Why is it that you don t get what you give? If you don t give, you don t get

In fact, everyone's outlook on life is different, and it is impossible to demand the same. Personally, I understand that there is not always a return on what I give, but there are many things that I still have to give, because there are things that I don't need to achieve.

For example, if I love someone, as long as I can love him, I am very satisfied. To live in this way is to be a real person, so that there is no contempt for one's soul and the value of existence...

Who doesn't want to be able to be rewarded. However, it backfires, and giving is not equal to return, so they are not proportional. If you put it on a mathematical formula, it is absolutely proportional!

However, if it is a relationship, many people can't say anything about the relationship! So why care how much you give? How much did he or she reciprocate?

If you really love him or her, what is it to pay for him!? If he or she is happy, won't you be happy too!? If what you pay is only what you want in return, then you still pay sincerely!

This is life, it is the process of growth ... When you face a lot of things like this, it's not surprising, because you've been numb for a long time ... Some things don't just have to be paid, they also have to pay attention to a little way and method!

As long as you give sincerely, it will definitely be rewarded, maybe not tangible, but it is also a kind of wealth. Life will make us less youthful and vigorous, it will make us more mature and stable. That's life!

Don't sigh, don't grieve.

The sun will shine on your sky, making your sky even more dazzling.

There is nothing in the world that is easy to do, and there is nothing that can be done well without action and effort.

For example, practicing calligraphy, learning Chinese painting, or learning to play soft ball, you say, you don't need to pay time and energy to work hard, and if you don't pay, you won't be effective.

I remember a senior once told me that the wrist should be flexible when writing calligraphy, some strokes are used to drive the pen naturally with the wrist, and there are big fingers, index fingers, and middle fingers when holding the pen, you must learn to turn the pen.

Every morning when this senior exercises in the morning, he will practice his wrists and pen movements empty-handed, and practice while walking, and he has integrated this action into his life and has become a habit.

It can be seen that if you want to do a good job, you must work hard and pay anytime and anywhere. Although you may not succeed if you work hard, you will never succeed if you don't work hard.

There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart.

No matter how difficult it is, as long as you have the heart, perseverance, and are willing to work hard for it, I believe that you will eventually gain something.

Because, your efforts will not be in vain, every step you take is laying the foundation, is paving the way for success, the more experience you accumulate, the greater and more amazing the harvest in the future.

Sometimes, people only see the halo on the top of other people's heads to show off, but they can't see the hardships and efforts behind him, and only when he himself understands how much he has paid, can he be admired by others.

No, sometimes you give but you don't get anything, and if you don't pay then you won't get anything.

Of course, such as inheriting an inheritance or something.

For example, if you don't give now, you want to reap.