Can I go back to my parents house if I am confined for less than a month?

I think it's better to do confinement for a month. Do it for a full month. Travel can be even more.

After giving birth to a baby, it takes a period of time for her body to get a good recovery, so during this period, in addition to conditioning her body, she can not move around at will. But many mothers will have the idea of going back to their parents' homes and getting more care from their parents' families. So, what happens if you don't go back to your parents' house without a full moon, why can't you go back to your parents' house without a full moon?

Let's find out.

For mothers, the body is very weak after giving birth, so they are in confinement.

During the period, you can't move around at will, so as not to recover well and fall into the root of the disease, so if you don't go back to your parents' house after the confinement, the confinement will not be able to raise well, and it will also have a certain impact on the newborn baby. In terms of customs, generally those who have brothers and sisters in the family will oppose returning to their parents' homes, because the older generation says that the mother will bring the bad luck of confinement back to her parents' home. So whether it is from the physical aspect or the older generation, it is better not to go back to your parents' house before the full moon, it is easy to have problems, and then the gains outweigh the losses.

That's my answer to the question of not returning to my parents' home before the full moon. During the confinement period, we must take care of our body, do not let ourselves be overtired, and ensure sufficient sleep; In terms of diet, it is also necessary to pay attention to light and balanced nutrition.

The reasons for returning to her parents' home after confinement are as follows:

1. Parents take better care of them. Parents know better about their children's preferences, know some of their daughter's habits and taboos, and their parents' parents will definitely focus on the mother's body, rather than the newborn, which is more conducive to the mother's physical recovery. In terms of the environment, the mother's house is where the mothers grew up, and the mothers will be more relaxed when they are confined here.

2. Communicate smoothly to avoid bad emotions. The mother who has just given birth, due to the hormone balance in the body and other reasons, is particularly sensitive and unstable, and the parents will definitely consider their daughter's feelings before speaking, and will not say anything that hurts their daughter. Moreover, in front of their own mothers, mothers can speak freely and pour out their worries and worries without holding them in their hearts for a long time.

The most feared thing about confinement is poor mood, which not only affects the recovery of the mother itself, but also affects the baby.

Because he has lived in his mother-in-law's house for a month, every woman basically wants to go back to her parents' house when the moon is full, because it is not easy to know her parents until she has a child.

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Hello, hello, kiss the customs of each place are different, some people say that the child must be the child's grandfather or uncle to pick up the child when he returns to his parents' house in person, and some people say that the child's father should be sent to the child's grandmother's house in person, and there is no need for the grandmother's family to come to pick up, for the customs of various places are different, the mother should also respect different customs, but there is no need to pay too much attention to it, as long as you can return to your mother's house safely. When returning to their parents' home, mothers should remember to bring their children's belongings, such as: feeding bottles, milk powder, diapers, clothes, socks and other necessities.

On the way back, mothers should calm their children's emotions, maybe it is the first time to go out, let the baby listen to ** or give a small toy to play with, distract from it. Although there are different customs in various places, for many young people, no matter who picks them up, how to pick them up, it doesn't matter, as long as they can return to their parents' home smoothly and safely, the baby will not cry or make trouble on the way, and will not pay attention to too many customs.

<> fact, the key to going to ** confinement is to see people, if the mother-in-law's family is willing to go back to the mother's house for confinement, there is no problem at all.

In order to avoid conflicts, the mother can wait until after the confinement at home to go to her parents' house, which is at least 42 days after giving birth.

The hospital chosen by the mother to give birth to the child is generally near her home, or near the mother-in-law's house, not near the mother's house, so it is very far to go back to her mother's house for confinement, and it takes a long distance to do the full moon wine, so not only the mother but also toss the child, once infected with wind and cold on the road, the consequences are unimaginable.

Because the full moon has to go back to my mother's house, and then our place is called Nowo. Hey, I'm going home that night.

After the child is full moon, the grandmother's family will take the daughter and grandson or granddaughter to live at home for a few days, which is the "full moon", and people in the old family call this "hiding in the urine", thinking that it is beneficial to the physical and mental health of adults and children. Generally, they live in their parents' house for a few days, but they can't stay for a long time, and there is a saying that "it's enough to stay for a long time, and I don't want to go back to my parents' house in the future."

If it is a boy to pick up four days in advance, if it is a girl to pick up two days in advance, people call this "grab three", which means that grandma hurts, uncle loves, and children are pampered. Before setting off to "hide in the urine", you should fold a bunch of peach branches, and tie 5 peanuts and 7 copper coins with red threads on it. The custom of the countryside is planted, the peach branch can drive away evil spirits, the peanut symbolizes a long life of 100 years, and the copper coin has the meaning of seven stars shining high, and people and wealth are prosperous.

When picking up the child, you should also prepare, wash the child's face and rub the powder, and then put red dots on the forehead, nose, and cheeks, in the rural vernacular, it is "dust off a little flower face", cover your head with the red diapers brought by your mother, and carry the prepared items to go on the road. It is said that the little flower face can make the gods not recognize, the little ghost is frightened, and the red diaper of the mother's family can block all kinds of evil spirits.

After arriving at grandma's house, first to uncover the diaper, grandma hugged by the concubine, no concubine can find a familiar woman to replace, as the saying goes, "grandma hug, concubine pick-up, nephew can live a hundred", and then symbolically beat and scold, "grandma's legs, little turtle grandchildren" and the like, so that after the child is beaten and scolded, the child does not leprosy grandma's house, that is, in grandma's house does not get sick. After beating and scolding, take the child to the stove, pee, and let the child take a fire fork, which means that the urine nest has been hidden.

No, it is the custom of going back to my parents' house to live in the full moon of marriage, and it has nothing to do with the full moon of the child.

When the marriage has been completed for one month, it is customary to have no vacant house for one month, and the father or brother of the female family goes to the groom's house and takes the daughter back to her mother's house. Ordinary people pick up their daughters at their parents' homesEighteen days or a month, and then send it back to your in-laws' house.

Some wealthy families also brought their new sons-in-law to accompany them to a feast. When the bride returns to her parents' house, she should make shoes and socks for her in-laws, shoes for her brother-in-law (husband and brother), clothes and shoes for her husband and sister-in-law, and then give them to her parents-in-law, uncle, sister-in-law and husband after returning to her mother-in-law's house, so as to show her filial piety to her in-laws, love for her younger siblings and deep affection for her husband.

In fact, there is such a custom in many places, that is, after giving birth, a woman must be confined at her mother-in-law's house, and if she goes back to her mother's house for confinement, it may bring bad luck to her mother's family.

Because a woman sees blood when she gives birth and her body is very weak after giving birth, some people feel that the mother will provoke something unclean. In fact, these are superstitious statements.

The reason why some places do not allow them to go back to their parents' homes for confinement is because they are worried about causing family conflicts, especially families with sons at home.

And for the in-laws, they don't want their daughter-in-law to go back to their parents' house for confinement, thinking that this is a big fat grandson born to their own family, why should they go to the child's grandmother's house, they feel that it will damage their own face, and they are naturally unwilling to let their daughter-in-law go back to their parents' house for confinement.

When some women are pregnant, for the sake of the child's health, they pay attention to their diet and will not eat blindly, and when they finally give birth to the child, they begin to eat and drink, what is delicious and what to eat, in fact, during the confinement period, they should pay more attention to their diet, mainly light, and do not overeat, only a balanced diet can the body recover quickly.

Confinement does not mean motionless, although the mother can not move much, let alone lift heavy objects, but you can exercise appropriately, do some slow yoga, and take a walk after meals, which is more conducive to the healing of the mother's body and can also allow the body to recover quickly after childbirth.

When you go back to your parents' house, you will inevitably face your brother and sister-in-law, originally the mother is taking care of her nephew at home, and the daughter will have no time to take care of her grandson when she goes home for confinement, and the confinement is not a day or two, it takes a month or even forty days.

During this period, the husband is needed to take care of his wife, but in his mother's house, it is inconvenient for the husband to go in and out, and it is not easy to find anything, and it is inconvenient for the husband to take care of his wife.

After giving birth to a child for a full month, I go back to my parents' house to live for a month, which depends on the person and the family situation. It's not that you have to live.

After giving birth, you can not go back to your parents' house after the full moon, or you can go back, this is your own choice.

After the mother is out of the moon, she should take the baby back to her mother's house to live for a period of time, which is called "staying up for the full moon", and in some places it is commonly known as "moving the nest". People think that if the baby is compared to a cat or dog, the child will grow strong, and at the same time, it is believed that the child who moves the nest is free from disasters and diseases, and is well-behaved and easy to bring. The folk custom of "boiling the mother's house" in the Hancheng area is:

give birth to a man, sent by the son-in-law; The birth of a daughter is picked up by her mother's family. The pregnant women in Danfeng County stayed up for the month, and when they went, some people smeared pot ink (black smoke at the bottom of the pot) on the baby's face, thinking that this was a joy. It is also necessary to bring a bun to the baby and carry it in the mother's arms, which is called "milk bun" or "milk dry food".

When returning to the mother-in-law's house after boiling the full moon, the mother's family should also wrap a steamed bun with a handkerchief, so that the daughter can carry it in her arms, thinking that with the "milk bun", the mother's milk is sufficient, and the baby is not short of milk to eat. In the rural area of Wugong County, after boiling at her mother's house, my grandmother would steam a Qulian bun with a diameter of thirty or forty centimeters, wrap it in a wrapper, put it in a large square plate, and send it back to my mother-in-law's house with the child, named "Rolling Road Qulian". It means wishing the baby a safe journey and no disasters and diseases.

In Tongguan County, in the eastern part of Guanzhong, the daughter-in-law returned to her mother's house after the confinement, when she returned, the grandmother wanted to give the baby some steaming "tooth buns", the practice is to use the dough to pinch into chrysanthemums, plum blossoms, sea clothes, water chestnuts, gourds, butterflies, white rabbits, kittens, puppies and other images, after steaming, wear a circle with a thread, and then hang a long-lived lock made of noodles below, the middle of the lock is engraved with a lotus pattern, and the two ends are engraved with a plum blossom pattern, strung together and brought on the baby's neck, which is intended to wish the baby to grow teeth early, showing the grandmother's love for the little grandson.

Without this kind of statement, you can only refer to your own time, and it is your own business to want to live.

I don't think this is necessarily, you don't have to go back to your parents' house, you can go back if you want.

Are you a**? Why do you want to go back to your parents' house for a month after the full moon? I'm about to give birth, I haven't even thought about it, I like to live in my husband's house, so he will take care of me, why go back to my parents' house.

How good it is to be in your own home, two people help raise the children, you go back to your mother's house to live, and your husband is clean alone, you still don't want to go back!

It may be a problem with local customs, my baby did not go to live at his mother's house after the full moon, and no one told me this, I think it depends on the situation, I don't want to live, I don't want to live, I want to live for a few days, it doesn't necessarily have to be a month.

It's okay not to go back to your parents' house, but it's okay to live in a different room. Is it auspicious?

Hehe.. It's not particular, if you want to go back, go back, and let the parents see their children.