What to do with people you can t get used to?

If you can't change him, please change yourself, if this is your good friend, you can make suggestions, if it's an ordinary classmate, forget it, because there are too many such people, his behavior will bring consequences to himself, the more you hate a person, you will be angry, and then your temper will become bad, or your behavior will be uncontrollable, all you have to do is not to have anything to do with him, what you have to worry about is the person you care about, not a classmate who has nothing to do with so-and-so, and you pay attention to others every day, What about your own, sometimes I tell my dad about some people and things around me, and he will think that I am not motivated, because I have not reassured myself and my future, otherwise how can I have so much time to take care of others? I think there is some truth in this, the relationship between classmates when you are a student is very important, but it is not your friend's business, so you don't care so much, please focus on your career.

On the other hand, everyone is not a bad person, it is impossible to be heinous, there must be a side worth learning from you, magnifying the shortcomings of others will make your thinking narrow, so, read more books and don't let yourself be so impetuous.

When you are flexible with everything that is happening in front of you, and you are not used to seeing other people's behavior or attitude, from another point of view, it may be that you yourself are already behind this era. All in all, when you see people and things around you again, don't be depressed, take it subjectively as an opportunity to improve yourself, and to put it simply, look at it from a different perspective. Slowly you will change your perspective.

You can choose to ignore someone you don't like to look at, but it's best to make him not see that you ignore him, that is, just keep saying hello normally.

It's certainly a good idea to ignore someone you don't like, but ignoring it completely can lead to being very stingy.

It is advisable to keep some communication, although you are not used to it but he still exists, there is no way, so we can only let ourselves try to accept it.

According to the definition of this sentence, maturity is to look at others in a pleasing manner. In this regard, I want to ask, if someone slaps you, will you still look at the other person? Further, if the other party uses further windfall profits to infringe on you, will you still deceive yourself into looking at the other person's eyes?

Therefore, for reading this kind of thing, it is also necessary to use the brain, and it is necessary to compare theory with reality, and not to be confused.

In work and life, there are indeed some people and things that make us feel uncomfortable and unpleasant. So, what should you do when you encounter this kind of thing?

1.Reflection. To err is human? It's not necessarily someone else's problem, when you can't get used to others, maybe others can't get used to you. It may be that there is something wrong with your mentality, or that you are emotionally controlled.

Therefore, the first thing I need to do is to see if there are some things I have not done well and reflect on my words and deeds. Or you can refer to the opinions of the people around you, as the old saying goes, the authorities are confused and the bystanders are clear.

If it's really your own problem, then you need to make a determination to correct it.

Sometimes, we may not recognize our own problems because our experience or cognitive level is not enough. So, don't come up with the idea that it must be someone else's problem.

2.Shift your own perspective.

After reflection, if you don't do well, you should try to correct it. But sometimes you do encounter some freaks, the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. But if these people do not harm their own interests, it is better to be patient and not to cause trouble for themselves.

Come to think of it, most people can't even change themselves, let alone expect others to change them. Of course, proper communication is still possible.

It is very important to realize that a person's personality, way of doing things, values, etc., are all caused by a combination of factors such as his family and educational background, and his upbringing. When we are able to look at a person from the perspective of cause and effect, there is more understanding.

So. 3.Aloof.

If we do our own introspection and try to change our opinions, we still can't bear it. Then you can choose to leave the current people and things and change yourself to a new environment.