Why don t people like to listen to the truth?

Each of us wants to hear praise and praise.

However, no one is perfect, and each of us has shortcomings and mistakes. Therefore, in the minds of others, we will all have relevant evaluations. ......If you tell the truth, you will tell your true thoughts and point out the shortcomings and mistakes of the other person......Obviously, many people don't like to hear such words.

That's why a lot of people don't know what to tell the truth.

Each of us wants to be affirmed and doesn't like to hear negative comments about ourselves.

However, everyone has shortcomings and mistakes, and if you tell the truth, you will make negative evaluations of each other's shortcomings and mistakes......Many people don't want to hear this......That's why a lot of people don't like to hear the truth.

The truth represents what the heart really thinks.

Everyone has their own unique way of thinking. If you tell the truth, you will express your own unique ideas ......And some people only like things that are in line with their own thinking, but they don't like words that are different from their way of thinking......As a result, many people don't like to hear the truth.

Each of us has vanity and wants to be complimented and praised.

However, each of us has shortcomings and mistakes, and if we tell the truth, we point out our own shortcomings and mistakes, and we feel that our vanity has been hurt ......Because of this, many people don't like to hear the truth.

These are the reasons why many of us don't like to hear the truth......From the analysis, it can be seen that although telling the truth means that you will be embarrassed if your shortcomings and mistakes are pointed out in person, it is actually very beneficial to your own development and progress......

People love face, and the truth is generally more rebellious, which can make people uncomfortable and hurt their self-esteem.

The main reason why people don't like to listen to the truth is that the truth is not good to a certain extent, and many people are afraid to face reality and are too narcissistic or self-righteous.

In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why remove the factor of emotional harm. When you say what you think is the "truth", others may just think about "why you can tell it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take into account his emotions.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself.

There is a saying in "Zengguang Xianwen": "The good one is my thief, and the evil one is my teacher." ”

Blind praise will only make people lost, such people are never real friends, those who can directly point out the shortcomings are mentors and helpful friends, and fellowship with such people will continue to improve.

Lies are good, but truths are rare.

If you want to be a better version of yourself, start by listening to the truth. If you love to listen to the truth, you will not be deceived by sweet words, and you will look directly at your own flaws.

Take people as a mirror, and you can see the gains and losses.

Listen to the truth, accept criticism, and face up to weaknesses, so that you can continue to make progress; Tell the truth more and persuade each other bluntly, so that you can gain friends.

May you cherish those who speak the truth to you. Friends and outspoken people are fortunate in life.

Why don't people like to tell the truth? Because the truth hurts people's self-esteem, because the truth is not acceptable to oneself. It's not hypocritical, the psychological endurance is not strong enough, and you can't be like Li Shimin, like Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, who will deal with you as soon as he hears the truth.

As the saying goes, good medicine is bitter, and loyalty is against the ear, although it is beneficial to you, but it hurts face and self-esteem, how many people are willing to save their bodies? Unless there is a saint, who does not want to listen to two good words, does not want to be praised. Are you willing to be found fault every day?

Personally, I think that this is not hypocrisy, it is human nature, to a certain extent, it is still a kind of psychology that people want to be affirmed, knowing that they may not be so good, and also hoping that others will agree with them, knowing that it is not the truth, and hoping that others will deceive themselves, in the final analysis, they dare not face it. Maybe over time, the psychology will become stronger, and they will accept the truth.

Whether it is ** or the people, whether relatives or friends, people who like to speak well to themselves, even if it is the truth, the truth, should be tactful, do not come up and tell the truth, it is not only impolite, but also violates the social rules of the Chinese. Whether modern or ancient, the Chinese most regard bad words as good words, and turn the meaning seven or eight times before saying it, so as not to offend people.

Since ancient times, there have been very few friends of this kind, and in the modern sense of bad friends, you can't give advice to your friends all day long, otherwise you will have no friends.

Isn't it good to lie but not to be hypocritical, to lie, with some leeway and encouragement for friends?

As for some occasions, such as officialdom, even more only say three points, this is part of Chinese culture, but also the other party's human psychology, acceptance, rejection, engraved in the bones of the Chinese, it is best to accept, do not accept and do not be too disgusted, otherwise you are easy to be isolated and become an outlier in society.

Most people love to hear good things (which is human nature), and sometimes the truth is not good, and it can be very hurtful.

Because the truth is the truth, it is more harsh, and the truth is also a heavenly opportunity, which cannot be said casually, and it is easy to cause public anger.

Listening to the truth will make them face their mistakes directly and make them feel unhappy in their hearts.

Fate is so far that it is useless to say more. Be yourself, that's what we should think and do.

Why are some people reluctant to listen to the truth of others? It's because some people never grow up, and because some people are more self-conscious and live in their own spatial source, and some people are too self-righteous and narcissistic, and feel that what others say doesn't help him in any way, so they disdain it.

The truth, that is, the words that are close to reality, are often brutal and extremely challenging.

Some people don't like to listen to the so-called bitter medicine because the truth is generally very cruel and realistic, and they choose not to listen to it in order to escape from reality and avoid problems.

Why don't you like to hear the truth, because sometimes when a person is intoxicated with a certain feeling that he identifies himself, he feels that his feeling is the truth. Everything that breaks the sense of self, even if it is real, is just the opposite of the self-singing. He assumes that his feelings are correct, and all other information is wrong.

Online training courses, training camps. In all kinds of writing classes, most of them convey a message that if you go to your own class, in the near future, you will be able to read 100,000+ readers, and you will be able to monetize your writing tomorrow. As a senior professional writer, you can't get used to these exaggerated propaganda, and you are afraid that those former and successive whites will believe it and end up being beaten in the head by reality.

You stand up with righteous indignation and accuse those who advertise for not being sincere enough. How can writing be enlightened because of short-term training, practice over time, persist for decades, and may not be able to change when you put pen to paper.

You warn those eager novices not to be whimsical and daydreaming. You use your own experience to tell them not to have naïve ideas, and in the end, they end up with a sea of dreams. You think that your sharp words and real cases will awaken those young people with lofty ideals who are full of enthusiasm and have beautiful dreams.

Because, everything you say is the truth.

But the truth does not make others feel that you are an angel on earth, saving the public from fantasy. No one buys your account, but complains that you are bitter and mean, and you poured a basin of cold water on you before the dream began. Just like a toddler baby, no matter how ugly the gait is, you don't need to be reasonable repeatedly, because reasoning is useless, ugly falls, and after a long time, he naturally learns to walk steadily and learn to walk around the stones.

Why don't you love to listen to the truth, because there are some things that you can only experience yourself, and you have fallen a lot, and the lessons you have summed up are the truth. Your experience or truth is important, but because of your love, the passion for wanting to experience is unstoppable. Maybe the dream will wake up, but you can't stop him from doing it.

Born as a human being, true and false, follow you like a shadow. Taizhen sometimes makes people feel too blunt and not tactful and mellow enough. Too fake naturally gives birth to false friends, and there is no principle for selling fake friends.

We all advocate truthfulness, pursue sincerity, and like the truth. Turning truth into a kind of beauty, a kind of knowledge, a kind of art, is worth studying!

Who told you that people don't like to hear the truth? People just don't like to hear the truth that is not good for them, or the truth that has shortcomings or defects does not like to hear it.

When you have shortcomings, shortcomings, and defects, you prefer to listen to falsehoods, hypocrisy, and beautiful words.

For example, it is an objective fact that people always grow old and die. If you tell the truth, you don't like to hear it, but prefer to listen to the lies of "young", "healthy", and "long-lived".

Monkeys will not hide or hide anything because they are "ugly", but people are different, early humans used leaves and animal skins to hide their private parts, which is the origin and development of "clothing culture". Use "makeup" to cover up some of your own shortcomings, etc.

But for those who are self-interested, it is easier to pursue truth and truth. This is the nature of human beings who always show their high, rich, and handsome side to others to win attention and applause, and hide their own inadequate and ugly old faces, and use "disguise" and "falsehood" to deceive themselves and others, which is exactly human nature.

If we always tell the truth, then the truth does sound very hurtful, which is why we should express our meaning euphemistically in communicating and interacting with others.

Because the truth is often hurtful. In addition to thinking, people still have emotions, so why should we remove the factor of emotional damage? When you say what you think is the "truth", others may only think about "why can you tell it without worrying about my emotions", and what he cares about is not the right or wrong of what you say, but why you don't take into account his emotions.

And a lot of what you think is the "truth", the other party may not actually understand it, or it can be said to be dismissive, but when you actually bring it to the table and tell it, there will be an invisible embarrassment, and most people will choose to change the topic or not to the formal question itself. Most of us in our lives are hermit crabs who live a difficult life by self-irony, shrinking themselves into the shells of others. Only by constantly complaining about yourself every day to find some self-confidence, and at this time you have to pry open this shell, and then tell others that this is the real you, others are unwilling or even disgusted with your so-called "truth" You are asking, why they are not willing to listen to your truth.

Hello! People don't like to listen to negative, negative truths. Generally speaking, people like to listen to positive truths.

You're ugly....”

Your pants are torn...”

You're so boring, no one will like you! ”

I don't think many people like to hear such "truths".

1.What is the truth?

One belongs to the truth, and the other belongs to the description of objective facts. The "truth" referred to by the subject is probably the category of truth, that is, a person's true feelings or true thoughts. For example, "I hate to dig and cheat him, he's not good here, he's not good there......Of course, people don't like to hear that.

After all, no one likes to be judged negatively.

2.Why don't people like to be judged negatively?

We can go back to the baby's perspective to look at this problem, as a child, the attitude of parents towards him is naturally very important, a negative attitude implies "I don't want you anymore", a positive attitude or evaluation means "I like you so much, come, kiss one!" "Negative comments are followed by punishment or neglect, which is very scary for the child and means "it's over, it's over, my parents don't want me anymore." And vice versa, positive reviews and attitudes lead to food or other rewards.

In the same way, adults still like positive reviews and hate negative ones, because everyone has experienced the horror of negative reviews in the process of growing up, and this memory is far and deep.

3.What kind of words do people like?

Compliments, praises, encouragement.

Most people still like to listen to the truth, and only do they dislike to listen to the truth when they ask some questions, because some of the truth will make people feel uncomfortable, but on most issues, people still like to hear the truth.

People often don't like to hear the truth.