How do you get along with people you don t like when you first see them?

In fact, we do meet some people you don't like in life and work, and even at first sight, you will be disgusted or hated from the bottom of your heart, in this case, the most direct idea is to stay away from this kind of person and don't associate with him, which may be people's instinctive reaction. However, there are two sides to everything in fact, and we cannot make subjective assumptions. Especially when you meet a new colleague at work, you may not like him in your heart when you meet him for the first time, or you may hate him in his speech and behavior.

But you can't judge people on that. My countermeasures, first, don't make too much contact with him at first, because you don't know him at all at first, you can have some proper distance between each other, and don't go along with him, and get to know him in a hurry. But don't show that you have different types of people's faces and actions towards people.

Because we all have times when we make mistakes in judgment, if you do this, you are taking the initiative to give others a sense of disrespect, and then you are wrong. The second is to slowly observe and understand him in his usual work, and a person can also be seen in the subtleties....You can also understand and analyze him from the words of colleagues, so that you can objectively compare the situation and adjust your mentality in real time, so that you will not encounter embarrassing things recklessly. Third, when you have direct contact with him, you must be good at discovering his changes in expression and behavior, and understand his psychological condition.

Treat him with a kind heart and respect others! Try to communicate in words, and there seems to be a sense of estrangement between them? If not?

Slowly, the distance between them will be narrowed. In short, everyone wants to get along with people well, even if you meet people you don't like, you can't offend people, everyone must have everyone's circle, everyone's living environment is different, and the personality is not the same, only together slowly understand and tolerate each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, be good at discovering each other's advantages, and get along with others with heart, I believe that the relationship between them will slowly get better! That's how I deal with people I don't like at first sight, take your time with everything, maybe time can change your initial thoughts?

Don't leave regrets, get along well around, and be happy to have more friends.

I don't have a good impression at first sight, don't waste time and feelings if you don't like people, get along with him, because getting along with people you don't like will make you feel bad and unhappy, rather than this, it's better not to get along with each other, out of sight, not upset, everything just follow your feelings, just have a clear conscience, no need to mind what others think, and don't have to take care of other people's emotions, so as to force yourself and seek satisfaction.

If you see someone you don't like at first sight, I think it depends on each person's personality, and some people may not care about other people's eyes and ignore them directly. If you are an adult, especially in the workplace, your performance and getting along with your colleagues are normal, and you will definitely encounter such a situation in your daily life, I think no matter what you think in your heart, how you look at others, don't show it on the surface, this is not a deep city, but a reflection of a person's emotional intelligence. Because it is impossible for everyone to like him, everyone will have his strengths, we can try to find the strengths of others, so that when it is inevitable to get along with him, at least you will not be so repulsive.

If you don't like it, it means that there is a difference in personality or cognition, and the three views must be very different, and this kind of person is not anywhere. There's no need to cater to it. If he's helpful in some aspect of himself, then do a superficial job of coping, and when things are done, he won't be in frequent contact after expressing his gratitude.

Because getting along with this kind of person is likely to become this kind of person after a long time, so in order to avoid becoming annoying yourself, it is better not to contact it.

Actually, everyone has their own aesthetic point of view. It's nothing more than the outside and the inside. No one is perfect, why care about the shortcomings and look at the advantages of others.

You will find a different him. Therefore, it is recommended to discover the advantages of others, and even a subtle movement and eyes. Respecting others is also respecting yourself.

I've met someone like this before, it's my friend's boyfriend. Once we went to dinner together, halfway his boyfriend called ** and asked her where she was, and then she just told us our address, and her boyfriend came to her and brought two men. At that time, I thought his boyfriend was very sloppy at first sight, but I didn't expect to be guessed, and that night, her boyfriend added me to WeChat and said that he would invite me to dinner.

It was really disgusting at the time, and I felt that such a man was really scum. But out of the sake of my friend's face, I didn't reply after a few perfunctory sentences. Later, her boyfriend made all kinds of rounds and asked my friend to invite me to hang out, but I refused.

Soon the two of them broke up, and the man blatantly went to me and wanted to deal with me. For this kind of person, I am really disgusted, and the previous reluctance was just to give my friend face, and now that I have no relationship with friends, I will directly block him, and by the way, warn him not to bother me again, and then I have never contacted him again.

Whether it is in society, in the workplace, at school, or among relatives and friends, we will always meet some people who do not have a good feeling. Some people are in the way of affection, even if they don't like it, they pretend to like it, so that they can get by on their faces, and they complain and abuse vigorously behind their backs. In fact, there is no need at all, since there is no good impression at first sight, why bother to pretend to be yourself?

Besides, I don't know each other when we meet for the first time, so if I don't like it, I don't talk about it, how can I be happy, and I will only make myself unhappy if I love face too much. If two people are forced to be in the same environment every day, it is inevitable to look up and not look down, then you can do a nodding acquaintance, and you don't need to be overly familiar with yourself to find trouble.

Human intuition is sometimes very accurate. If you don't like it, you don't get along, life is short, why embarrass yourself? If there is an intersection at work that cannot be avoided, then you just need to grasp the proportions, only talk about work, and do not talk about anything else.

It depends on the situation, and there is no way to talk about work alone. If it's a personal relationship, then I don't feel the need to get along, and it's a waste of time to be together if you don't fit in.

There is a kind of joy that is like this at the beginning, all kinds of annoyance, but after fighting, the two of them come together.

Normal friends, don't have any prejudice, look at the advantages, not blindly look at the shortcomings.

Why do you want to get along if you don't like it, isn't this embarrassing for yourself and others?

If you don't like it when you first meet, then you should know how to respect it.

Let's just talk a few words, not that you have to talk to him much.

The boy who is not impressed at first sight, the girl does not want to continue, but the boy insists on working hard, and the girl will change her mind. My current boyfriend is actually the person I didn't think I would like at first sight. When I first met him, my impression of him was that he was thin and not tall, and he was not very white.

In later contact, I found that he often took special care of me, so, according to the girl's sixth sense, I began to avoid and minimize contact with macros or changes. Because I don't think I like him, I don't want to delay him in spending time on me, and the thought of facing him during that time is actually very stressful.

But then one night he waited for me downstairs for the night, and I remember the determined look in his eyes when he saw it. He said, "I think you must have felt it."

I don't want to continue to pretend to be stupid, I really like you, I've already thought about every day with you in the future, you don't have to worry about me, it doesn't matter if you don't like it now, I'll let you like me, you can tell me the day you like me.

Every day after that, I realized that he was so attentive that he was one step ahead of me in everything, and he finished many things as soon as he finished speaking. What's even more terrifying is that you can always think of a lot of ways to make you unable to dodge, and you may still resist at first, but slowly you start to get used to having him around. Later, I really got with him, amazing, right?

I myself think it's amazing, this boy I always think I don't like, unconsciously secretly lives in my heart, and I love this boy more and more in the company of the accumulation of time. I already felt that there was no one else who loved me as much as he did, so I began to love him very much.

There are a variety of possible reasons that can cause some people to have feelings of dislike when they first meet, and here are some possible reasons:

Appearance factors: Some people may react differently to physical features, such as personal preferences, cultural differences, gender bias, and more. So a person's appearance may affect the impression that others have of them.

Communication Style: Some people may feel uncomfortable when communicating, perhaps because of their tone, expressions, posture, etc. These factors affect the interaction between people.

Preconceived notions: Some people may already have preconceived notions about someone, such as based on other people's reviews or social information, and these impressions may influence their attitude when they first meet.

Personality differences: Everyone's personality is different, some people may not be compatible with your personality, or some people may behave in a way that violates your bottom line, these factors may affect your impression of certain people.

Subconscious reactions: Sometimes we may subconsciously have a feeling of liking or disliking someone, which may be due to some reasons that we cannot explain, such as the history of human evolution and the environment, etc.

At first sight, it is called love at first sight. And if you don't have a heart at first sight, will you choose to continue dating? In fact, I think the impressions that arise from the first contact between the two parties have a great impact on the future relationship.

People who don't like it at first sight, it will be difficult to like each other again in the future, some people are in the vast sea of people, just need to look at it and it is doomed, you will have a different story in your next life, and some people may not be able to get closer even if they meet every day.

Reality is complex, human nature is changeable, and there is no uniform model and standard that fits all situations. Although in life, many people do not fall in love with each other at first sight. But it's not a big deal to keep dating.

Although there is no heart at first sight, it does not mean that they hate each other, which also leaves a foreshadowing for the continued interaction between the two parties. When you are lonely, empty, and single, you might as well continue to associate as a friend. As a friend of Senhuki, after gradually getting to know each other, some people will have feelings.

Some people are slow-burning, and they may not feel anything at first, nor do they have a little bit of excitement, but they will feel and appreciate the advantages and benefits of each other in the process of contact, and be attracted by the hidden flashes of the other party. So without hating each other, there is no harm in continuing to date, and there are even unexpected joys. There are also too many examples in life that can prove this situation.

Yes, and in my experience, I think there are several types of people who fit into this situation.

The first type of people are those who often have a gloomy face and rarely communicate with people, I think the first time I see this person, even if you want to talk to him and make friends, you will want to stop talking when you see the other party's gloomy face, and even if you make friends, no one will teach a person who doesn't say anything all day long and needs to rely on you to enliven the atmosphere, then this kind of girlfriend is too hard to make.

The second type of person, on the contrary, is the kind of person who talks a lot and can't stop his mouth, just like a chatterbox, I want to make friends with this kind of person, it must not be so easy, after all, with the chatterbox, you can only listen to him every day BB and he always says some non-nutritious words, you are good when you are in a good mood, and it will be more annoying when you are in a bad mood.

The third type of people are those who like to use their hands and feet, they like to hit you when they have nothing to do, and they seem to be tired of it, and they think it's fun, this kind of person I generally think is relatively naïve, and no one likes to be with a person who likes to laugh and play all day long, and must not be tired to death.

There is another type of person, that is, the kind of people who are impolite and have no public morality, it was a gathering of friends, I introduced another person to me with a good friend and said to make a friend, and the wolf head readily agreed, but I still wanted to observe what this person was like, but I just sat down for a while, I found that this person likes to speak foul language, and spits, at that time I felt that this person was quite unqualified, and my heart was more resistant to being friends with this kind of person, and after that, I was also curious to ask me how my good friend knew this kind of person, it looked so bad. Sure enough, after that, my concept was proven, and my friends slowly distanced themselves from this person because of some of this person's words and deeds, and they all stopped interacting with each other.

Therefore, the first impression you make on others is very important, because others will judge whether you are worthy of making friends based on this, and if you behave badly, I think it will have a big impact on your circle of friends.