Why didn t my college roommate let me know something?

Roommates don't necessarily become friends, and not all friends can become brothers or girlfriends, and family members have to be a little measured, let alone roommates.

When I was in college, my roommates and I got along very well and didn't interfere in other people's private affairs, even if I didn't want a few good ones (in another room), but I didn't have any trouble in four years.

3 possibilities, right?

1.Your relationship ends with roommates, not friends.

2.The roommate is introverted and doesn't like to talk about himself.

3.It's a matter between roommates and other people, and it's about other people's privacy, so it's not good for you to know.

Isn't it normal to keep others informed about something, college roommates are just roommates after all.

In college, there are too many opportunities for you to find someone who doesn't have to wronged yourself and is completely compatible with you, so in the role of roommate, you will choose to find that once you find a difference, you will not put away your edge to wronged yourself, because there are many options outside.

As a normal friend, he will naturally say it if he wants to tell you. If you keep asking him, it's counterproductive. He will become more and more bad for you, and think that you are unreliable!

Each roommate has his own pursuits, but sometimes they will get together to eat and talk about their homely feelings. Sometimes I also share with each other some things I usually encounter in my studies and life.

Universities bring together people from various urban and rural areas, which are very different in themselves, and you may be better off in a good university, after all, even if a child who studies well comes from a poorer place, he is also better educated, or he simply only studies and will not be involved in disputes.

Maybe you don't have too much trust between you, he doesn't believe that you're that simple. There are some things that you don't have to know if you know them, and you don't need to know them from others.

Roommates being friends are prone to have a fundamental emotional impact. Today you go to school together, tomorrow you don't wait for her to be together, the day after tomorrow you are with someone else, maybe she will think that you and her are not so good.

When you get to college, no one will care about you, so the four people in the dormitory are all bowed heads, or they are facing the computer. There is no emotion without communication, and there is no quarrel anyway.

Because after going to college, everyone had a best friend before, so when something happened, they naturally didn't consider this roommate who was not very familiar with him, and they all went to find a girlfriend.

The distance between life is too close, but the distance in the heart is not synchronized. It is easy to get acquainted with it because of the difference in outlook on life and values. Before you become friends, you can get along politely. From friends to strangers, but it's different.

It's his business if he doesn't let me know, some things involve other people's privacy, and too much dryness is not good, and he will tell you when he wants you to know!

Why should you know about other people's affairs, you're a fart.

Why should you know?

Hearing this topic, everyone has a different answer, some roommates have a good time, it may be a lifetime of wealth, but some may not be in touch when they are in school, it may be related to the personality of people!

College roommates are still worth contacting, many of them are lifelong wealth, lifelong friends, but there are exceptions, depending on the individual, if you think it is not worth contacting, you will not open the stool to contact, and a happier life is the most important thing.

The first type is like-minded, university classmates who speak a language and share the same values. In this category, not only are they still in contact, but they also meet and take care of each other.

There are often one or two such college classmates. I myself was more active in college, so I had more friends than Naixo, but if I only talked about roommates, there were only two.

The second type, when I was in college, was the kind that I didn't say a word and didn't get in touch with it sooner, so I naturally stopped contacting it. In short, you can't talk to this kind of person, as long as you open your mouth, this person is joking, joking. After graduation, they are all old classmates, but in fact, they are still unspeakable, which is annoying.

Such a person is actually really annoying, always speaking disrespectfully, and then, knowing that he has said the wrong thing, he hurriedly uses joking as an excuse. This kind of person, basically, either doesn't get in touch or avoids it.

Such roommates often have one. I myself, on the other hand, met one and avoided it.

The third is that there is not much intersection and different values, and there is no connection. But they used to be roommates with each other, and there was no conflict, so there was no problem in maintaining a superficial friendship. Met it, say hello, that's it.

I don't contact anymore, mainly for the following reasons:

1. Changes in the circle of life.

After graduating from university, people's life circles and environments will change greatly, and work and life will be rearranged, which will lead to a decrease in the frequency of original contact.

Second, the feeling of emotional distance.

After leaving campus life, the emotional distance between people is felt, which is one of the reasons for the decrease in the frequency of contact.

3. Personal development is different.

After graduating from college, different people have different personal development paths and plans, which will also affect the original friendship to a certain extent, and the connection will naturally be estranged.

Fourth, the focus of life has changed.

At different stages of life, the focus and focus of life will change, from study life to work life, which will also make people's energy and focus different, affecting the connection with old friends.

However, there will still be a certain connection with sincere bosom friends, mainly reflected in:

1. Regular contact.

2. Important holiday greetings.

On some important holidays and birthdays, special greetings will be contacted to show the continuation of friendship.

3. Time to meet.

Although the frequency of daily contact with Tiehui has decreased, she will take time to meet and get together, eat, vacation, travel, etc., and relive friendship.

Fourth, accompany the important moments in life.

In some important moments in life, such as weddings, giving birth to children, etc., friends will still accompany and congratulate each other, and share the joy of life with each other.

Therefore, with sincere bosom friends, despite the change of living environment and the separation of time and space, the inner friendship and care will not change. The roommate of the confidant Hongzhidan in college will also become a sincere friend who will be unforgettable in this life. Time and space do not have much impact on sincere friendship, it comes from sincere understanding and dedication.

This is also one of the manifestations of the true meaning of life.

Recently, a student asked me, "Senior, after you graduated from college, do you still have contact with your roommate?" "I don't want to lie to everyone, what kind of classmates, what brotherhood, we have no contact!

When you graduate, you'll be able to experience it deeply! When you open a dorm group and want to send a message, you don't know what to say......At this point, you'll have a myriad of thoughts in your head! What are the roommates doing?

How are you doing? What would you say if another roommate asked you questions? Then, the best option is that you don't spoil the "quiet" atmosphere in the dormitory group!

First: Cherish the time you spend with your roommates.

If you have a few people in the dormitory and have a good relationship, you must cherish the days with your friends! Because three or four years of college are fleeting. When you graduate, it's so hard to see each other.

Especially in your dormitory, everyone is from a different province. Some college roommates will never see each other again.

Second: I don't want to bother!

Sometimes, I don't keep in touch with other roommates, I just don't want to disturb others.

Because you don't know, how are the other roommates doing? Is there any job stability? Did you encounter any difficulties?

The most important thing is not to bother them. Because everyone has their own work to do after graduation. There is also its own, new social circles, which need to be maintained.

I hope everyone will put the best side in their memory.

Third: Between roommates, there are fewer intersections, and it's normal to be in touch with each other!

You can ask the seniors who have graduated for many years, and there must be very little contact between them and their roommates. Most dormitories, roommates, should not be in contact with each other.

For most of the younger students, you are still college students. You've been with your roommate the longest, and when you graduate, you'll understand what I'm talking about.

Finally, I wish my dear roommates all the best in their work and life! I also hope that the younger students can get along well with the roommates.