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For the issue of marriage, I believe many people are particularly concerned. And when we reach the age suitable for marriage, we will choose some suitable partners for marriage, so if you meet a suitable person for marriage, but you don't love him, will you choose to get married or be friends?
In fact, for many people, choosing a mate is particularly important, so everyone will carefully consider their marriage partner. And will also choose a marriage partner that is very suitable for them in all aspects, but if they are at the right age, they are often urged by their families when they meet a marriage partner, and there will be some people who are forced to get married. So if I meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but I don't love him, I won't choose to get married, I will choose to be friends with the other person.
In fact, when it is the right age to get married, everyone will have some anxiety, so we will find that some people around us are not ready to get married hastily and live a life that they do not want. Therefore, I think that in order not to regret or regret yourself, you must choose a marriage partner who satisfies you in all aspects, so that you can have a very good marriage. Or if you meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but you don't love him, don't choose to marry the other party easily, and being a friend may be a better choice.
So if I meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but I don't love him, I will choose to be a friend.
To sum up, if I meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but I don't love him, I will choose to be friends with the other person. Originally. Marriage must be based on the feelings between two people, so that you can have a happy marriage, if you just meet a more suitable object, but you don't love him, you shouldn't marry each other, because this may make your future self regret.
Therefore, we must think twice before choosing a marriage partner and choose a marriage partner that we are most satisfied with.
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In this case, of course, you have to choose to get married, it is not easy to meet a suitable person for marriage, although you don't like him now, but through your contact and understanding for a period of time, you will slowly like it.
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If the object doesn't love himself, then it's useless to be suitable at this time, of course, he still chooses to be a friend, if he chooses to get married, this marriage will definitely not be happy, and each other will not last long for love.
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If you meet a suitable marriage partner, but you don't love him, you can try to get along with him for a while to cultivate a relationship, and if you can, you can choose to get married. If not, be friends.
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I have met someone who is suitable for marriage, but I don't love him, I may choose to be friends with him, at least for the time being, I will not decide to marry him, unless I feel that I am in love with him after spending time with him, then I may not consider getting married.
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Arrange it first, if you can find out the spark, then talk about love, after the test of time, the right person, then get married, if not suitable, then break up.
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Hello, I met someone who is suitable for marriage but I don't love him, I will choose to be a friend, not to marry him, you must find your true love is right.
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I would choose to be friends because I think there must be affection between two people when married, and if you don't love him, it's better not to get married.
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I will choose to be a friend, if it is a suitable person to marry, his conditions should be very compatible with me, it is not bad to be a friend, but I don't love him, and choosing to marry him is actually very unfair to him.
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When you meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but you don't love him, will you choose to get married or be friends? I think I will choose to get married, after all, it is not easy to find a suitable partner to marry. That is to say, he loves you, but you don't love him.
So I think it's better to get married in the best case. Over time, you will like him.
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After all, although it is suitable for marriage, it may not be suitable for yourself, so you should consider it carefully.
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Since you don't love him, you won't marry him, although this person is very suitable for marriage, but because there is no love in your heart, two people will feel bored together, so it's better to treat it as a friend.
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I will choose to get married, because the right person to marry is the right one, so that I can ensure that I don't hate it after marriage, and I can cultivate feelings.
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In this case, of course, I won't marry him, I will choose to be a friend, although I meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but I can't marry him if I don't love him.
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It is recommended not to harm others, don't marry each other if you don't love each other, or be friends and hurt less.
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I met someone who is suitable for marriage, but if I don't love her, I will choose to be a friend, because marriage is a lifelong thing, and if there is no love, the marriage will be unhappy after marriage.
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I will choose to treat him as a friend, and maybe the conditions will change in the future, and I can consider developing him into a marriage partner, rather than getting along with him for the purpose of marriage from the beginning.
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If I meet a suitable marriage partner, but I don't love him, I will choose to be a friend, because the person I don't love will have an unhappy life and will not be happy even if I get married, so I still choose to be a friend.
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If you don't like each other, then you may treat each other secretly when you get married, even if it's suitable, it's not love If you get married for the sake of getting married, you may not be very happy I think it's better to be friends It's also good to have a good friend for yourself.
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I think it depends on whether I have to get married at that time, and if I have reached the age of marriage, then I have met a suitable person to marry, then I should choose to get married. But if I was still young and had the opportunity to meet someone who was more suitable for me, then I would have chosen to be friends with him.
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When I meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but I don't love him, I will choose to be a friend, after all, marriage is a long time, and it is difficult to maintain a long-term relationship without love as a foundation.
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I won't choose, I think it's okay to say yes, there are no friends, and then there is no such person in marriage, there is no need to force together, this is something that is not necessary.
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When you meet someone who is suitable for marriage, but you don't love him, you will choose to treat him as a friend instead of marrying him.
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If you still have a choice, and you are not particularly old, of course, you should continue to be patient to find, you can participate in more blind dates, let others introduce more, choose and choose, if you are impatient, and want to start a family, just find a suitable one.
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If you meet someone who is suitable for marriage, if you don't love him, you can make a new relationship, you can get married in the future, and if you can't, then you can be good friends.
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Since you are not such a person, why do you still meet someone suitable for marriage? Think of him as an object. If you have this kind of thought, it is better not to choose to get married, but to choose to be friends.
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met a suitable person for marriage, but if you don't love him, you must treat each other as a friend, and you will never choose to marry him.
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Yes. I will choose to marry a person I don't like, but the right person, and a person I don't like to marry has the following characteristics: first, the division of labor is clear, there are not many contradictions, it is precisely because there is no use of feelings between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many contradictions in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women blindly ask to be loved, she will have a lot of strange requirements. So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.
Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value Women are often always thinking about whether the other half loves them or not, and she will feel happy when she feels loved, and she will feel sad on the contrary. In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today. So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?
Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it. For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers are not worth looking forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she bought and what her husband bought, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person. Third, men are more likely to succeed Men's character should be neither humble nor arrogant.
I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one. There will always be women who will appreciate you.
Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better. You were born to your parents, and you have been poor and stripped for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.
When you marry someone who doesn't like fugue, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't have to go through all kinds of messy holidays, and you don't have to deal with your wife's changing emotions. Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly. So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe choose a suitable marriage partner is happier.
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Like is temporary, but suitable is a lifetime, so I will pursue likes and suitable, and if I really can't choose the right one. After all, living a suitable life is more important than liking.
1. Firewood, rice, oil and salt will dilute the vigorous love. A suitable silver book means that the other party has a lot of merits suitable for marriage.
When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.
Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.
It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience, people who have experienced marriage will choose yes, the reason is that what you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old, and you will not love now, and you will live with someone who is suitable for you, and in the end, you are not used to life if you are not love.
2. Over time, two people will become a habit of fighting for a long time together, feeling like relatives, unable to leave each other, love is not common in marriage, if it is me I think I will find a suitable person, because I myself do not believe in love, since I think the role of love in marriage is not as important as the Mo tacit understanding between two people together, I have seen many people in life think that they have found true love, desperate to marry with joy, and jump into it alone but end up very unhappy,. Life is different from TV series, there are too many things to consider, find someone who doesn't hate being nice to you to marry, and there will be surprises when you get along slowly.
And if you meet someone who can make you feel at ease to get married, then it means that you are very sensible, because there are very few people who can share the ups and downs with you, and you can clearly distinguish the difference between marriage and lovers, the person you love may not be able to give you happiness, and the person who loves you may not necessarily like it. Happiness is unattainable, fate is fleeting, the key is to close your rational choice, if you can choose soberly, then congratulations on you are happy in this life, if you want to choose the person you like, then in this life you have to have the determination to pay for each other. Happiness is bland.
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I don't think I will.
1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.
The most important factor in marriage is the relationship between each other. Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap a lifetime of happiness. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.
And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.
2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.
The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and he will not be able to marry such a person.
3. Love at first sight is hard to find, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.
Love at first sight, although romantic, is a difficult thing to find after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and this kind of marriage can make you the happiest.
4. If I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for marrying, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if you don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be slowly cultivated, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.
When we meet someone we like, but they don't like us, don't stalk them, that will only make the other party hate us more, go with the flow and stay with each other more, let the other party get used to their existence, and slowly the relationship between two people will heat up.
When I was in high school, I met someone who was lukewarm to me, and many times always didn't talk and didn't have any fun, and we ended up parting.
Keep your sanity and think carefully about your current marriage. If the family is happy now, and you like others just for the novelty, then you have to learn to refuse. After all, you also chose to get married when you liked it before.
I think this kind of thing varies from person to person, and you have to listen to your heart's choice. Especially for such a big thing, don't let others make decisions for you, because if you regret it, no one will bear the consequences of regret for you, whether it is suitable for yourself or love yourself, you must consider your own heart.
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