have it before, but now that I have all these things, I don't like to show off.

And there is another aspect that if you post something good and think that it is very common, others will think that you are showing off your wealth. If you are in a bad mood and post some complaints in the circle of friends, people will say that you have a negative attitude. So many people don't post much on Moments.

People often say that when you reach a certain age, you will be more realistic and mature, and the reason why you don't like to post on Moments is more and more.

A big factor is that when you reach a certain age, you don't care much about the content of the circle of friends, and think that many times it is just a form of content between colleagues, classmates or friends who have a very general relationship, or the content of many circles of friends is full of certain show-off elements, and loses its true meaning, so it is more and more dislike to post a circle of friends, and I don't like to deliberately brush up on my superiority.

Deliberately let yourself live, so hypocritical, in fact, the real meaning of the circle of friends should be happy, sharing with each other, but now many people don't really understand these, the circle of friends as a tool to show off wealth, or have other purposes, want to spy on other people's thoughts and attitudes towards themselves, such a circle of friends itself has lost any meaning, people should be more sincere with each other, less hypocrisy and routines between each other, so that the relationship between two people can be long, In short, in daily life, friends must communicate with each other attentively, maintain the friendship between each other, and at the same time, they should also adjust their mentality.

It's mainly because of the personality.,It's getting more and more mature.。

First, some people's personality determines the content of their circle of friends. Some people have a cheerful and sunny personality and a slightly flamboyant personality, so they like to show themselves, and they often keep updating their dynamics in the circle of friends. And those who have an inner personality will be shy, but there will still be a verbal interaction, and the other half of the reason is mood problems.

Inner people are generally more delicate and emotional. Although sometimes I want to express my feelings, I also want to protect myself, so this kind of person rarely updates his circle of friends.

Second, as we mentioned just now, there are many social software today, and some people are indifferent to WeChat Moments. On the contrary, they prefer other software, since they have already published their mood and dynamics on other social software, so why bother to post it again on WeChat.

Third, in fact, some people's WeChat friends are not all their friends. If posting updates in the circle of friends is only visible to your relatives and friends, then it is okay to post more moments of friends. In addition to their relatives and friends, there will be some company leaders or customers and some strangers who are not too familiar with the WeChat friend list, and many people do not want to send a circle of friends because they don't want some people to see their true feelings, which is understandable.

But as time goes by, people don't like to post on Moments more and more. Even countless people have set the content of their circle of friends for three days, which can be seen. For Yang Zhi, the content posted is all displayed in the circle of friends, and I will watch it after three days.

I couldn't see anything. What is the reason why so many people do not post on Moments, the reasons are the following first reasons, there are too many familiar people in the Moments, if they post sad and painful things or moods. I am afraid that relatives and friends will worry about worrying about asking long and short questions.

Not only can I not help myself relieve my sorrows, but I also add trouble to myself, so it is better not to send it. And those who flaunt their wealth and happy events are afraid that those with bad intentions will be jealous. So it's better to keep a low profile after thinking about it.

So I didn't send anything at all. The second reason is that the circle of friends has changed its taste, because everyone is promoting products, and the circle of friends has become a dazzling shopping mall. If you feel something, your experience will seem a little out of place.

I still don't send it anymore. The third reason is that the circle of friends is no longer the only place to vent and show off and sigh, because there are too many familiar people here. For example, there are customers, relatives, colleagues, leaders, etc., when you want to send something.

There will always be relapse of concern. For fear of causing something bad to happen, or being treated with bad eyes and words. So it's okay, delete it again, delete it again, and finally end up with no posting, and the above is the reason why I don't like to post Moments more and more.

When I was younger, I was working outside, in my twenties, I didn't have a boyfriend, and I liked to use words to vent my emotions. At that time, I always felt that I was worried about giving new words. Maybe it's sentimental.

At that time, unlike now, mobile phones are smart, and the Internet access is so developed, and at that time, we went to Internet cafes most of the time. I especially like to express my mood in the QQ space. Later, I got married and had children, and I took care of my children every day, and I showed off my baby every day.

In the past two years, there has been less hair all of a sudden, but less money in life. It may not be interesting to think that life is always the same. Now I focus on my own growth, from the content of my life to the present, I will post what I have studied recently and what books I have read.

I rarely read the content in the circle of friends recently, and I only keep it, and I post a *** article in the circle of friends every day, and I don't post much else. The lives of children and families are basically gone. I think there is a process to everything, and if our mind is always in a phase, it means that we are not growing.

You don't like to post on Moments now, maybe your mind is changing somehow. I think it's good that change leads to progress.

But for a record from a long time ago, it looks like it's pretty good now. Isn't there a plate in QQ that year and today? Although I don't post news in QQ now, I often take a look at what I was doing today a few years ago, which is quite interesting.

It doesn't happen without a record, and after so many years, it's impossible for us to remember everything every day. The record of the past will bring us good memories.

It's like I used to post children's updates, and now that the children have grown up, I have forgotten how I used to come over, but these records can make you recall the past. Now I also record, but I won't post some fragments of life in the circle of friends, I will record them in *** articles. If you don't like to post it to your friends, I think you can post some things to a place where you can see them and leave good memories for the future.

Because the person who wanted to send it to him is no longer there, I used to send it to a person to see on Moments, and I wanted him to know the current situation of my life, but now I haven't been in touch with him for a long time, so I don't like to post Moments so much.

More and more people don't like to post on Moments, because they have passed the freshness period of Moments, and they are busy with work, so they have become a little lazy. In addition, there are too many advertisements in the circle of friends now, which is a little annoying.

Because I have matured, I feel that there is no point in posting on Moments, and people still need to face reality.

Because I am getting older, I realize that my life does not need to be shown in front of others, and any problems need to be faced by myself.

<>1) The current friends in the circle of friends are not necessarily their own good friends, some are newcomers who have just been added, do not understand each other, have no in-depth contact, and do not know each other's background. So after breaking off the relationship, I began to worry about whether the other party would announce the ** of his circle of friends or his life interests, hobbies, occupation, and other news to the outside world? Will the spread of this news hurt you?

In the absence of a real good friend, not sending a message will play a role in protecting yourself, that is, you will never come and go, and there is no handle in the hands of the other party, it is better not to post a circle of friends.

2) There are fewer people in the circle of friends who recognize themselves, and people turn a blind eye when they see it. Simply ignore your message, don't even like it, it's boring, it's not interesting, some people like it, they may not really like your message, it's probably out of politeness, just say hello. Some people have commented on your message, whether the other party is praising you or putting forward opinions, you need to reply twice, and you need to reply twice, otherwise it will be rude and feel like you are causing trouble.

3) People who do not want to send a circle of friends have a calm mentality, when they come to the world, they are childlike, and after experiencing the vicissitudes of the world, they return to nature, do not be shaken by everything in the world, only pursue simplicity, the mountain atmosphere is good, the birds are also in harmony, looking back at the bleak place, there is no wind and rain and no sunshine, and there is no sunshine, quiet and nourishing the heart, plain and simple, looking at all things are not shocked, and the mentality is in a state of emptiness. Naturally, I don't think there is any news to send to the circle of friends.

No matter when, what era, now and in the future, most people don't like to expose their preferences, their own dynamics can be private is the safest, whether it is an excellent person or an ordinary person, it is human instinct to protect yourself. Fear of injury is the common nature of human beings, and it is the heart of human beings to protect their own interests from harm. So more and more people don't like to post on Moments.

This Hu Kuan's is because he is busy with work now, and he has no time to share his daily life, and he also pays more attention to his own privacy protection when he is loose with his pants, and he is not willing to have too much communication with these people.