Why are fewer and fewer people posting on Moments?

Why are fewer and fewer people posting on Moments?

I myself rarely post moments, in fact, there is only one reason, that is, the people in WeChat are too complicated, relatives, friends, colleagues, leaders, partners, and some people who do activities and participate in activities. Strangers have relationships with people, hundreds of people.

In front of them, you play a variety of roles, in the eyes of relatives are still petite and weak children, in front of friends you are a funny little madman, in front of colleagues you are a professional and capable person, in front of the leader you are a mature and stable and responsible person, in front of partners you are the supervisor of the unit, in front of those strangers, you are just a person who can bring her benefits.

These roles make your circle of friends unable to post, post some of what you see and hear, it seems to be very small; Send some small things at work, and I am afraid of affecting the company's image in front of partners; The circle of friends who are crazy about it will look stable again.

I feel that the way to post any content is not right, and there will be all kinds of problems. Therefore, I simply don't send it, and life is not just wonderful because of sharing.

And most of the current circle of friends are the world of micro-business, and outside of micro-business, there are also various promotional copywriting of various enterprises, which is not interesting, it used to be brushed several times a day, as if it was not brushed for a while, and it would be missed all over the world Yes, now, just take a look at it in the toilet in the morning, don't miss anything important.

I don't even want to brush it, so how can I be willing to post it on Moments. WeChat has also changed from the original private communication tool to a more chaotic social tool, why is this kind of a public occasion, or be cautious in words and deeds, and protect privacy as the best policy.

Because now sharing the circle of friends can no longer attract people, when I first had WeChat, I believe that everyone will have a habit, that is, no matter at any time, they want to send a circle of friends to share their current status. <>

For example, before eating a meal, everyone will not be in a hurry to eat, but choose various angles to take a ** to share it with the circle of friends, and then always say something angry, and even more excessively, it is to send food to the circle of friends in the middle of the night, which is called late-night poisoning. Then there are some people who post their fitness successes**, and share their joy so that all friends can see their results. There are also some people who will interact with friends in the circle of friends and take a look at ** or something.

And what embarrassing things happened on this day, share with everyone, and so on.

But with the passage of time, the circle of friends is no longer popular, and there are fewer and fewer people who send moments, probably because some people are unwilling to share their lives, only willing to watch other people's lives, and some people have lost the fun of sharing the life of the circle of friends, and it feels very fun to post the circle of friends at the beginning, and now it feels very outdated, there is no fun before, just like there used to be a delicacy in front of you, you will take it down and share it, and later found that the circle of friends is full of food, and everyone sends food, Over time, it feels like it's not so fun, so there will be a lot of people who give up posting on Moments, and feel that they don't have anything interesting to share now.

All in all, there are many joys of life now, and many things are slowly replacing the circle of friends. The circle of friends is slowly being forgotten.

People who send a circle of friends share their joys, sorrows, and sorrows, when they are happy, they hope to share with their friends when they are unsatisfactory, and they also hope that friends will support, so many people like to send friends, and the circle of friends can also send some things that they think are good, so that friends can see the likes and exchanges, the circle of friends is now not just a circle of friends who reduce orders, everyone can send their thoughts to the circle of friends, and some of the social networks that you want to know about at work can also be sent to the circle of friends, because they are all familiar friends, Let friends know more.

If you rarely post moments, the friends in the WeChat address book have become the most familiar strangers. If you learn to use the Internet to interact, this is also a kind of courtesy. In the continuous interaction, we have changed from strangeness to familiarity.

From no intersection to familiarity. As we all know, everyone wants to be noticed, and when you pay attention to others, it is a kind of respect and recognition for others. When you see an article or work posted by someone else in the circle of friends, cheer for your friend by liking, that is, you can see the advantages of others, and you can attract his attention at this time.

If a person is liked by you 5 times or more, he will follow you. No matter what kind of mistake you make, as long as you have the courage to take it and correct it, it is not too bad. Buddhism has clouds:

The bitter sea is boundless, and the shore is turned back. "No matter how far we go or how wrong we are, as long as we are willing to turn back, there will always be a better way out. To err is human; Moreover, making mistakes is indispensable for a long life; Life needs to make mistakes, because there are mistakes, will be self-introspective, self-awakening, self-realization; So as to be better treated with life.

Don't doubt your own ability because of a momentary mistake, and don't deny other people's lives because of a momentary mistake, people live a lifetime, not because of a mistake can be changed. Don't be easily discouraged and compromised, because all the mistakes today are indispensable tests in life, and they are also for that more wonderful tomorrow. Life in the world, always good and bad, right and wrong intersect and match; There is no need to be sad about some things and mistakes, and there is no need to panic when some roads and mistakes are taken.

The journey of life is long, there will always be some ups and downs on the road, and there will always be some mistakes and regrets. We should be glad because on the journey forward, every mistake is another growth in life, and we can only continue to explore and make mistakes.

The answer given by many people is that there are colleagues, bosses, parents, and relatives in their circle of friends.

A lot of things can't be published in the circle of friends, because I don't want others to know that I am not doing well, I don't want my parents to worry, I don't want to be felt by the leader that my ability to resist pressure is weak, and I don't want other people who don't want to do it to misunderstand.

A friend said:The circle of friends is like a public place, what can you do in a public place?

A friend said: I sent it. Several a day. It's just that it's only visible to itself.

There are also friends who feel that because the circle of friends is now full of advertisements for micro-businesses and real estate, the information is mixed, and the circle of friends and colleagues has gradually decreased, so they gradually don't want to watch the circle of friends and don't want to send it.

Because what I want to share has been privately sent to the people I care about.

There are also friends who are "anxious about liking" and feel that after posting on Moments, they will care if anyone likes or comments, and they refresh it vigorously, why no one has liked it yet. Will you think about whether the content you post is inappropriate, is it showing off or is it hypocritical?

The most important thing is to see that those mutual friends don't like it, and the circle of friends you posted doesn't like it, but the dynamics before and after are liked, and I suddenly feel bored.

Of course, there are friends who think, I want to post it, why do I care if those people like it or not, I want to record my past and current life when I post it on Moments. At least in the future, I will remember what I was doing at this time and went there**.

In fact, this is the desire to share.

Sharing the world is still there, that is, sharing all the time.

If you don't want to share, you don't want to post it slowly.

Posting on Moments is not necessarily showing off, and not posting on Moments is not necessarily Qinggao. Your circle of friends, you call the shots, his circle of friends, he decides.

The circle of friends is just your own space, and it is up to you to choose whether to send it or not, and others have no right to ask.

I like a sentence very much, the people ** said: "If you can shoot, you can take pictures, if you want to show off, you must show off, ten years later, no matter how good the camera and technology, you can't shoot such a look, boldly record life, you are now every day, is worth collecting."

There is no good or bad in the circle of friends,It's all about your own way of life。Don't pay more attention to others, don't care what others think of you, focus on your own life.

1.Social stress: Social stress on social** can cause people to feel anxious and uneasy, especially when faced with a lot of information. Many people may have become aware of this stress and therefore choose to reduce or stop sharing their daily routines.

2.Personalization and content quality: Some people may have realized that the content they share isn't personalized enough, or there's not enough fun or valuable content to excite or motivate their fans or friends.

3.Social addiction: Socializing can also lead to addiction, which can interfere with daily life and make it difficult for people to control their time.

4.Lack of inspiration and creativity: Some people may have realized that the content they share lacks creativity and inspiration, so they choose not to repeat the process and instead explore new areas.

Everyone has different situations and thoughts, so the reasons why fewer and fewer people post on Moments may vary from person to person.

1.Privacy and security threats are on the rise. Once the information of the circle of friends is released, it is difficult to control the scope of its circulation and the purpose of use. This semi-public form of social networking is prone to privacy breaches and security threats, and many people choose not to post too many dynamics out of self-preservation.

2.Social fatigue increases. The circle of friends is overloaded with information, and all kinds of meaningless details of life are flooded, which exacerbates people's sense of social fatigue. Many people feel that it is tiring to watch other people's circle of friends, so they choose to stop updating their own dynamics frequently.

3.Tired of virtual competition. Moments are frequently used to show life's best moments and virtual competitions, and many people are tired of this and are reluctant to show it too much and participate in such comparisons.

4.Back to private social. With the rise of various instant messengers, people are more inclined to choose private socialization. Communicate with your friends in small group chats instead of sharing information publicly on social platforms. This also reduces the need for people to post on Moments.

5.The rise of new social platforms. With the advent of new social software, such as TikTok, Discord, etc., satisfies people's needs for social networking and entertainment, distracting attention from the circle of friends.

This is also a reason why the popularity of the current circle of friends has decreased.

In general, the increased awareness of privacy and security, the growth of social fatigue, the boredom of virtual competitions, and the rise of new social tools have all led to more and more people not being keen on updating their circle of friends. People are more focused on private socialization than on over-disclosure of details of their lives. This also seems to reflect a certain change in people's social awareness.

Although the popularity of Moments has cooled down, as a social function, it will continue to evolve as user needs change. People's social content and ways will become more diverse, which requires social products to meet users in a more open and informed form.

In real life. Everyone's life situation is different, and everyone's life experience is different. The circle of friends of hair pants is nothing more than wanting to share some of their good moods.

Every day lives an ordinary life. Nothing to post. Therefore, there are fewer and fewer friends who are calling circles.

Actually, in real life. Some people have less and less time to post on Moments. It doesn't feel like there's anything to do.

Live a life that doesn't change every day. There is no time to send. Not in the mood to post.

There is no chance to send it. Me too, one of them. Personally, I am because of the following aspects and factors, so there are fewer and fewer moments of friends.

The first reason. For a woman who has lived in the countryside for a long time. Every day is made at sunrise and rested at sunset.

There is nothing new to post, so I won't post it on Moments. The second reason. Affected by the pandemic.

In addition to going to the fields every day to do farm work. There is also no chance to walk around. It feels like I'm living an ordinary day every day.

Nothing to the like. That's why I don't post more moments. The third reason.

The living environment is the same every day. The mountain or the mountain? The room is still the room, the road is still the road?

It's been posted before. So now there is nothing worth posting on Moments. The fourth reason.

Due to the impact of the pandemic. Local** policies. It must also be reported if it appears.

Sometimes I go out in a hurry. Hurried back. Reluctant to let others know that they have been out of the house.

So I won't post it on Moments. The fifth reason. Family reasons.

There are elderly people at home who need to be taken care of, and they have to get up early every morning to take their children to school. The time at school is either in the field or doing housework, and I am not in the mood to post on Moments. These are the reasons why I am posting less and less on Moments now.

I post relatively few moments, some people basically have at least one circle of friends every day, and I may have to have one in ten days and half a month. Posting moments is not my habit and normality, basically I only post moments when I have a mood to share, otherwise my moments of friends have always been in a static state. At the beginning, when I used WeChat, I sent more, but then it gradually decreased, until I didn't send it later, I think many people follow this direction, except for those who do micro-business.

The first reason for posting fewer and fewer moments is that there is no content to post, so I simply choose not to post. In addition to the lack of content, for me, not everything and mood can be posted to the circle of friends for people to see, although those people are people who know me, but there are always some moods that are private and do not want to be shared with anyone, this type of information I will not publish on the Internet. Moreover, many people's circle of friends is actually not so simple, there are some other ingredients such as micro-business, and if their mood and ** are stolen, the auction may have a certain impact on Ziyunhe or himself.

In addition, some people may post Moments in order to get the attention of others, but when they fail to get a certain amount of feedback after sending out Moments, the mood and desire to post Moments will weaken, and they will lose interest in Moments. As far as I'm concerned, I don't care so much about this, I just post what I want to say at the moment and can be made public, the picture is a catharsis of the mood, and the rest is not so important, whether anyone responds to the like is not the most important thing, this is my own mood, and it has nothing to do with other people's comments.