Why don t college students recognize their father, can anyone tell me???? 10

1. Now that he has a university degree, his family can let him know part of the family situation appropriately, and listen to his opinions when considering matters related to the family, so that he can be aware of his own growth and know the hardships of his parents.

Second, not honoring his parents, not recognizing his father, and divorce became his father's fault, all these are not just his problems, and a slap in the face may be due to the accumulation of certain things over a long period of time. ps: A friend of mine was the same back then, hating his family, compared to his parents' hard work, what he saw was the rebellion against the whole family, and a strong desire for independence, and even the living expenses given by his family at that time would become his shame.

3. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and if you want to solve the problem, you must consider and analyze it from the surface, rather than simply looking at a point that can be thorough.

Hope it helps, thanks.

。That's a bit too much. You can try to contact the child, you can communicate with him first.

It can also be seen from this that the man's silence does not mean that he is not uncomfortable and does not want to do something, but he knows that he needs to carry the whole family, even when the closest family members do not understand.

Divorce actually hurts the children the most, no matter whose responsibility it is, so for the sake of the children, everything is endured. But it is wrong for the child not to recognize his father and lack gratitude. When the child becomes a parent on his own, he will probably recognize it.

China's education system does need some reform, and there are signs of it now. But I don't think this matter has much to do with the education of college students, and everyone's perspective on things and judging things is not something that education can control. His denial of his father depends on his self-awareness of his parents' divorce or family relationships.

Maybe he thinks his father isn't good enough, or maybe he hasn't figured something out yet. When something like this happens, communication solves the problem more than complaining.

If you think about it from the son's point of view, the father is certainly not a competent father. Even if the relationship between husband and wife is not very good, it is necessary to maintain the status quo of family perfection, divorce is the worst plan, since the divorce has been completely shattered in the hearts of the children. A good father thinks holistically, not for his own sake.

There is no question of whether to admit it or not, higher education cannot represent everything, the education of parents is the most important, as the saying goes, the son does not teach the father's fault, there are dozens of students in a class in the school, the teacher must not have the influence of the parents on the child, and he can't put the responsibility on his mother, his father should not educate him, and the son is not sensible. For example, buying out the seniority to work for the child, educating the child to be gracious, and educating him to be filial is more important and gives him the greatest wealth.

Just because of the Chinese education syllabus. There is no moral education in the syllabus. It can also be said that too little attention is paid to moral education! It's just about the test scores! ~

Even if his father is really at fault, he should not "deny it".

The difference between "not forgiving" and "not admitting" should be clarified.

Such a person is either an ungrateful person, or a person with no sense of responsibility, or a person who has been extremely hurt, or a bastard at all.

He is also human, but he has a story in his life, or has encountered many difficulties and misfortunes...

To be born as a human being, or to be raised, is a moral issue, not a legal one.

Huh! It's up to you to see what you're capable of! New Oriental?

Now that the chef market is saturated, do you think you can stand out? You're still young, don't say you know everything, I've lived past your age, I know what you think. Graduating from high school should be the time for you to make your own choices, at that time you are just whimsical, and when you really understand this society, you will understand.

After graduating from high school, choose your own life, bless you. By the way, don't make trouble, but don't be afraid of others messing with you, just slap it in the face.

You say your father is garbage, so why do you still beg for garbage?

It is recommended that you come out to work in the future to earn tuition fees and then do what you like.

He may have been influenced by an old belief that gold shines everywhere and dog shit stinks everywhere.

Maybe my father can't help it.

Mother's love is silently dedicated to you without asking for anything in return, usually shushing the cold and asking for warmth, and worrying about everything for you. Father's love is like a mountain, he will support you silently, no matter what decision you make, they will always be on your side. That's love!

Father's love is a mountain, sheltering from the wind and rain; Mother's love is like water, and the relationship is long. Indispensable to all, there will be gains and losses, God is fair to everyone. What is fatherly love and mother's love will be slowly realized when you become a parent.

We're 、、、 the same. I can't figure it out either, can you tell me.

You can be calm and calm, the housework is not clear, and life is a muddle....

In the face of life choices, the father attacked.

When you encounter a major setback or a bottleneck in your life one day, you will wonder why you are so frustrated.

When you think about it, such as:

Before the fruit, it is good that you decide your life path instead of your parents, and you will not embark on this life path that you do not want to take, and at this time your parents are old, they only help you choose and cannot help you go, and you can't do anything but complain.

When you think about it, if you decided your own life path and didn't listen to your parents, you deserved it, but if you think about it carefully, you will find that even if you let your parents decide, it doesn't guarantee that life will be smooth sailing.

The result is the same, life is not easy to mix, and the setbacks that should be encountered will come sooner or later. And if the object of the final complaint is yourself, it will not be so sad, but if it is your parents or other people, it is different. Because generally speaking, blaming others is always stronger than blaming yourself.

So life is decided by yourself, but if you follow your parents' arrangement, you have an excuse to say that it is someone else's fault, but you have to suffer yourself. Whether to listen or not is entirely up to your own judgment, and you must know that your parents' arrangement is only one choice, not the only way.

I think so, if it's bai I du, I'm willing.

My family conditions.

zhi is too ordinary, and when he was in junior high school, it was a luxury for dao to drink a bottle of milk from Mengniu. I am super envious of people's fathers driving cars to school. And yourself, just by bus.

I have had low self-esteem since I was a child. When I grew up, I went to college and worked hard through my own efforts, and now I am an ordinary white-collar worker.

To be honest, I'm willing to listen to my parents' arrangement. However, when I graduated from university, I was looking for a job on recruitment software such as 58.com, because they were all farmers and had not graduated from elementary school. If you don't have the ability, you can't ask your relatives for me.

They don't understand at all and don't care. Compared with the current parents, children's future jobs, etc., they are simply a speck of dust. My father didn't understand it, but he had a big temper, and he lost his temper at me about the unpleasantness and trivialities of life.

When I was a child, the happiest thing was that my father was not at home today, and I could eat freely, play freely, and sleep freely.

Hey, it's all sad past.

My opinion is: unless you are very capable, have your own dreams and talents, and can break out of your own career, otherwise, just follow the steps, because there are still many ordinary people.

Purely my own opinion, complained so much. In fact, I want to say that I am really happy to have parents who can worry about your future. Cherish it

Most of the college students are under the age of 25, and only a small percentage of them already own a DAO

Mature values, version of the world view and outlook on life, therefore, when the right encounters a lot of life and social things, listen more to the advice of parents, you can avoid a lot of detours, and you can grow up as soon as possible.

Different from the primary and secondary school periods, children at that time communicate more about growth and learning, while college students are getting closer and closer to the critical point of stepping into society.

In fact, if you ask like this, you already have an answer to the bai case in your heart, and you are looking for a du person to tell you what you think in your heart, zhi

Good intentions. I'm partial to no, I'll tell you, college students should support their parents' arrangements, not only college students, elementary school students, junior high school students, high school students, college students, graduate students, doctoral students, work, have children, who to play with when you are old, work in **, who to deal with, what to play with, and bury in ** in the future. You have to listen to your parents.

Because you are a little slave born to your parents, you don't need to think about things for yourself. And you are what your parents are, and you are like this from life to life.

First of all, take off the identity of a college student, and you are an independent.

People have an independent personality, and should have their own views and judgments when making decisions and doing things.

Secondly, parents should not help their children make decisions, but analyze the pros and cons, let the child see the aspects that he does not see, and then decide things for himself.

Parents are not absolute, and children are not entirely right.

College students should of course follow their parents' orders.

With my experience and that of those around me.

Bai has always said du, whether it is good or not to obey one's parents, it is half.

The key to the problem is not to obey or not to obey, but whether you will bear the consequences of your choice, whether you will work hard for your choice, and how to work hard after choosing a life, rather than hesitating all day long.

Listening to their parents is what children should be! It doesn't matter if you are a college student or after you get married! But listen to the arrangement, yes! But don't blindly follow the arrangement!

It is recommended to sit down with your parents and have a good conversation. See what your parents think, and then tell your parents what you think, and understand each other.

College students should have their own independent judgment ability, it is best to make their own decisions, even if it is wrong, it will become a growth experience, if you can not listen to the words of your parents, don't listen, only you know what is most suitable for you!

What kind of college student? What kind of parents? What is the arrangement?

Think about it carefully, the road is your own.

Trying to persuade the father and mother to do what they want to do, many people blame their father and mother because they took the road they don't like in the later stage! There are also people who take the wrong path themselves, and blame their parents for stopping him at that time, this needs to be measured by yourself, and you can try to convince your parents if you choose not to regret it! After all, everyone lives for themselves!

I'm not here to pay off my debts!

If you don't want to be stronger or much stronger than your parents, you can listen to their arrangements, if you want to be stronger than your parents, you can't listen to your parents. Because their vision has been limited to the level they are in.

It depends on what it is, if your thoughts are not consistent with your parents' ideas, you can consider your parents' ideas more, and you can also set goals based on your parents' ideas.

College students do not have to follow their parents' arrangements, but they can listen to their reasonable suggestions, and they can avoid detours, after all, they have rich social experience.

This needs to depend on the actual situation, depending on what your parents arrange, if it is different from what you want to do, you can communicate with your parents, don't make trouble for your parents, because only your parents are the best for you in this world.

First of all, the starting point of your parents' copy is good, and you have to see what your parents ask you to develop and your du

whether the future development plan is in the same direction; Secondly, if there is a big distance between the DAO and your development direction and major, you should explain it to your parents, persuade them, and let them support you. Besides: youth is the capital, it's a big deal to go back to the past and work hard for your favorite profession or major, it should be worth it!

Judge by your own character and abilities. If your ideas are better than theirs, they will agree with you, and if you don't have a good direction to go, you might as well listen to your parents.

It depends on the social and economic status of the parents of college students. If the parents are just ordinary employees, ordinary in thinking and have not been leaders, their circle is basically solidified. If the arrangement is contrary to the ideals or dreams of college students, then it is recommended to continue to pursue their dreams.

1 Fathers love their children, and always relish and take the trouble to tell them instructive parables and other stories.

He told the story of the tortoise and hare race, and little Paul remembered that he had heard it many times, and it was really boring.

2 Father: Perseverance. Paul: It's all about luck.

3. I hope that he will achieve victory by making unremitting efforts, being down-to-earth, and moving forward step by step.

Best, buddy.