Living with parents is getting more and more depressed?

I can tell you clearly that when a person has his own job after becoming an adult, he is financially independent, and he tries not to live with his parents, and always living together, which will inevitably lead to conflicts, especially after marriage.

Living with your parents is becoming more and more depressed, and if it is a problem with your parents, then it is advisable to live separately in this case, because you can't change your parents' practices. But if it's your problem, you need to adjust yourself and ensure a good attitude and good communication with your parents.

In fact, it is a problem in my own mentality, if you look a little optimistic, I don't feel depressed, because although your parents have a generation gap with you, his intentions are good.

If you are still a minor, whether you have the need to be under the guardianship of your parents from a legal point of view, or you have not experienced the baptism of society personally, you still need the guidance and help of your parents.

If you are an adult, you can make your own choices, but you still feel that you need to think about how to communicate with your parents to solve the problem, even if the problem is not finally solved, and you start to communicate, it is also the beginning of your solution to the growing depression.

ps, if you really feel pathologically depressed, you still have to go to a regular hospital to listen to the correct guidance of the doctor.

If you are married and have a family, it is best not to live with your parents, because your parents and young people have different living habits and concepts. Moreover, older people love to take care of things and have to take care of everything, which will make young people in a dilemma. If possible, it is best to move out and live on your own.

Your parents will keep you in charge, and you will feel constrained and depressed.

Hello, thank you for your patience I am happy to answer for you: Dear Hello, being more and more depressed with your parents is the norm for young people now. The most common thing that happens when you live with your parents is that you will always encroach on your children's space and impose on you all the ways they think are good to love.

Your belief in independence grows stronger and stronger, and your need to be independent is growing, and your parents who have no sense of boundaries will still interfere with your behavior. The old man and his children live in Yidou Huiqi, which is actually the torment of two generations, because it can really be very devastating for people with different ideas to live together. The living environment of the older generation is very different from that of today's young people, and they will get used to the original way of life, and there is still no way to correct it when they live with young people.

Summary. 2. There is a barrier to communication with your parentsIn fact, if it is just because of the above reasons, you will not feel how unhappy it is to get along with your parents. Just do a good job of communication and clear up misunderstandings. But often, communication is the biggest problem between the two generations.

Hello, there may be the following reasons why being with your parents is very depressing: 1. Parents forcibly discipline your parents because they have watched you grow up since you were a child, and in their concepts, they always subconsciously think that you are still a child who does not have the ability to make decisions, so they want to help you make some decisions. And these decisions are often expressed in an oppressive way.

2. There is a barrier to communication with your parentsIn fact, if it is just because of the above reasons, you will not feel how unhappy it is to get along with your parents. Just do a good job of communication and clear up misunderstandings. But often, communication is the biggest problem between the two generations.

How to get rid of this oppressive feeling? In fact, it is necessary to do a good job of communicating with parents, so this question can also be modified to, how to communicate effectively with parents? Empathy, in psychology, refers to the ability to experience the inner world of others. In communication, it can also be said to be the ability to empathize.

I feel like my mom is finding fault in every word, no matter what I say, she has to refute me, I feel that she ignores it and wants to argue that I am wrong, so annoying that I want to be depressed.

I don't want to communicate with them.

Don't think so, after all, they are your parents to rely on, and no matter how bad they are, they are also your biological parents.

It may be that they are also unconscious behaviors.

Their intentions are still good, like their parents' generation, they may not have read any books, and they don't know how to express a sentence is appropriate.

Summary. You said that you are getting more and more depressed with your parents, depression is unspeakably uncomfortable, this feeling is very tangled, it is the feeling of being bitter and hard to say, and you have been in a depressed state for a long time, making yourself very powerless.

You bent to say that you are getting more and more depressed with your parents, depression is unspeakably uncomfortable, this feeling is very tangled, it is the kind of feeling that it is difficult to say that Zheng Yanjue buried Cong He, and he was in a depressed state for a long time, making himself very powerless.

Honey, I think you really want to make yourself more cheerful and relaxed, you think it is the relationship between your parents and you that has caused you to be sleepy now, and you guess Li Nian doesn't know what to do to disturb the clan.

My dear, I can feel that you are in a very bad state, for what to do, I want to tell you, improving the relationship with your parents is the key, the reason why you are depressed, on the one hand, your parents are more strong to you, your parents say you must do it, you can't refute or dare not express your thoughts with your parents, such an interaction accumulated, is to be obedient, on the one hand, you are like a puppet manipulated by others, very mechanical, on the other hand, your own thoughts hidden in your heart are always contradictory and vague, You seem to be very used to it for so many years, but you are not willing, you want to say no to your parents, but you don't know how to say it, the more you can't say it, the more uncomfortable it becomes, and your heart is always like pressing a big stone, so that you can't breathe all the time. My dear, you are very distressing, I really want to give you a strength, let it support you, from the simplest things in front of you to say your true thoughts, do what you want to do, you like to eat frankly, what clothes you like can also be clearly told to parents, a little bit, people have their own ideas, and work hard for it, there will be a sense of strength, a sense of direction, dear, from now on everything you want to do, don't be afraid to do wrong, don't be afraid of your parents' opposition, Just do what you want, dear, come on.

In the family, the child is the bottom. When a child receives too much garbage from his parents and cannot feedback it to his parents in the same way, his psychology has begun to "mutate" and his personality has changed. When a child receives too much garbage from his parents and cannot feedback it to his parents in the same way, his psychology has begun to "mutate" and his personality has changed.

If the parental relationship is not harmonious and the parent-child relationship is weak, it will affect the child's self-perception. Especially in childhood, when children form a sense of self-awareness, if they do not have enough security, they will not be able to develop their independent selves well. They tend to think that they are worthless and unvalued.

When I grew up, I had low self-esteem and no self-confidence in myself.

Under normal circumstances, parents are the first teachers of children, parents will give children a lot of education, so that children are happy, positive, sunny growth, if you live with your parents, easy to produce depression, maybe there are problems in your family, maybe the relationship between parents is not harmonious, which affects your emotions, so that you have an uneasy heart, or it may be that the discipline of parents is too strict, everywhere is restricted, for example, you are not allowed to play mobile phones, play games, chase dramas, You think that this deprives you of your freedom and makes you feel uncomfortable, so when you are with your parents, you may be more prone to depression than other children, and the most important thing is that you have a problem with the way you communicate with your parents, and you do not have an effective exchange of ideas, which will make you feel depressed. In the end, it is caused by your thinking factors, and the lack of positive, upward, and positive energy is prone to this kind of depression.