What should I do if I have a child with autism?

Figure out what autism is before you speak!

If the child in the family has autism, then try to understand him and try to enter his inner world.

When I was in junior high school, I also experienced autism. Maybe it's because my family just moved at the time, leaving a lot of friends, and my parents weren't at home. In a new environment, living alone with a few siblings, I don't understand a lot of things, and I don't know how to face that new life.

Autism is a gradual transition, and during this transition, it is a kind of thinking similar to "I don't understand the world, and the world doesn't understand me." Therefore, I can only "wrap" myself, I ignore the world, and the world does not have to pay attention to me. Perhaps, this is the so-called insecurity.

People with autism are struggling to a greater or lesser extent. I want to be as cheerful as others to interact with people, but I am afraid of coming into contact with others, and I am afraid that after opening my heart, I am facing unknown fears. At this time, we should try to communicate with him, maybe he is eager in his heart, but he doesn't know how to express his emotions, and he is afraid that he will not express himself well and it will be easy for people to misunderstand.

Let's talk about the issues to pay attention to in the process of communicating with him. First of all, in the process of communicating with him, keep a normal mindset and don't act like "I know you are autistic", which can easily turn autistic people off. Again, try to talk to him about topics that interest him, try to listen to his inner thoughts, and try to make him feel through the process of communicating with him

In fact, you also care about him very much. Of course, you can also talk about what you are interested in and make him feel that you are willing to share your ideas, your hobbies, etc. with him. Finally, it is necessary to know what to say and what not to say, such as some words that are more sensitive to him, autism, low self-esteem, etc.

Of course, you can express it tactfully, such as through a short story to make him understand the disadvantages of autism, etc., or you can tell him how good the outside world is and that he should go out and walk more.

The last thing I want to say is that most autistic people are reluctant to open up because they are insecure. At this time, we should care more about them and understand them more, maybe the process will be slow, but as long as we have patience, it will be effective slowly. After all, not all autistic people want to live in their own world.

It's not easy to survive.

Children with autism should be more considerate of their children, do not dislike their children, contact and communicate with their children, take their children to public places to play, and encourage children to play with children. Let the child exercise step by step, let him learn more hobbies, take him to play with children often, you can share food toys and other things to others, let him take the initiative to talk to others, parents understand more about the child's voice, let the child learn to sing, take the child to play games, you can raise some small animals or something.

At the same time, for autistic children, if they are more serious autism, it is recommended that they should consider going to an authoritative institution to do **training, so that the child can try his best**.

First, a diagnosis must be confirmed. The main symptoms of children with autism are: 1 social avoidance; 2 Stereotyped behavior. Many have intellectual disability, language impairment, or motor impairment.

Some children are diagnosed with autism if they are just hyperactive, inattentive, or have personality traits and poor social functioning.

Then, it is important to detect and intervene early. Autism symptoms generally appear at the age of 12 to 24 months, and it is possible for parents to arrive late to school age if they do not pay attention to Suisun Da. The later it is detected, the more difficult it is to guess the intervention.

Third, carefully choose the best training institution. Children with autism can consume a lot of time and energy from a family, and the financial effort can be overwhelming. Many parents can't stand such torture and leave their children in training institutions for a long time.

In fact, at present, there are still very few professional training institutions in China, and the coaches and teachers in them also lack corresponding qualifications. The so-called teachers in some institutions are unloving and even beat and scold the children. Sending a child to such an institution is undoubtedly a waste of time.

In the end, the road is long and difficult, mainly relying on the infinite love and dedication of parents. Autism is not a degenerative disease and often requires lifelong learning and compensatory strategies. Later in childhood, there are improvements in some areas, such as interest in social interaction.

Parents have to put a lot of effort into spending time with their children and cultivating their self-care skills. It would be great if a skill (e.g., arithmetic, baking) could be developed so that children could survive in a relatively simple environment as an adult, and that they could find the right career to match their special interests and skills.

Hope it helps!

Taking care of a child with autism should have a long-term plan, unless the financial freedom is already free, the financial pressure of quitting is too great, and it is not good for the child. Therefore, it is necessary to make a long-term plan, and autistic children do not have to travel, and think of a two-way plan that is beneficial to both parents and children. So far, I can't speak, I don't know how to urinate, I don't communicate with adults, I rank first in ** school, I am the first in destructive power, and I often bite other children.

At present, the most effective method for children with autism is recognized as training, and they must insist on doing it, so after children are diagnosed with autism, they must be taken to a professional and authoritative institution for training as soon as possible, which is necessary for children with autism. The clinic has received many requests for help from parents: "The doctor asks you to help me, my child has autism ......."But often after communicating with myself, I find that most of them are "depressed".

**The protocol is to receive a systematic antidepressant**.

Everyone's behavior is different, most of the people with autism have no ability to understand, no empathy, no emotional awareness, only through training to learn something, I personally think that parents with autism should adjust their mentality, accept reality, and look at the life skills that they need to master The most important thing for autistic children to learn is life skills, whether to travel is not important, whether to resign mainly depends on whether you have the patience to take a child for a long time, if not, it is not recommended to resign, you can ask for leave to stay for a period of time to see, It is advisable to intervene in a timely manner.

Don't force your child to do something all the time, it will only backfire. You can properly cultivate his hobbies, such as painting, and have his own spiritual world.

Parents should communicate with their children often to slowly understand their children's inner thoughts, so as to find the root cause of their child's autism and effectively target the root cause.

It is best for parents to take their children out for sports and exercise, accompany their children to grow up, and have more parent-child picture book reading and parent-child games with their children, and accompany their children more.