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Selfish people, people who don't respect others, people who don't understand others, people who are very arrogant, people who often promote themselves, such people must not have deep friendships.
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People who only think about themselves, people who don't think about others, people who are very arrogant, people who are very egotistical, people who never understand others, people who don't respect others.
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1.One face to face, one behind, people with different looks. "People who are truly worthy of interacting are consistent with words and deeds, and are united in knowledge and action.
When you get along with such a person, your feelings can be pure and your feelings will be steady. 2. People who have had a relationship have nothing to do, no learning and no skills. In fact, to put it simply, you fly with the wild geese, the endless sky, sit with the pigs, and the endless gluttony, do not take huge risks, and the future is endless.
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People who are very good with everyone are usually mellow, sophisticated, and have rich experience in people and things, for such people, everything is a resource in his eyes, which can be used, as long as it is valuable, it can be used, and it can be discarded if it is worthless.
Because it is impossible for a person to have a good relationship with everyone, if a person really does it, then this kind of good must be based on interests, if there is no interest between each other, then the so-called deep friendship will become worthless.
Therefore, when facing such a person, no matter how sincere and important you are to him, the other party just regards you as a resource that can be used, and once your value is insufficient or worthless, he will exchange you, or betray you. Even a second ago, he was smiling at you, but he betrayed you as soon as he turned around, which is why he can't have a deep friendship with this kind of person.
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Hello yes, because it is good with anyone, it means that the other party still has a sense of distance from others in his heart, and at the same time he treats others insincerely, and at the same time he may not be rewarded for his affection.
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I think most of this is the case, in case a small part of the heart is sincere, so treat people as you like, just do what you want, don't dig out your heart and lungs, and treat yourself as the first is!
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I think people like this can make deep friends. Such people are kind to others. And any kind of person can come. There are no selfish thoughts.
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It can't be said that you can't make deep friends, it's just that being friends with this kind of person, you can't feel your own importance, because the other party has a lot of friends, and you are not one behind.
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Some people have a good relationship with everyone, this kind of person may only be enthusiastic about people on the surface, and there may not be many people who can really have a deep relationship with him, so some people will say that they can't have a deep relationship with someone who is very good.
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That's right! Such people are good at flattery! And anyone can go around. Such a person should not be deeply acquainted, but he can use his resources!
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And people who are good to everyone. This kind of person belongs to high emotional intelligence. So he will make friends with anyone. There are also a few things we should pay attention to when making friends with him.
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Such a person may not be very innocent in heart.
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Basically, people who are very good with everyone.,It's really not sensible.,If you want to smoke this kind of person.,It's to say such things to everyone.,It's to be friends.,But if that's it.,There will definitely be problems with deep friendship.。
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I think this kind of person is a good guy at best, that is, he is well, no matter where he goes, he behaves very well, so this kind of person really can't have deep friendships.
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What is good on the surface is not necessarily really good, and you need to experience it with your heart.
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It's not right to have a deep friendship with someone who is good to everyone. And people who are very nice. There must be far and near in his heart.
His heart. There are ordinary friends and intimate friends, but on the surface they are trying to do a good job of unity. On the surface, it looks good with everyone.
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Selfish, ungrateful, ungrateful, clear-minded, narrow-minded, and so they all end up mixing, and they may not even have a friend.
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I think these three kinds of people are selfish people, people who habitually shirk their responsibilities, people who lie a lot, no one wants to be friends with these three kinds of people, and after understanding their character and conduct, they will choose to stay away from them.
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These kinds of people who are very selfish, very cautious, very picky, don't know how to share, and like to speak ill of others, don't even have a friend in the end.
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If it is because of your personal reasons that your friends have left you, then reflect on it.
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Take a good look at how you behave. Improved, continue to make friends later.
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Do some self-reflection on what you did wrong and what your worst shortcomings are.
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Since ancient times, there are still three good Qin Hui. If a person ends up messing up and doesn't have any friends, there must be something wrong with him.
First, maybe you are too honest, too wooden, not good at talking, just like people say that you can't make a fart with eight bars, so you are not good at communicating with others or don't want to make friends with others at all;
Second, it may be a withdrawn or short-tempered personality, others are not good at contacting you, or they are unwilling to associate with you;
Third, you may be a selfish person or someone who likes to take advantage of small advantages. In the interpersonal exchanges of making friends, too stingy and calculating, such as eating people for ten meals without inviting one meal, there are benefits to face forward, and no benefits to shrink back. In the end, all your friends are alienated from you or no longer have anything to do with you.
A fence with three piles, a hero with three gangs, life in the world, or a few more friends.
There is nothing wrong with anyone, I think in the end, everyone almost has no friends, which is a social deformity caused by social interests. My uncle was the general manager of a real estate company, and when my grandfather celebrated his birthday, he went to the people who drove luxury cars in their fifties and sixties, and when he saw my grandfather, he kowtowed and knelt down, and gave a lot of gifts.
They all said that they were my uncle's iron buddies and good friends, but my uncle later resigned, and none of these good friends and iron buddies were gone. Isn't this the world where no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.
I just turned 40 this year, I don't have a single friend, and I usually contact my colleagues at work, and my classmates are either in enterprises and institutions, or in banks or military communication companies. I don't want to contact them because I'm a little minion in a private company, and Gao Liangji can't climb them. They didn't want to contact me because I didn't help them in their careers.
My table mate in high school, now a director, began to be lukewarm to me, once went on a business trip to them, I contacted him to say a meeting, and he agreed, but I didn't answer when I arrived, and he never contacted me again.
The more I lived, the more I understood, and I knew that there was only a community of interests, and a community without friends. So when you are an ordinary person, don't expect so much, the older you get, your energy and time are invested in your family, the older you are, the bigger the gap between them, and there is no intersection in life and work, so you will be estranged.
In fact, no matter how rich a friend is, he will not give you a few hundred respects, and no matter how powerful his friend is, he will not let you have power. Just live yourself in a down-to-earth manner, keep your friends in mind, and don't forget about the rivers and lakes.
Alone, in the end, there is no friend, whose fault is it?
To tell you the truth, I (myself) don't have a friend now, and I often think that for decades, I finally didn't have a true friend, and I didn't understand that it was my fault? Or did you not meet a good person? Speaking from the heart, I am discriminated against everywhere, mainly because I am not very good at speaking; Won't go for sycophancy; will not tell lies, love to tell the truth; Keep your promises to those around you ......As a result, the relationship with everyone around me can gradually become estranged.
Selfish, ungrateful, ungrateful, clear-minded, narrow-minded, and so they all end up mixing, and they may not even have a friend.
This kind of person must be able to endure loneliness and like to be alone. There are also people who don't care about other people's opinions, just to do what they believe they do.
They belong to the group of people who are more autistic and lonely. These people don't have a single friend in their lives, which means that they are not sociable, this kind of person prefers to be alone, no friends, not without communication skills, but has their own pursuits, not like-minded people, unable to enter their world.
I think true friends are mutual. I stayed in the city after graduating, and basically didn't have any real friends here. I usually don't feel that there is anything special about not having a true friend around, that is, sometimes I quarrel with my boyfriend, I want to run away from home and have nowhere to go, or I don't want to talk to my boyfriend about something unhappy at home, and I can't find anyone who can listen to me and cry with me. >>>More
When you don't have a good friend, you will feel that you are actually not afraid of anything, because you don't have a good friend, you will not rely on others when doing things, you will do your best to do it, and in many aspects of life you will not have a lot of scruples, you will not want to hurt the people around you, you just need to take into account your own interests, so you feel relatively free, but sometimes there is no one else to help you when you are in trouble.