Can I go back to my parents house during confinement, and do I have to go back to my parents home

Can't a married daughter go back to her parents' house for confinement? The reasons are none other than these points, don't ignore them.

1. Rules for women to return to their parents' homes after confinement.

At least one month, it should be said that all places are such rules, whether a woman is confined or a small confinement, at least a month before she can go out to someone else's house. Otherwise, it will bring bad luck to other people's homes.

In the community, we can often hear words such as "touching the spoon and not killing the father-in-law, the dead mother-in-law", "holding the pillar of fire and the father-in-law not dying, the dead son-in-law" and so on. Although these words are very feudal and superstitious, and there is no scientific basis, because they have been circulated among the people for a long time, they are easy to form poisonous curses. Even if you know it's fake, hearing it often will have a bad effect on your heart.

Therefore, when the bride returns to her parents' home, it is best to follow these customs and try not to touch these taboo things. Generally, you can go back to your parents' home 50 days after giving birth, and you should pay attention to rest during the confinement and don't see the wind.

2. Precautions for confinement.

1. It is advisable to drink more soup after giving birth.

Plenty of fluids should be given after giving birth. However, most of the new mother's milk ducts are not completely unblocked, so don't be too anxious to drink the soup to promote lactation, otherwise it may hurt so much that you want to cry during the first two or three days after giving birth. You can drink a little bit of egg soup, fish soup (except for crucian carp soup, which promotes milk) and other lighter soups (breastfed babies will have blistering lips due to their mother's salty soup), but in summer because they sweat more, you can add a little salt to the soup.

2. Suitable for work and rest.

Moderate labor and rest are very helpful for the discharge of lochia, and the recovery of muscles and bones. At the beginning of the postpartum period, when the mother feels weak, dizzy and fatigued, she must rest in bed more, and the time to get up should not exceed half an hour, and the time can be slightly extended when the physical strength gradually recovers, and the time is limited to 1 hour to 2 hours, so as to avoid standing or sitting for a long time, resulting in backache, back pain, leg pain, knee and ankle joint pain.

Can you go back to your parents' home during confinement?

After a woman gives birth to a child, she is very weak and needs careful care of her mother. Because mothers know their children's preferences, and mothers will tell their mothers what they want to eat, but there is a folk saying that mothers can't go back to their parents' homes. So, can you go back to your parents' home during confinement?

It is best for the mother not to be confined in her mother's house, in addition to superstitious sayings, at the same time, confinement in her mother's house has the following many disadvantages:

1. It is inconvenient to go back and forth in confinement at my mother's house.

No matter how close a woman is to her mother's home after marriage, there will be a distance, and it is not as close as returning to her own home. It may not be easy to use, and it is too troublesome to go back and forth from home. After the confinement, you have to do the full moon wine, which needs to be done at home, and the toss between the mother and the newborn back and forth is not good for the body.

It is recommended that it is better not to be confined at your mother's house, and if you want your mother to take care of yourself, you can let your mother live at home.

2. After all, I don't live in my mother's house often, and it is inconvenient for my husband to serve.

To take care of the mother, the husband should be by his side, the mother will be much easier, and it is also convenient to help take care of the child. If you are confined at your mother's house, it is also awkward for your son-in-law who does not often live in her father-in-law's house. If you let your husband go home to live, then it is not good to take care of the children at night and always ask the elderly to help, it is better for the husband to use his peace of mind.

You don't have to go back to your parents' house after confinement.

The confinement period is a period when your body is relatively weak, and you are deficient in qi and blood, which is not suitable for running back and forth.

Now that you have been married, there is your future main number Chunchang battlefield, even if you have 100,000 unwilling, this has become a fact. If you give birth to a child related to this family, you are destined to be inextricably linked to this family for the rest of your life, so many problems must be faced and solved, not avoided.

When your mother's family is there, your mother-in-law's family treats you very well, at least it shows that they still take care of your mother's family and are willing to choose to be good to you at all times.

Precautions for confinement:

Generally, you can take a bath and wash your hair one week after giving birth, but you must keep scrubbing the bath, and you can't take a bath, so as not to pour the dirty water used in the bath into the reproductive tract and cause infection. After 6 weeks, Sen Sen can take a shower.

The living room should be ventilated frequently, and the indoor temperature should not be too high, nor too high or low. In the past, it was often said that the doors and windows should be closed tightly, and the mother should be covered with a thick quilt at any time, which is very dangerous, especially in summer, and it is very easy to cause heat stroke.

During the confinement period, it is most appropriate to avoid the wind blowing directly from the electric fan, do not turn on the air conditioner to the mother, and set the room temperature at about 25 to 28 degrees Celsius. <>