In the countryside, why do you have to get drunk when you entertain guests?

This may be because of the local customs, the more you like it, the more you drink.

This is because of the use of wine. in order to show a person's respect for each other.

It is said that small wine is delicious, but big wine hurts the body. However, in the countryside, when entertaining guests, we try to persuade them to drink more, even get drunk. This phenomenon is very common in rural areas, especially during the Spring Festival, when you go to a relative's house, you will drink wine for two people, but at the end of drinking, you will have to drink one more side, why in the countryside, guests have to drink each other?

Listen to the old farmer. It is village etiquette to let guests drink more. This is respect for the farmers.

If you don't dissuade them from drinking, it means that you are stingy and don't even pay attention to your guests. As for how this special liquor culture was formed, it has a long history. In any case, for the peasants, this meant that the more they drank, the better the hospitality, and it was a sign of high regard for each other, and although there was no fixed form of this etiquette, most farmers did it, it was a ritual in which the agreement became a custom.

It's easy to talk about things and drink at the table. For farmers, there are two main purposes. One is to deepen their relationship.

Another way is to sit and drink together to get there. For example, the most obvious thing is that when we go to the countryside to propose, we must bring some drinks, so that not only is the marriage easy to talk about, but also that the man is very powerful and it is a mistake to drink, and drinking will also make things happen.

After drinking, people's brains are in a state of hyperactivity. At this time, it is easier to make some impulsive decisions. In addition, if we drink to deepen our relationship, it is easier to open up and our feelings for each other are more likely to be sublimated.

Pay attention to drinking safely, especially during the Chinese New Year. Not to punish anyone for money, but to make people alert and in awe. Drunk driving accidents not only do not guarantee your personal safety, but they also threaten the personal safety of others.

There are many accidents caused by drunk driving every year, so during the Spring Festival, when entertaining guests, you can drink more alcohol, but don't drive. You are responsible for the personal safety of your guests. Even if he stresses that he doesn't drink, you can't let him drive.

It was a real surprise. You can't get out of this relationship. There will be disputes between the two families.

Generally speaking, it is not worth the loss, drinking alcohol is more and more enjoyable for the farmer and a kind of respect for the guests, but we must pay attention to safety.

In fact, for this kind of thing, it is a specific local custom.

I think this is because everyone is happier, so they don't get drunk and don't go home.

1.Greeting etiquette. When greeting guests, it is necessary to first grasp the arrival and departure times, and notify all the personnel and relevant units as soon as possible.

If there is any change, the relevant personnel should be notified in time. Second, offer flowers at the right time and keep the bouquet neat and bright. In addition, when greeting guests, you can prepare specific signs in advance so that guests can see them from a distance.

Finally, when guests arrive at their accommodation, don't arrange activities right away, but allow a certain amount of time for them to do so before arranging activities.

2. Guide etiquette. When in the hallway, the reception staff should follow the pace and let the guests walk on the inside before they take two or three steps. When guiding guests upstairs, they should be allowed to walk in front and the receptionists in the back, and when going downstairs, the receptionists should walk in front and the guests in the back, and when going up and down the stairs, the receptionists should pay attention to the safety of the guests.

When the guest enters the living room, the reception staff needs to instruct the guest to sit down, and only after seeing the guest sit down, can he nod and leave. If the guest sits in the wrong seat, the guest should be asked to take a seat instead.

When the company leaders notify the guests to visit, understand the visit time, the name of the unit, the number of positions, etc., and prepare the corresponding matters (tea, fruits, etc.) in advance in the company lobby or door to prepare to greet (according to the importance of the guests), when the guests come, warm hospitality, lead to the designated place and timely notify the leaders that the guests have arrived. Once you have arranged your seat, serve your tea in time, and if you don't need to be there, you can leave gently and close the door. If other services are needed, they can stand in a position that does not affect them, so that the leaders can instruct them and handle them in a timely manner.

Reception 1, warm (mainly at the front desk or in public places) Whether it is the first time to come or often come to the guests, take the initiative to say hello, "many people are not strange", the first time the guests will leave a good impression, the first impression is the deepest, therefore, when receiving guests, to leave a good impression on the guests as much as possible; If a mistake is made, it is often difficult to make up for it later. No matter how hard you try, the customer will leave you with a "preconceived" preconception, and if the regular customer has some small bumps about the company, he will also control himself. 2. Time grasp (mainly the front desk or corresponding department) If it is to receive guests with reservations, things are relatively simple, bring him to the pre-determined conference room, and notify the leader of the appointment in time.

If the guest does not make a reservation in advance, then it is necessary to ask the guest in detail what is the matter and who to contact, and contact the relevant department immediately. A long delay can create a sense of not being taken seriously. 3. When there are more guests, we should adhere to the principle of first-come-first-served, if acquaintances are preferred, so that guests obviously feel favoritism, and their hearts will definitely not be happy, which may affect future cooperation.

Serve the waiting guests in a timely manner (tea, magazines, etc.) 4. Pay attention when talking When the leader talks to the guests, if you want to go in, you must knock on the door first, and then go in after answering inside, but after entering the door, you should say "sorry for the interruption" When bringing tea to the guests, according to the order of the guests' seats, hand the teacup to the guests with both hands. When you exit the reception room after delivering tea or other errands, close the door gently. 5. When the guests leave, when the meeting is over, you should grasp the time, and as soon as the guests leave the reception room, they should go in and pack up immediately, see if there are any items left, and notify them in time.

If you don't have time, contact the other person as soon as possible. Meal arrangement If you need to arrange meals, you should inform the canteen in advance of the number of diners, the standard, and the meal time, so that the canteen can prepare in advance. If you want to eat out, you should also book it in advance.

Control cigarettes, alcohol, and beverages according to the actual situation, and strictly economize while satisfying them as much as possible. Limit the amount of alcohol you drink so that neither you nor your guests drink too much. Gift distribution During the meeting or meal, notify the relevant departments, prepare the gifts, and do a good job of registration.

When the guest leaves, hand it over to the guest or help put it in the car. You can not inform the other party in advance, which is equivalent to a small surprise.

Hello, I have worked hard all the way, I will rest and drink tea in the house, and eat some food by the way.

Visitors should pay attention to etiquette, such as preparing meals for guests and treating them politely.

Invite the guests into the house first, the host should follow the guests into the door, after entering the door, please sit on the front sofa, and then send tea, the tea should not be too full.

In this case, don't panic, just greet guests with a relaxed mind and a smiling expression.

1.Dialogue. Remember, let your guests speak as they please. Don't interrupt the guest, try to answer according to the guest's wishes, but occasionally express your own opinions and suggestions, when the guest speaks, listen attentively, just like a friend, and try to create a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere. When the guests are talking, they should look directly into the eyes of the guests, and don't forget to smile!

No matter how much you object to what the guest says, you can't talk to the guest very loudly, it's rude! Be sure not to forget "Please", "Thank you", "Let me come", "I hope you can ......"I hope this collaboration is enjoyable" and "It's great to work with you" (It's a little awkward, but it's still indispensable!) and so on.

2.Food. Before the conversation, don't forget that a warm cup of tea, black tea or rice tea, will make people feel calm and comfortable. If you can, of course, don't forget about the tea partner - dim sum. When you see that the guests are in a bad mood, make a cup of green tea with a sweeter snack; When you see that the guests are tired, please make a cup of black tea and a slightly bitter snack.

3.Sitting, standing.

When standing, you can hold a folder in your hand at will, or if you are talking about a customer, cross your fingers, place them in front of your navel, and put your feet together. If you are introducing something or a product, you should hold it in your hand and point out the good things about it (of course, there are also bad points...).）。When sitting, you can gently lean against the back, which is more relaxed, of course, if it is a more restrained scene, you should straighten your waist and put your hands on your thighs.

4.When you're done, stretch out your hand softly, with a smile on your face, and say "happy cooperation" (of course, if it's not cooperation, just change the word "cooperation"!!). And send the guest out of the door.

5.Remember, without a smile, it's all over!! It's okay if it's a signature smile!!

Hope it helps!!

Be proactive, enthusiastic, talk a lot, and find a topic to talk about when you have nothing to say.

At the wedding banquet, except for the main table, where you can clink glasses with each close relative or VIP individually, the guests at each table can clink glasses with dragonflies. Especially if there are a large number of guests, it is extremely rude to toast too slowly and cause the guests at the back to leave the table after eating.

If a friend of the same age asks the newcomer to perform a more vulgar show, or drink a drink mixed with various ingredients, it is safe and hygienic. The bridegroom is also to protect his daughter-in-law.

(1) When a guest comes, whether it is an acquaintance or a first-time visitor, whether it is a status, wealth, or an ordinary person, they must be warmly welcomed. If you have an appointment, you should take the initiative to greet it. For the arrival of uninvited guests, you cannot turn away or show displeasure, so that the guests are in a dilemma.

You should let you into the house as soon as possible, ask about the purpose of the visit, and deal with it as appropriate. In case you are about to go out when the guest visits, if it is not an urgent matter or an appointment, you should accompany the guest first; If you have to leave for an urgent matter or appointment, you should also understand the intention of the guest to visit, and make an appointment for a meeting time according to the situation.

2) If there are guests in the family and new guests come to visit, the guests should be introduced to each other and received together. If you need to talk to one party alone, you should explain it to the other party so as not to make the guest feel that there is a difference between thick and thin. Be attentive in the conversation, don't be half-hearted or hopeful.

3) If there are guests at home, do not turn on the loud sound to watch TV or listen to the tape recorder; Parents should not beat or scold children in front of guests, and family members should not quarrel with each other. These situations can either interfere with the guest conversation or make the guest feel embarrassed.

4) Some guests will come to visit with gifts, for which you should sincerely appreciate. If it is inconvenient to accept it for some reason, you should also explain the reason frankly to avoid misunderstandings.

5) Say goodbye to someone, and the host should wait for the visitor to get up first, and then stand up again. Visitors are usually sent out of the room and then shake hands and say goodbye. Don't let the guest slam the door shut with their front feet as soon as they walk out of the door, which is very rude.

If you don't drink alcohol, your relatives and friends around you will know and won't embarrass you, and you can use tea or drinks instead of alcohol.