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Couples in their 60s are no longer divorced, because they can make do with their marriage, but there is this kind of thing that is particularly serious, only emotional discord, or divorce, they have nothing to do with age.
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There are many couples who divorce, but there are not many, and we must take it seriously and convince them well.
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Well, over the years of reform and opening up, we Chinese have been affected by Westernization, and have maintained an open attitude towards too many emotional issues and marriage issues, in fact, in this process, the concept of some families left by China's ancestors may become more and more indifferent. Divorce at 60 is nothing new!
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Now is not the time for divorce only for young couples! It's not uncommon for 60-year-old couples to get divorced! Sixty-year-old sons and daughters are adults!
It's noisy and noisy, and you can't live together for a lifetime! It's not fun to affect your life span and still be imprisoned in one piece! Divorce doesn't have to be a bad thing!
The elderly should also think about living a good life in old age.
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I think the divorce rate of couples in their sixties is still very low, after all, everyone has been for half a lifetime, which means that they can basically understand and tolerate each other. Therefore, the children will try their best to let them be together.
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Reasons for divorce of sixty-year-old couples:
1. If there is no relationship from beginning to end, the reason why there was no divorce before is because the red line of running a marriage has not been touched, and in order to take care of the feelings of parents and children, the divorce is just a heartbeat, and the implementation of action has not been delayed.
If the parents pass away, since the children have become adults and have started a family, the divorce will not look ahead. Decades of improvised work together are not only about the big picture, but also about giving each other a chance to use the time to achieve a long-term relationship. However, in exchange for the ending that still did not improve, the elderly who have passed the age of 60 have lost the reason to be patient, and the divorce is very likely to be put on the agenda.
2. Although the husband and wife can accept the run-in, but the run-in time is too long, reaching the limit of the husband and wife's bearing, and the run-in for decades, even a trivial small dispute may become the last straw that crushes the marriage of the old husband and wife.
Decades of friction and even a series of collisions, even if the couple doesn't think so, after decades, the couple is very likely to put divorce on the agenda. It's not that one party doesn't want to tolerate the other party, or the two parties don't want to tolerate each other anymore, time can sometimes kill and dissolve a marriage, the husband and wife have tried to save the marriage to get carried away, but the marriage has a wordless ending, both sides weigh it again and again and let go, which is both a relief for each other and a fulfillment for each other.
3. Once husband and wife were busy with their own work, even if there were hidden dangers between husband and wife, they would not be revealed. However, the elderly who have passed the age of 60 have reached the age of retirement, and the two parties have a lot of time with each other all day and night, and the original hidden dangers will gradually be exposed.
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In most people's impressions, divorce seems to be a competition for young and middle-aged people, but in fact, there are many couples who are still divorced after they are fifty or sixty years old. Decades of married life have not made them completely accustomed to each other, and this marriage has become an obstacle that they have been trying to get rid of all their lives.
In life, many couples are still divorced when they are fifty or sixty years old, which is a bit abnormal in the eyes of outsiders. But in fact, for a couple, when there is no trace of warmth in the love life of two people, when the relationship between two people is full of contradictions, when individuals feel that they are in the way when they see each other, divorce is actually a norm.
In today's context of freedom of marriage, whether you are in your twenties or thirties or fifty or sixty, and the married life between two people is unsustainable, choosing divorce may be the best choice for yourself. Age doesn't matter much, and we don't need to look at people in their fifties or sixties who are getting divorced.
Years of patience to the limit.
For older couples, the contradictions between the two people have actually accumulated, and they have tolerated each other. But as time went on, the contradictions between the two parties also grew, so that the two people were unwilling to continue their marriage even on the surface.
Breaking out in silence may be the ultimate manifestation of the extreme patience of diarrhea in fifty or sixty years, and divorce has changed from a way of pursuing a new life to an obsession.
The bonds that hold the marriage together are broken.
Couples have come to an end emotionally when they are young, and many couples do not choose to divorce because of their children, hoping to give their children a complete home. But as time goes by, the child continues to grow up, and when the person reaches the age of fifty or sixty, the child has already started a family.
So suddenly, the bond that maintained this marital state was broken, the conflict broke out in an instant, and the two people naturally divorced.
In fact, in real life, many couples who are unwilling to divorce will find many reasons for themselves, but when they are unwilling to deceive themselves anymore, a broken marriage may end in divorce at any time.
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This is because these couples have no way to live any longer, and even if they are fifty or sixty years old, they still want to get divorced; It's because two people often quarrel and no one is convinced of the other, so they will divorce, and such a divorce is generally just a bickering, not a real separation.
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may be because the children have grown up, and they don't want to wronged themselves for the sake of their children, and they want to find their own happiness; The reason for divorce may be that the husband and wife have been in discord for a long time, have incompatible personalities, and have endured it for a long time, so they will divorce.
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Mainly because people's ideas are different now, the marital state is freer and more open, and if the values of both parties are not suitable, leaving is the best choice.
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Some couples who are almost 60 years old will choose to divorce, this is because today's ideology is different, so the elderly also have the need for divorce. If you go back a few decades, you will find that the elderly in rural areas will not divorce at all, and young couples will not divorce after they have a conflict, because they may feel that divorce is a very shameful thing. Although there is no relationship between the two people, they will still get by, because people at that time will care very much about the evaluation of the people around them.
But today's society is different, in today's society, everyone can choose the life they want, and at the same time, they can actively choose a relationship. People don't think divorce is such a ridiculous thing, so they will choose divorce when the relationship is bad or there is a problem. And today's children will also support their parents' choices, if the elderly feel that living together will be very uncomfortable, children will also support their parents to divorce, and after the parents divorce, the children will still fulfill the obligation to support.
Today's marital status is more free and open, so if the emotional outlook and values are not suitable, they will choose to divorce directly, because after the divorce, the life of two people will become very easy, which is much better than two people forcibly living together. Living together can hurt each other even more, because after the age of 60, everyone has to enjoy life, not because of these conflicts that affect their lives. <>
Nowadays, divorce does not mean irresponsible, on the contrary, divorce means that everyone can choose the life they want, so if you feel that your current life is uncomfortable, you can bravely choose divorce. Divorce is the greatest protection for two people, and it is also a respect for this marriage, so as long as two people can't get along, they can choose divorce. However, divorce is also a relatively big decision, so don't just mention divorce because of a moment of anger.
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may be because their lives have come to an end, the life of the couple is very unhappy, in the remaining years, they don't want to wronged themselves, they also want to find a good other half for themselves, and want to live a good life in their own life lens; They may want to live a better life, they are not willing to wronged themselves, they are not willing to live according to traditional thinking, and they want to choose the life they want to live.
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I think the main reason is that they have dedicated their lives to their children, and they are no longer willing to put up with each other when they are old, so they choose to divorce; I think what they wanted when they divorced was finally liberated, because they had put up with each other for half their lives, and they didn't want to spend the rest of their lives on putting up with each other.
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The two of them have suffered a lot of grievances along the way, the children have become talents, and the two of them want to live their own lives, so they will go for divorce, they just want to change their lifestyle.
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He doesn't care about me. I don't want to spend time with him. I want to divorce him. What to do?
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In this case, the first thing that should be taken into account is that the father has menopausal symptoms! Because men are late at this age, it is the time when the hormone levels in the body change sharply, it is not surprising that they are anxious, irritable, and even do unbelievable things. Second, if the relationship between the old couple has always been in this state, it should belong to the innate problem of holding the grandson's personality. This situation persists, or there are signs of extremes, and it is advisable to consider divorce to avoid accidents.
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If it is really impossible to live together, the mother can file for divorce, and depending on the situation you described, the mother will need to sue for divorce. In case of violent behavior, it is recommended to report to the police immediately.
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If what is said is true, and your mother is subject to domestic violence and intimidation, it is better to recommend divorce.
If He Xiao's father still threatens and harasses your mother, you can go to the court to apply for a personal safety protection order.
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There are many divorces between couples in their sixties, and people who are at this age are more thoughtful, and the children of the shed stove are also married, and the personality will change after menopause, which will cause the two to be unable to live, so it is better to choose divorce than to quarrel every day to dress up.
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I think that the marriage of two people is unhappy, and for the sake of their children, it is understandable that they will delay their divorce until they are in their sixties.
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If you really can't get by, your mother is very uncomfortable, and she is often subjected to violent investigation, of course, you can get a divorce, you can provide evidence to sue the court, even if your father is useless no matter how much he keeps it, unless he can change it well, divorce and harassment, of course, if it touches the law, it should be called to the police.
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It won't be like you think, couples in their 60s will divorce when they get divorced. At such an old age, there won't be so many rights and wrongs in the stalls, and they can only live the life they want, which is also good.
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Couples in their sixties, if there are no major problems, they should understand each other, tolerate each other, live a good life, and don't divorce.
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According to the provisions of China's Civil Code, husband and wife are free to marry, as long as both husband and wife agree to divorce, then they can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities, and there is no age limit, so they can also go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formalities in their sixties.
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These are already very normal in Nashibi's contemporary Dong Qin. The relationship between husband and wife is not good, but they can't let go of the children and keep dragging it out. Now that the husband and wife are in their 60s, and their children have married and had children, they have no worries about returning to the world, so they filed for divorce.
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Divorce in your 60s, in fact, in your 60s, don't divorce anymore, you two are in your 60s and you are arguing with Yu Hong and his wife to be promoted to divorce, in fact, you are in your 60s, don't get divorced and ruin potatoes, how good it is for you two to spend your old age in peace.
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It's not what you think. In the marital relationship, if there is domestic violence, the law on rent demolition is clearly opposed, and there is a special "Anti-Domestic Violence Law", you can take a look at it. In the event of domestic violence, the bureau can report to the police or apply to the court for a writ of habeas corpus.
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It is also normal for couples in their sixties to divorce, and they must be really unable to live and don't want to wronged themselves anymore, so it is natural for them to choose divorce.
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According to your description, divorce is indeed a bit awkward at this age. But the poor man must have something to hate, suggest that your mother should do as she pleases, and if she can't stand it, she should be separated, this is the evil fruit sown by your father who is trapped and defeated, and now is the time for the harvest.
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If you can leave, you can leave, it doesn't matter if you want to divide the joint property of the husband and wife in the future, and use it for future living expenses.
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It's all like this, let's get a divorce, domestic violence is illegal. Mother's should be supported.
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If the two can't negotiate, go to the court to sue for divorce.
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Since it is no longer possible to continue, it is necessary to cut through the mess quickly, and continue to entangle all kinds of harm. Hope mine can help you!
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