What is it like for older youth to be single again?

Free, imaginative, occasionally feel lonely, lonely, but tired of that tossing state, in general, happy more than unhappy.

I'm going to be single for the rest of my life, and I feel very free.

Get used to being single. It's rare to get a heartbeat.

I hope to meet someone I like, but I'm afraid of life after marriage, and now I feel tired when I think about it.

What's there, just be happy, even if you have a deposit to buy what you like, having a good body is better than anything.

Lonely, there was always someone to accompany me before, and suddenly the two broke up, I felt that I couldn't adapt to life, and I was almost thirty, a worry about my future life!

Finally I can fly, it's good to live alone, not so much quarrel and disappointment, after a period of sadness, every day is busy and dull, it's good not to have the person who consumes you, and the man in the world is not him.

I'm about to turn 27, I've been single for almost three years, except for feeling lonely when I see others basking in happiness, everything else is fine, I do my own laundry, cook and watch TV! raised two Wangs, and the days passed day by day.

I think that returning to singleness at this age is simply a return to youth, I can do things that I didn't have time to do before, meet the people I want to meet, go to the places I want to go, and learn to enrich myself. In short, a rare sense of relaxation and freedom.

There are gains and losses, going home to an empty room every day, getting up alone in the morning, and watching movies with no one on weekends is very lonely.

It's very lonely, everything you do has become yourself, and no one is around to talk about yourself, I miss the old days, and I still have a companion when I'm older.

It's very relaxed, and there is not so much pressure in the face of finance, but there is more pressure on the parents' side, but it can cope with it, except for being lonely, everything else is fine.

Coming and going as soon as 29 years old, single for a year and a half, a person comes and goes freely without worry, but there will always be a little loneliness from time to time. If you want to have a serious relationship, if you can meet someone you like, but, don't settle!

It's just that I've become my own.,One eats at home, watches TV alone, sleeps alone.,It's nothing.,Isn't it like this for those who don't have an object.。

At first, I felt that it was nothing, but then I was afraid that I would not find a partner, after all, I was almost thirty, and it was really difficult to find a suitable partner, and now I am very panicked.

I'm an older leftover girl, and I returned to single a month ago, how to say it, I just feel very good, but there is just one less person, but my parents are very anxious, and they are urging every day, and they are helpless.

As long as it's not suitable, I won't be reluctant to be together at any time, I spoil myself, I won't go against my will to do things I don't like, to meet people I don't want to meet, to talk about inexplicable and wonderful love. So even if I'm single, I don't feel anything.

Older single youth, of courseIt's notThere are psychological problems.

Perhaps in the eyes of many elderly people, people who are not married at the age of thirty or forty must be a bit of a problem, because in their generation, there are almost no people who do not get married, and many of them make a marriage contract around their twenties. Therefore, in the eyes of these people, they can't understand what older young people think when they don't get married, so they think that these unmarried young people must have psychological problems before they don't get married.

Of course, young people also think so, they get married early, enter into family life, and think that that kind of life is normal and in line with the rules of human survival and reproduction. But actually,There is not only one path to follow in life, and not everyone has to step into married life

Older young people naturally have their own reasons for not getting married, but they have nothing to do with psychological problems。There are now too many reasons why older young people are not married. Some people like to live singlely, think that living alone is the best state of life, and do not want to share their living space with others and share their leisurely rest time.

As long as you have enough living ability and financial ability, and can take care of your own food, clothing, housing and transportation, this quiet and comfortable life is quite comfortable.

There are also some older young people who are willing to get married, but they have not yet met a suitable partner. Unlike the previous parents' orders and matchmakers' words, modern people have the right to speak in their own marriage. Even if they are not young, many people are reluctant to get married if they do not meet the person who really wants to enter into marriage with them.

That's why so many people are still unmarried. It's not a psychological problem, it's a more cautious and responsible approach to marriage.

There are also some people who take their work very seriously and don't have so much energy to fall in love. It is not surprising that modern people graduate from school and then enter society, at least in their twenties, and there are some more educated, and it is not surprising that they graduate in their thirties. By the time their jobs are stable, they are already in the stage of older youth, and the fact that these people are not married has nothing to do with psychological problems.

Because of these reasons, the situation of older young people is unmarried. Only you have the right to speak about what life should be, and it is not the turn of others to talk about how other people's lives are.

It doesn't have to be a psychological problem, it can be a material problem. Because material things are particularly important in this society, if your conditions are not good, even if you are psychologically good, it will be difficult to find a perfect love.

No, it may be because I haven't met a suitable other half, and my mate selection requirements are relatively high, so I have always been single.

Personally, I don't feel like it, because being single at an older age may be that I haven't met the right person, so I will always be single, not because of psychological problems.

Of course not. The reason why these older single young men are single is only because they have high requirements for their other half, and they have nothing to do with psychology.

Regarding why older young people have been in a single state of He Changju, in fact, there are many reasons, both internal and external.

In my opinion, in terms of inner character, those who are not sociable have a small circle and few friends; The external factor is the general environment, the pressure of life is too great, there is no time to fall in love, get married or something, and wait for a blind date in the future.

Another is that people's minds have been emancipated and have become more than just looking at the road of marriage. Some people will choose to live alone because they are more free; Some people feel that after getting married, their lives will not be their own; Some people are even afraid of getting married and so on.

But in fact, not everyone is like this, and most of them want to get off the list, but now there is a lack of opportunities.

It's not something you want to do if you want to get off the list, it depends on whether the other party wants to do it or not.

Many people want to get rid of the single, but they don't just want to do it themselves, and take the initiative to pursue a person, but they can only get a reply of "we are not suitable".

People's hearts are actually sensitive, and when they are rejected many times, many people will choose to "lie flat". The expectation of love will also be very low, and when you don't expect love in your mind, you will choose to follow fate.

In my opinion, this kind of psychology is one of the reasons that affect the single. After all, if you want to do something, if you are not positive at all, it is difficult to do it.

Life is too stressful, and survival comes first.

There is a saying in nature that when animals are facing an existential crisis, they will suspend reproduction.

In fact, people are similar, but the pressure of work and life is huge, and you have to be busy every day to survive, who has time to find a partner?

And even if you are comfortable at work now, you can't afford the house, dowry, and car you need to get married.

Give each other a good home, but now that you are just able to live, what can you use to support your other half?

With high education and broad knowledge, there are also high requirements for the quality of marriage.

With the progress of society, young people's education and knowledge are relatively high, and they will be very thoughtful about one thing, and they have higher requirements for things related to themselves.

When it comes to marriage, if the quality is poor, it's better to be single. And now women are able to support themselves, and some women are paid multiples of men's wages.

So, for them, why should their quality of life deteriorate after marriage? After all, marriage is to make life better. It's just that this kind of beauty, whether it's just material or not, it's hard to say.

Finally, in my opinion, the reason why older young people choose to be single should have social influence in addition to their own, but mainly their own.

Because I got used to it, coupled with the pressure of life, it was difficult to find a partner.

1. There is an imbalance in the ratio of men and women.

In 1982, due to the implementation of family planning in China, and the idea of preference for sons over women at that time was also very serious, there was a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, resulting in the lack of targets for older young people, so there was a large number of single people.

2. High housing prices, the cost of marriage is too high.

Now the housing prices are too high, and it is not enough to spend all the money of both families to buy a house for marriage, and they have to take out a loan, with a 30-year repayment period, and it is difficult to make money, which causes a lot of pressure, resulting in the boy not looking for a partner and not getting married.

3. Boys have a lot of work pressure and it is difficult to make money.

Now life is stressful, it is difficult to find a job, it is not easy to make money, and the job is unstable. Children in their thirties are basically only children, their parents are more doting, they are unwilling to do things with less money, they can't do things with more money, and they can barely maintain their own expenses, and even their parents pay back part of the money every month. If you don't have responsibility, you don't dare to take responsibility, so you don't want to get married and have children.

4. Girls are becoming more and more demanding.

Because girls are basically graduating from college now, with higher educational qualifications, and the requirements for boys are getting higher and higher, they are dazzled, and they always think that they don't marry anyway, and now there are more boys, and the prince charming who is not his ideal does not marry, it is because of the existence of this idea that there are more and more older leftover women.

5. Regional differences.

There is now a phenomenon of geographical polarization, with boys in big cities not looking for a partner, and girls in small cities not looking for a partner. Housing prices are too high in big cities, work is stressful, and many boys are busy working and earning money and not looking for a partner. Life in small cities is stable, parents can buy a house for their children, but after the boys finish college, most of them work in the big cities and do not return to their hometowns, which makes the boys in the small cities less and less, and the girls in the small cities also have high requirements for men, and there are few single boys, and there are even fewer suitable ages, so that they cannot find boys who meet their requirements, resulting in girls getting older and older.

6. The divorce rate is getting higher and higher.

The use of smart phones, the popularity of short **, a mobile phone can see all over the world, there is no communication in real life, emotional fragility, and the divorce rate has increased, resulting in many people not daring to believe in love and afraid of getting married, so that many people are in their thirties and do not plan to find a partner, the more they don't want to get married, the more they feel that life alone is actually very good, once there is this kind of thinking, Chinese single people will become higher and higher.

7. Can't be tempted by a person.

There are several reasons for this:

a. I have been hurt emotionally before, and since then I have closed myself off, and I dare not and will not easily accept the opposite sex.

b. Men want women to be beautiful, women want men to be handsome, and ordinary people can't get into their eyes.

c. I always compare it with my previous lovers, and I always feel that it is not as good as my previous lovers.

d. Close your heart, reject people thousands of miles away, and feel that you no longer believe in love.

In fact, I think that whether it is a man or a woman who meets the right person for him in love, he or chooses to get married, after all, the person who has fate cannot wait for you all the time, once you miss it, it is really a lifetime, and when the time comes, you will be after.

One. Older single young people may be a situation of craving for love.

Two. Most older single young people may go on blind dates to find a future partner.

The current situation of older single young people is not very good, because if you want to get married, you need a lot of money, but many people are relatively short of money and cannot afford to buy a house, so there is a lot of psychological pressure.

I don't want to get married, the burden is too heavy and not free after marriage, and it's better to be single, but I want to get married and want to be alone with me, so many people are very entangled.

Nowadays, there are many older single young people in society, because their lives are more stressful, so they do not consider entering the state of marriage for the time being.

Being single at an older age is a common phenomenon, but it can also bring a certain sense of anxiety.

First of all, being single at an older age will make people feel lonely. Most people want a partner they can rely on, but older single people don't have that opportunity, which can make them feel lonely and sometimes even hopeless.

Secondly, being single at an older age can be stressful. Older single people can feel like they're left behind because they see that their friends are married and they don't, which can make them feel stressed and sometimes even hopeless.

Finally, being single at an older age can be worrying. Older single people worry that they will remain single or even that they will never find their significant other, which can make them anxious and even hopeless at times.

In short, being single at an older age can bring a certain sense of anxiety, but we should not give up hope of finding a significant other half. We should believe that as long as we work hard, one day a partner we can rely on will appear by our side.