What do you think about the issue of having a second child?

I think it's good to have a second child, for a child, two people have a companion! Just like my mother's generation, there are many brothers and sisters, so every time I go back to my hometown for the New Year, the whole family is very lively, and if I am an only child, I will be lonely in the future......

I don't think you should have a second child, from a psychological point of view, the general handling is not very good parents, either leave a permanent heartbreak to the first child, or let the first child pretend to be well-behaved on the surface, but in fact the heart has been alienated from the family, indifferent to family affection, or burst into self-harm, or violent harm to the second child.

I think having a second child is unfair to one child, because everyone says they want to be fair, but in fact, it can't be fair at all, and when the time comes, treating two children differently will inevitably distort the mind of one party.

I think it's good to have a second child, because two children can grow up with each other, one can have another person to protect, and I will definitely feel very happy if it were me!

I think it's okay to have a second child if a family is still wealthy, but don't have a second child if it's not rich, and the funds for the support and education of the second child will definitely make a family miserable.

I think it's unfair to the boss. From the economic point of view, many parents want to have both children when they reach middle age, and give birth to another As a result, the child fell down before he grew up, and the eldest son and eldest daughter had to bear this responsibility. No one thinks that the one who is big also has a life of his own.

My parents once considered having a second child, and after I refused, they dismissed the idea, not without pressure, their friends, my relatives persuaded them to have one more, and some said some nonsense about inheriting incense in a vain attempt to impress my parents, but they respected my wishes. Of course, I promised to support them.

I'm in favor of having a second child, because I'm an only child, and many of my friends have younger siblings, so they usually have a lot of fun together, but I'm lonely at home alone.

I think that if the age difference between the second child and the first child is not large, it can be born, because the two children can be together with each other when they are first exposed to the environment, and their understanding of the world is more sound.

One child is a female baby, and I hope this baby is a healthy male baby, and I hope that both children and daughters will be complete.

Those who say that they are afraid that one child will be lonely, do they think that giving birth to two is to be companions? Do you spend most of your life as companions for a sibling? Think about it if you don't have enough conditions, and don't follow everything.

The first thing to consider is "money".

After all, the cost of raising a child is not low, from the milk powder and diapers that are drunk from birth, to going to kindergarten, primary school, middle school, university, and starting a family, which link does not require financial investment? After considering your actual situation, you can judge whether you can have a second child.

The second thing to consider is whether the family is harmonious.

In addition to the relationship between husband and wife, there is another factor that has to be considered is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If the family relationship is harmonious, after giving birth to a second child, the husband and mother-in-law can take a hand, so that the mother can also be much easier.

Finally, be sure to respect the opinions of older children.

Many parents feel that there is only one child in the family who is lonely and does not even have a playmate, so they naturally want to have a second child. But children also have their own ideas, don't think that he doesn't understand anything.

In terms of having a second child, you must ask for the opinion of the eldest child in advance, if Dabao is very resistant, then the second child is born, and the relationship between the two children will not be harmonious, and the parents will be busy mediating.

Therefore, having a second child is not a simple matter, and it is even related to the happiness of a family.

01 The cost of raising childrenIn modern society, the cost of having children is too high. We don't have the courage of our fathers and grandfathers, and we will be one all our lives. We have to calculate the money for a child's milk powder and diapers for a year, the registration fee for a year's nursery class and early education class, and then apply for an interest class, which is even more unacceptable.

Forget it, the heaviest straw of school district housing and school choice, I don't know how many parents have been pressed. Ordinary families, every time they toss, it takes half a lifetime of hard work. Some people say that if you can afford to be born, you can naturally afford to raise it.

However, today's children are no longer dependent on heaven. We are responsible for them, and we can't give the best, but we can't give the worst. If it's all your children, some of them go to good schools and some don't.

How is the child's psychology balanced? If your child is the worst in school and no school, who will appease the child's inferiority complex? 02 Family conflict has heard a sentence:

Poor and lowly couples mourn everything". Zenzi may really bring down a family and cause family conflicts. Many boyfriends and girlfriends go to marriage because of love, and because marriage goes to the grave.

Children can be one of the triggers. What can be solved with money is often a small thing, only when there is no money, no matter how small a thing can become a big thing. When calculating every day, what money is spent, how much money can be spent, what to do with the rent, electricity bills, taxes, and textbook fees next month, and who spends more and who spends less, men will feel that women are calculating, Rory is very, and women will feel that men are incapable and have not allowed themselves to live a good life.

02 A woman's youth, a woman's most beautiful time is to fall in love with this man, and the last youth gives birth to a man with a child. Go to Tieba and Shitang.com to see how many women are asking how to recover their figure after giving birth and how to get rid of freckles. How much a woman values her appearance and figure!

Once you give birth, a woman's belly becomes flabby, and stretch marks also make you say goodbye to crop tops. All kinds of spots have sprung up on the rough Wuchen's face, and they can only be covered by BB frost. Born and born, the nasolabial folds are out, please tell the woman, how else can you cover it?

Forget it, let's serve the old. Look at Chen Haoming's wife, who has dissected so many fetuses, how great this woman must be! 03 A woman's career can hold up half the sky, if women really give birth to so many people, this day should be replaced.

Since the release of the second child, when the employer interviews, the woman will be asked if she has a plan for a second child, or she directly wants a man. Female applicants with the same conditions have an advantage over those who have given birth to a second child, and those who have not given birth to a child have an advantage. Re-employment is a curse on women.

If you only give birth to one child, you can return to the workplace with the help of the elderly, if you have too many children, will the elderly be able to eat? Will the company wait for you? In the workplace, there are countless stories of "only hearing the newcomer laughing, not seeing the old person crying", which discourages working mothers who want to have a second or third child.

1.Look at the family's financial situation. If the family is financially powerful, it is actually good to have younger siblings. If the family economy is average, then there will definitely be a lot of pressure at home if you have younger siblings.

2.The benefits vary depending on the period. When you are young, you can be noisy, but when you grow up, you can share your thoughts. When your parents are not in good health, you can discuss what to do together, and you can share the hard work of taking care of your parents.

3.I was an only child, and I grew up longing to have siblings. I have friends who have only children, and two of them say that they are very happy and are only children.

The responsibility and obligation to take care of one's parents are one's own, and all that parents have is their own. It shows that everyone has a different view of their brothers and sisters.

4.What is your role. Are you the eldest in the family, and your parents decided to have a second child?

Or are you a parent considering whether to have a second child? If you are a child and your parents decide to have a second child because they want to give you a companion and hope that you will respect your parents without rejection. If you are very repulsed, then talk to your parents deeply and tell them that they should respect you and that you don't want a second child.

If you are a parent, then communicate with your child before deciding. After all, the boss always thought that the family structure was Mom and Dad and me. Now that it's going to change suddenly, it's going to be very uncomfortable.

5.You already have younger siblings, so wait, and when you grow up, you will know that you have younger siblings. Be a little patient and wait a bit.

Finally, I hope you don't get into the horns of the bull, look at everything a little more, and listen more to the opinions of friendship. Good luck.

1. The key depends on parents and family.

There are pros and cons to one thing, and a second child is not necessarily bad for you. Whether you will have a little playmate or a little influence on you depends on what kind of family your family is, what the atmosphere is, whether your parents are patriarchal, and so on. If your parents are more open-minded and will not let you let it go everywhere because the second child is young, and will not let you lose anything, why stop it?

If your parents are patriarchal and you are worried about your status, of course you have to come up with the right and effective solution.

2. Consider family conditions.

On the premise of looking at the parents, it is also necessary to help the parents consider the factors of family conditions. If the family conditions are good, after giving birth to a second child, it will not make you lose your original life, so you can not stop it; But if the family conditions are not good, it is not recommended for parents to have a second child, because it is difficult to raise you one, let alone raise a younger brother and sister!

3. It's also good for you.

If your parents add a younger sibling to you, it will be better for you to take a long-term view. If you are an only child, when your parents are old, the task of supporting your parents will fall on you alone, but if you have a younger brother or sister, you can support your parents together at that time, which will reduce a lot of burden for you.

4. Parents are not there to take care of you.

When many years later, your parents are gone, and you are old, but your younger brothers and sisters are still young, you don't have no relatives, and your younger brothers and sisters who are in the same vein as you can take care of you, wouldn't it be great?

If my parents had the idea of having a second child, I wouldn't stop it. The reason why I do this is because as a child I do not have the right to prevent my parents from having a second child, there must be a good reason for my parents to choose to have a second child, and I am happier when my parents have a second child.

1. As a child, I am not qualified to prevent my parents from having a second child.

Parents have the right to have children, so they have the right to have a second child. As children, they are not qualified to prevent their parents from having a second child. ......From this point of view, since I am not qualified to prevent my parents from having a second child, then I will not do meaningless things.

Therefore, I will respect the choice of my parents, and even if I do not support their choice, I will not stop them.

2. Parents must have a good reason for choosing to have a second child, and they can't stop it.

From a practical point of view, there must be a good reason for parents to choose to have a second child. ......They must have done sufficient analysis and preparation in advance, and have determined that it is feasible to have a second child. In this case, they can't stop their choice of having a second child at all.

3. After parents give birth to a second child, they can be accompanied by younger siblings, which will make them happier.

In the case of only one child in the family, the child himself will feel very lonely and very much want to be able to be accompanied by his younger siblings. ......Parents choose to have a second child just to give themselves this opportunity, they will have the company of younger brothers and sisters from now on, and they will no longer be lonely and lonely. ......Therefore, it is actually very beneficial for parents to choose to have a second child, so they will not stop them.

The main reasons for the implementation of the two-child policy are:

1. Optimizing the population structure and implementing a comprehensive two-child policy is conducive to optimizing the population structure, increasing labor supply, alleviating the pressure of population aging, and promoting the sustainable and healthy development of the economy. Achieving the goal of building a moderately prosperous society in all respects is conducive to better implementing the basic national policy of family planning and promoting family happiness and social harmony.

2. To avoid the large-scale impact of the disappearance of the demographic dividend, member of the Faculty of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, director of the Institute of Population and Labor Economics. **China's average annual potential GDP growth rate during the 12th and 13th Five-Year Plan periods will fall to and , respectively. The number of young people is declining and they are unable to provide relatively cheap elements**.

However, for developing countries, cheap labor is an important factor in development, and in-depth economic analysis and empirical studies have shown that in addition to the slowing effect of technological progress and urbanization, population decline will lead to a decline in per capita GDP.

3. To solve the problem of subsequent aging and promote the steady transition of the economy, the proportion of the elderly population in China is rising, from 13.3% in 2010 to 10% in 2014 to 2014. At present, China has increased to 2014. At present, China has become more than 2014.

Before the disturbance, China has become one of the countries with the fastest aging rate, and the problem of living and living for the elderly has become increasingly prominent.