I have a 9 year old boy who loves to kick, hit, and push his classmates, how to educate?

Auntie, the first thing I found interesting when I saw your question. I'm a boy who just turned 18 years old, and I'm still a little boyish, and I think your kids are cute!I think it's normal for children to be lively and active, so that they look energetic, and being naughty is not a bad thing.

But what you said about not liking to study and loving to beat up classmates, I think you should cause ism! This could be due to a number of reasons. Because I don't know your children, I can't jump to conclusions, but based on my own experience, I do the following:

1) You notice what your child has hobbies or likes to do, such as what kind of programs he watches on TV, because his child accepts new things quickly and has no rational thinking to judge right and wrong. These are all parents should pay attention to, as well as what friends your children have made, whether these children have any bad habits, and so on, the so-called "close to Zhu is red, close to ink is black" is this truth, of course, you don't want to be alarmist, I mean to care more about your child's life.

2) If there are no above problems, you should consider the child's physical and mental health, whether your child is always beating classmates, is it a psychological problem, if there is a psychological disorder since childhood, the problem of life will be serious in the future. Many children nowadays have ADHD, and it is best to take them to the hospital for a check-up.

The above is my personal opinion of hunger, I hope it can help you.

It may be that the child thinks that this is the form of interaction he prefers. Parents should do more physical contact with their children, talk about this principle when the child is emotionally calm, and strengthen the child's language communication skills, and encourage the child to use language to communicate more than "physical".

The responsibility of parents should teach their children what is the correct interpersonal communication, 9-year-old children may feel that it is normal to push and hit classmates, it is a way for him to communicate, he does not consider the problem from the perspective of the other party, parents beat him, let him feel pain, maybe can help him learn the correct interpersonal communication, but the cost is a bit high. I guess that parents give their children too little touch to their bodies when they are very young, which encourages the child's aggression, and if you give the child a little more love, he will become cute.

Nine years old is a little late, and it should still be able to educate. Take a look at more books that educate children, it will be useful.

In this case, we must learn to encourage education.

Children want to be praised, even if they sometimes make mistakes.

But when he does a good job, you encourage him and praise him.

You can snub him appropriately when he makes a mistake.

That way, over time, he will understand that he should not make mistakes.

In fact, as he gets older, he will slowly mature.

Going to the psychology department of a major hospital is the right way.

First beat one or two violently, establish prestige (but not at every turn), so that he will not dare to make a mistake.

Problems like this are mainly due to the fact that parents do not always take care of them, so they have no authority. The child must be educated well when he is young, don't think it's nothing, if he is in this situation and let him develop, he will be the scum of society in the future, and you can't control it if you want to. You'll regret it for the rest of your life.

Generally, parents just think it's nothing, and when the child falls into high school, he will feel that his strength is enough to compete with his parents.

The father is the easiest to establish authority, and if the child makes a mistake, don't smile with him, otherwise the child will not realize the mistake and will have to make inches.

In a word: get angry when it's time to get angry.

Children love to cry because of the lack of communication, often take out to play, and let children teach friends with people of the same age!

You have to tell him that he is a man, not to cry, and to teach him to be strong.

Use interesting toys to divert his attention, usually do not take too much care of the child's life, and try to exercise the child's self-care ability. Participate in outdoor activities, go to crowded places, and interact with people.

Crying indicates insecurity, and children should be taught to express themselves.

Boys should have masculinity, have more contact with men and boys, and slowly learn their strength.

Don't fight, it's easier to cry when he's older.

My family is also 7 years old, and I cry at every turn.

Now the family is generally a child, and the child is pampered. As long as it doesn't go their way, they will cry.? Prepared some educational methods on how to solve the crying love of a nine-year-old boy.

Let's first find out the reasons: 1. Parents' "arrangement" and doting. For boys, parental "arrangement" and excessive doting may also cause the loss of their masculine characteristics.

Boys and girls see the world in very different ways, with girls often seeing the world around them through their keen senses, while boys see the world through their risk-taking behavior. But if parents dote on boys too much, whenever boys explore the world through adventures, parents will heartily remind them: son, don't, it's too dangerous!

Therefore, under the repeated prevention and reminder of parents, the boy's characteristic of understanding the world through adventure and hands-on will disappear, and it is not surprising that the boy has become a bit "sissy" tendency. 2.The absence of the role of father.

Of course, this does not refer specifically to single-parent families, but to a phenomenon common to most families in modern society: fathers often neglect the education of their children because of work, career, or other reasons. A foreign education expert once said something like this:

The reason why so many boys in China tend to be feminine is mostly because they were raised by their mothers or aunts since they were young, but what about their fathers? Boys imitate their gender identity, and if their mothers or aunts are around them from an early age, they will naturally imitate the behavior of the women around them due to the lack of male role models. As boys grow older, their gender identity becomes more stereotyped, so that even if boys are exposed to other boys in kindergarten or school, their feminine behavior does not change easily.

In fact, boys themselves do not want to be "sissy", because some feminine behaviors and manifestations often make them fall into loneliness. A normal boy is reluctant to make friends with a "sissy" boy, both in life and at school, and girls don't seem to welcome these boys who behave strangely. As a result, boys with "sissy" tendencies often live in loneliness and misery.

How do you become like a boy? Psychology believes that the formation of male personality is neither congenital inheritance nor overnight, but gradually learned through continuous learning. To become more like a boy, you can do the following:

1. Avoid relying too much on your parents, do your own things, and have the courage to take responsibility. For example, at home, you can do more hands, use your brain, and solve problems independently. 2. Engage in boyish activities with boys, teachers, fathers, etc., such as football, basketball, and long-distance running, and slowly find the feeling of boys.

3. In the class collective, take the initiative to undertake class affairs, exercise yourself in the class 4, have the courage to challenge setbacks, and have the courage to face setbacks and overcome setbacks after setbacks.

1.More encouragement, less lessons; 2.Take it to the inspirational center for training and training; 3.Prepare inspirational movies or books for your child; 4.Encourage your child to be physically active.

Tell him: Men don't cry!! Every time he cries, you have to force him not to cry! At least that's what my dad did.

This requires the father to come forward, and the father will establish a tough guy image for his son, absolutely!

What is education, it's not a big problem to cry, I'm 20 years old, or cry if you want to!!

This could be a child's personality trait!

As someone who is about to come out of the childhood stage, I think I can do this from my own point of view.

Even if parents are rich, they should not show off their wealth in front of their children, but on the contrary, they should tell their children about the difficulties of their parents, and their children are suffering, but they are also growing.

But you can't hold him all the time, and occasionally as he achieves good results or good performance, you can also give him something to encourage him.

Hope it solves your worries.

Your child has his own strengths, tell him.

There is an old Chinese saying that a son should be raised poor, and a daughter should be raised rich.

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The full text of "The Education of Love" uses the shape of a diary to tell the story of a young boy named Enrico growing up, recording what he saw and heard at school, family, and society for ten months, as well as his family's letters and teachers' touching monthly stories.

It's not Enleko, it's Enrico.

Diary form. It tells the story of a young boy named Anrico.

The diary form is one called Duc. The little boy of Amicius.

In the form of a diary, it is Enric.

When I saw your topic, I laughed, how can any student love to do homework? Looking at education now, we have to say pathetic! How many students in China are willing to learn?

For your child, you should first summarize whether he is procrastinating and lazy to do his homework or is he too stressed or does he feel that his homework is meaningless and does not do it?

If it's 1If you want him to get into the habit of doing your homework in a timely manner, you should finish your homework and then deal with other things.

2.You should take your time, and you also need to communicate with the teacher, after all, if you study so hard. Oh, how can you say it, this kind of education is not a solution, is it?

If so, let your child de-stress and participate in more extracurricular activities (non-homework)3You need to let your child understand the meaning of education and the nature of homework, and let him know why it is a serious matter not to do homework.

And don't just talk about it unilaterally, you should also guide your child to take some actions, such as setting goals for yourself to solve problems, etc.

And I think it's better not to consider boarding school if your child is not strong in autonomy.

1. Not liking to do homework is a common problem for children, and there is nothing abnormal.

2. Judging from your description, the child's dependence is relatively strong, and parents should change it;

3. Give him a reason to do this, point out the way to do it, including the use of time, and then give him time to change;

4. What you are worried about is that the child will not listen to you. This requires you to listen to his ideas more and find a solution to the problem together.

In the past seven years, no one has been urging him to live in the school, which may also be a rebellious mentality, or the phenomenon of not writing homework caused by the parents themselves, and may not be able to stand the strict requirements of the parents.

My younger brother doesn't like to do homework either, and he doesn't write much in elementary, junior high and high school, so he was still admitted to Renmin University

This requires the child to think clearly for himself·· It's useless to force him... It may be fine after this period...

However, the child should ensure that the class is efficient!! Don't leave him too much homework...

It's good to take care of it early.

Habit formation is hard to break.

You're going to tell him that you've done your homework, and you're going to pay for breakfast every day.

That's all good luck!

He really doesn't do his homework, maybe he wasn't in the mood to do his homework when you were there, it caused a misunderstanding, I often do this, my mother left the room, so I can calm down and do my homework.

Is it useful to write good homework? Can you eat it as a meal in the future?

1) Diary style.

2) Enric.

Hope it will help you.

Format of the letter The boy's name is Enric.