If there is no common topic between couples, how to find a topic and have in depth communication?

If couples have known each other for too long, they have finished talking about all the topics they can talk about, and they have nothing to say when they get along, which may make the relationship enter a cold period. At this time, it is best for couples to participate in some activities that require two people to participate together, such as making a travel plan, going on a long trip, preparing a big meal together, choosing some decorations for the family, making their life more ritualistic, and so on.

Making travel plans will make the two of them talk about it so much that they can't stop。It's possible to go on a trip, but if you want to save time and keep both of you happy during the trip, you need to plan well before you travel. Travel planning includes all aspects of food, clothing, housing and transportation, such as travel locations are a difficult choice.

China has a vast land and abundant resources, even if you only count the domestic attractions, there are countless attractions, not to mention the world's attractions, it is even more difficult to choose. The reality is that there is only one choice of travel destination, which requires the two to discuss together. After choosing a destination, the two of them have to discuss the travel time, travel mode, place of residence, etc.

Travel not only increases the conversation between couples, but also strengthens relationships。When you come to a strange city, the lover around you is the only person you are familiar with, and the relationship between the two will become more intimate because of the contrast. The people, things, scenes, and things you see in a strange city are all fresh, and at the same time, lovers who are in the same state as yourself are the best people to share.

Make a big meal at home。Life needs a little sense of ritual, and couples can set a fixed date and cook a big meal after a while to treat themselves and each other. From shopping to cooking, both of them need to be involved together, so that no matter what they do, they will naturally discuss it, and there is no need to worry about running out of topics.

It's normal for lovers to spend a long time together and have fewer topics. But as long as you have the heart to talk to each other, use your brain a little, and arrange a little activity for the two of you, you can easily find a common topic.

At this time, you should take the initiative to talk to the other party about some topics that the other party is interested in. You should also always ask about the other person's hobbies. You should also do what you like.

We should also be tolerant and understanding of each other. Look for something that interests both parties. Share some happy things too.

At this time, two people can do some things done together, such as cooking together, doing housework, making pottery, and doing roller coasters, so that they can find a topic again, and the two of them have something to talk about.

At this time, you should look for a thing that is more interesting to both people, and then communicate with each other around this aspect.

1. First of all, you have to confirm whether you like each other, if you like each other, there may still be a topic, if you don't like it, there may be no topic.

2. If there is no topic, it may be that there is a lack of communication between the two of you, so the necessary communication is still needed.

3. Sometimes two people may be very busy with their work, so they forget to make their own communication better, so no matter how busy they are, they must have time to communicate.

4. We can also ask our friends to help and see what went wrong between the two people, because this is the truth of the bystanders.

5. In my case, sometimes there is no common topic, because the environment of two people is different, so when two people live together, it may be a different situation.

6. When two people have no topic, it is best to calm down for a while, because, in this way, two people will have reflection on each other, but there will be greater room for emotional progress.

7. Eat. Let's talk about what I have eaten before, the best places nearby, and how to make those things delicious. I think in fact, everyone is more or less sensitive to eating, but some people are obvious and are called foodies.

And you can invite you to go to dinner and date together by the way.

8. Talk about the little things in life, if you say that two people love each other very much, but there is nothing to say, I don't believe it, as long as the mental spirit and expression ability are healthy, then there is a lot to talk about. For example, talking about the little things in life, eating and drinking, and having fun, these are all things that can be talked about.

I still say that if you have a deep relationship with each other, it is impossible for a couple to have no topics. The kind of thing that the more you love you, the more silent it is, happens among men and women who have not yet made their relationship public, and men and women who really love each other will have endless thoughtful words.

If there is no common topic between couples, they should take the initiative to create a topic, and the two of them can talk about what the other person has done recently.

Topics can be created, if you love someone, you should understand her hobbies and interests, and then do what she likes, talk to her about these related topics, and naturally have common topics.

If you don't have a common topic, you should consider breaking up, because a common topic is the basic for two people to get along, and if you can't talk about it together, it's better not to be together.

Common topics should be created. It's actually quite simple to create a common topic, play a game together or join a club together, and there will be a topic of conversation.

You can learn about each other's preferences from the side, and then start from each other's preferences, like what they like, or buy something they like to create a common topic.

If you don't have a common topic, you can find two people with the same interests and hobbies, if not, find out if there is anything you like in each other's hobbies, and slowly cultivate, you will have more and more similarities.

Then slowly cultivate common interests and hobbies, and both parties can also get to know each other more, learn more about each other's lives, and always find common topics.

Create a topic, you can talk about recent movies, **, and talk to each other about what has happened around you recently. Couples have been together for a long time, and the novelty is weakened, so they should create more surprises at this time to consolidate the relationship.

If you don't have a common topic, you can try to do the same thing together, develop a common hobby, and you can have a common topic.

I think you should talk more. Talk about topics that are familiar to each other, talk about personal thoughts, and you will have more and more topics.

If you don't have a family, you can create a topic and rent a topic. Usually some of the things that happen to you in your life, your own feelings, these are all things that can be shared together, talk about your thoughts while sharing, and listen to some small things in your life, these are all topics.

If you don't think there is a topic between couples, I think this should be going to split the shooting, and I think it's more difficult to find a topic first, because both of them are already in a more awkward place.

If you want to find a topic, you need to know each other better, and at the same time, you need to cultivate common interests, and only then can you find a common topic.

First of all, look at what the other party is interested in, and then talk about the things that interest you, and then talk about the hot time at the moment, so that you can find the topic.

When couples don't have a topic to talk about, they can find common topics by watching a movie, or play a mobile game together to create a topic.

I think you can find topics from the aspect of life, such as the habits of the other party, whether to eat coriander or not, and other things that are easier to talk about.

I think you can tell you about the places you've been to bring back some memories of him.

Wen Yue Xiaoxi.

Both men and women in love need to go from awkwardness to familiarity, and men and women who have been deeply involved know each other even if they don't speak.

When a man and a woman have just established a relationship, they are not very familiar with each other, and how to resolve the cold scene also requires certain skills.

First of all, you can start with each other's interests and deepen your understanding of each other.

The second is to listen to the other party and not be in a hurry to express it, because in a relatively unfamiliar situation, try to be the person who throws the topic, let others open up and talk about their own things, and the initiative is still in their own hands.

Finally, choosing a place for dating is more comfortable for the two people, which is conducive to the other party's relaxation and more open conversation in a happier mood.

In the middle of the relationship, men and women know each other well, but they don't know each other too well, so try to avoid stepping on a minefield.

This is one to be avoided, otherwise, the medium-term maintenance is not good, and the initial thoughts are all in vain.

In most cases, each other will properly understand each other's bottom line, pay attention to respect each other, recognize some of the other party's ideas, as long as it does not violate the principled issues, and learn to support your partner with a positive attitude.

This allows the relationship between them to further warm up, and they can go longer on the road of love.

In the later stage, it can be said that it is the point of an old husband and wife, but this is each other's mood fluctuations, and Envy He Mu is also more sensitive, and it will cause strong quarrels because of some trivial things.

At this time, we must learn to communicate more and care more about each other's inner thoughts and future plans for the two of them.

If you want to maintain a good relationship in the later stage, until you enter the marriage hall, this period is very crucial, at first it is due to good feelings, to the state of mutual run-in in the middle stage, and in the later stage, it is the feeling of being suitable for each other.

Even if you don't talk to each other, you can understand each other's general thoughts, and you don't have to understand all of them, but you know them in your heart.

In the process of falling in love, it is common for each other to be cold, but so what? If you have a good impression and want to know more, this is a process that needs to be experienced.

There are 10,000 Hamorets out of 10,000 people, and everyone has a different way of getting along.

In the interaction between the sexes, it is necessary to find such a feeling of mutual comfort, finding topics is just one way, and treating each other sincerely is the most important thing.

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It is of course very important for couples to have a common topic, because this is a consensus, the foundation of feelings, and the guarantee of love.

Both of them looked at each other and felt good.

At this time, even if the two of them sit together, they will feel happy when they look at each other, laugh together, travel together, they have nothing to say, that feeling is really beautiful, and it is even sweeter. As for real couples, they will appreciate and support each other in the emotional world, and then they will continue to understand and tolerate each other, and continue to maintain and develop a beautiful relationship.

The two sides are stupid, that is, they are not interesting or slow.

I think that if a couple doesn't even have a minimum common topic, then what can they talk about together? The two sides sat dumbly staring at each other, there was no interest, let alone romance, and I felt that the scene would not be gone for a few minutes.

Not having a common topic is like living together.

I also think that couples who don't have a common topic can't be called a real couple of Ji Lao, it's like Han is partnering with each other, although under one roof, each has its own ideas, even if the body has contacted, but the soul will not, because she has no tacit understanding and resonance in their hearts, but like friends.

And couples with common topics, no matter what the two are doing, their thoughts can reach unity, and all aspects of life will be in step with each other, not only the heart wants to fight in one place, but also the strength to make one place, especially when talking about marriage, both parties can unify their thoughts, and many things in marriage can be solved very well.

Look at each other with smart brains and eyes.

If you really want to be a long-term lover, you can try to see more things that the other person is interested in, and use your own intelligent eyes and brains to experience the process of your relationship.

Having a common language can complement each other and run in.

I am most glad that couples who have common topics in their lives, from them you can see the common concept, the common language, although the relationship needs to be run-in, but they can complement each other, their state together, people feel comfortable at a glance, they themselves can feel simple and warm.

Therefore, if there is no common topic between couples, it can prove that their three views are different, their goals and directions are different, and they will be the opposite, so how can they go further and further in the journey of life?

How can the emotional world be stable, the family and marriage will not be guaranteed, and if there is no common topic, you cannot become a husband and wife, otherwise you will break up after starting a family, and the relationship will not last.

It's not a crisis, but it must be that you understand each other, if you see each other every day, you see each other every day, I think every day you live is so special, so you can't find so many fresh topics, so you will choose to be silent. In fact, there are topics, but you don't want to say it, for example, some words that care about the other party, maybe you said it yesterday, and you feel bored today, but it's not, so it can show that you care about her! When you don't have anything to say, you can also go shopping, and when you encounter something different, in fact, the topic will come!

Answering that there is no topic between couples, it should be that the man should take the initiative to find a topic to cause the girl's response, because now it is just a couple, if you want to really get married together, there is no topic to do after marriage, after all, the woman is quite passive, so it depends on the boy.

Ask what to do in this situation?

But I take the initiative, he doesn't take the initiative, if I don't send a message, he doesn't answer, then you send him more messages and so on, there will always be a response, right, or is there something wrong with your relationship?

Is it a quarrel or a period of boredom?

None of these questions are there yet.

That means I take the initiative to message him.

Question: We met in a long-distance relationship on the Internet.

What does it take to keep the relationship going?

Let me tell you, two people are together, a different place is not a matter after all, sooner or later you have to see each other, and you will feel at ease.