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If there is no topic, take the initiative to find a topic to find something that the other party is interested in, you can teach you interesting things that happen in the day to share with each other, ** the future of two people, talk about the careers of two people, talk about some favorite stars or funny jokes on the Internet.
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Talk more about the topics that the other person likes, such as favorite stars, idols, pets, cities, sports, praise each other more, and talk more about what the other person is good at, so that there will be something to talk about.
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1. Small talk is the best topic.
What to do if you are in love without a topic? If you talk nonsense or ask for warmth, then the beginning of a relationship with nonsense is small talk. For example, was there a traffic jam when you came, how long have you been here, this kind of nonsense.
Don't look for topics and try to create an atmosphere where you're old friends. Find a topic on the subject of what you're good at. It's like you know that the food at a restaurant is good, it's fun, and anything that's happened recently can be your talking point.
2. Get to know each other better before chatting.
What to do when you have nothing to say when you are in love. First, the sense of distance decreases, the sense of identity and intimacy with each other decreases, and the deepening of mutual trust becomes fragile. Please prepare a lot of topics before dating.
In general, it is necessary to have a certain understanding of the other party before the meeting. For example, the other party's work, habits, hobbies, hobbies, long-term, etc. So, organize one or two topics that might indicate the other person's interest in case you need them.
3. Cultivate common hobbies and generate common topics.
It usually starts with a hobby that collides with each other when a man and a woman start a relationship. The two don't know what to say when they first meet, so they can start with each other's interests first. Or you can ask him what his hobbies are, what he usually likes, what leisure and entertainment he likes from his friends, or two people can talk about several topics according to each other's occupation or major.
This allows for a deeper understanding of each other.
4. Share your daily life.
In fact, two people chatting together often can't become a trivial thing in life. Because two people who have just been together may not be used to it. At this time, you can hear what you see in life, and you can also share with each other the more interesting things you encounter in your daily life, and sharing your daily life with each other is also a good way to increase your feelings.
5. Cultivate the commonality of both sides.
If you want a stable relationship, the most important thing is that it is best for you to have common themes or common hobbies. Therefore, in their leisure time, they can cultivate common hobbies, so there will be a lot of topics for two people to talk about, which will also help to deepen each other's feelings and get along more smoothly. Therefore, it is also very necessary to cultivate common hobbies.
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First of all, there needs to be someone who takes the initiative to talk about some other topic. However, if the relationship between two people is relatively stable and there is no topic, it is very comfortable for two people to do their own things quietly.
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You can take each other out to travel, at this time there is no novelty for two people, if you don't take each other out to travel, two people will have estrangement, and eventually they will part ways, we must grasp the feelings of this time period.
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Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that there will be no freshness, which is a normal performance, because it is impossible for two people to have endless topics to talk about, because the process of normal couples falling in love is to talk a lot at the beginning, but then they talk more about some things in life. The process of normal couples falling in love, at the beginning, two people saw some shining points in each other, and then attracted one party to launch an active chase, and the other party felt that this person was not bad, and then chatted with each other, chatted and found that the two people were very suitable, talk about it, and then after falling in love together, it will involve more of each other's past, each other's lives, some habitual things, these will have a hot love period, and after these things are understood, There is a situation where the two of them have nothing to talk about, because the things that the other party can understand are almost understood, and everything that the other party has done since childhood is clear. Two people from the love period gradually to, the bland transformation is all couples will go through, a time to learn to find some lead to answer the topic of life, Huai Mohui two people can keep chatting about things, or two people to experience more things, there are more things to talk about, but also to expand their knowledge more, to understand what the other party likes, so that your chat can be more pleasant, there is nothing to talk about, The first reason is that you have been together for a long time and have talked about the past, and the second reason is that you have not mastered enough chat skills, and you don't have more to talk about future problems, because there are infinite possibilities in the future.
Many people can't survive the dull period of love, and feel that they have entered a love mode with nothing to talk about, that is, the emotions of two people have disappeared, not love, in fact, it is not like this, because any couple has to go through such a process, to learn to find a topic, learn to transition from romantic love to real life, and spend it, and the emotions will really stabilize during this period.
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It is of course very important for couples to have a common topic, because this is a consensus, the foundation of feelings, and the guarantee of love.
Couples with common topics never get tired of looking at each other.
At this time, even if the two of them sit together, they will feel happy when they look at each other, laugh together, travel together, they have nothing to say, that feeling is really beautiful, and it is even sweeter.
As for real couples, they will appreciate and support each other in the emotional world, and then they will continue to understand and tolerate each other, and continue to maintain and develop a beautiful relationship.
The two sides are stupid, that is, they are not interesting or slow.
I think that if a couple doesn't even have a minimum common topic, then what can they talk about together? The two sides sat dumbly staring at each other, there was no interest, let alone romance, and I felt that the scene would not be gone for a few minutes.
Not having a common topic is like living together.
I also think that couples who don't have a common topic can't be called a real couple, it's like they're partnering with each other, although they are under one roof, each has their own ideas, even if the body has contacted, but the soul won't, because she has no tacit understanding and resonance in their hearts, but like friends.
And couples with common topics, no matter what they are doing, their thoughts can be unified, and all aspects of life will be in lockstep, not only thinking in one place, but also working in one place, especially when talking about marriage, both parties can unify their thoughts, and many things in marriage can also be solved very well.
Therefore, if there is no common topic between couples, it can prove that their three views are different, their goals and directions are different, and they will be the opposite, so how can they go further and further in the journey of life? How can the emotional world be stable, the family and marriage will not be guaranteed, and if there is no common topic, you cannot become a husband and wife, otherwise you will break up after starting a family, and the relationship will not last.
The above is all my reply, I hope it can help you and I wish you a happy life
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It is of course important that couples have common topics, because consensus is the foundation of a relationship. It is also the guarantee of love. That kind of feeling is like a family member shows that two people are inseparable from each other, inseparable, couples with common topics, no matter what they do, they can reach a unified standard, and all aspects of life will be in lockstep.
If you really want to be a long-term lover, you can try to look at the things that the other person is interested in, and use your own intelligent eyes and brains to experience the process of your relationship. I am most glad that couples who have common topics in their lives, from them you can see the common concept, the common language, although the relationship needs to be run-in, but they can complement each other, their state together, people feel comfortable at a glance, they themselves can feel simple and warm.
Therefore, if there is no common topic between couples, it can prove that their concepts are different, their goals and directions are different, and they will be the opposite, so how can they go further and further in the journey of life? How can the emotional world be stable, the family and marriage will not be guaranteed, and if there is no common topic, you cannot become a husband and wife, otherwise you will break up after starting a family, and the relationship will not last.
Falling in love is to find people with the same frequency and sharing the same interests with each other, there will be a lot of common topics and easier to get along, some people say, couples, don't care, whether the interests and hobbies are the same, and you don't have to change yourself to cater to each other's hobbies and respect each other, but can make the relationship have a long-term freshness, if you have the same interests and hobbies, then you can feel the beauty of having a common conversation and topic, you can talk about it because of the same interest, calligraphy different views, You can feel the joy of this interest together.
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