What is the difference between bringing children by themselves and the elderly taking care of childr

The child's personality will be different because of this, and taking the child will make the child slowly become more lively, and will not cause great harm to the soul, and it is obvious that there is a significant difference with the withdrawn child brought out by the elderly, so it is best to raise the child after raising it.

Taking care of children by yourself can make children have better living habits and upbringing, learn more cultural knowledge and language skills and the standard degree of Mandarin, let children know how to respect the old and love the young, how to help other children, and have better eating habits, and their hands-on ability will be particularly strong; The elderly take the child very spoiled children, will make the child become extreme, lawless, will bully other children outside, eat and drink can not come by themselves, no matter what you do need grandparents to do, no matter what you want, you must grind to get your hands, and you will not feel sorry for grandparents.

The elderly with children can relieve the pressure of young parents, and there is enough time and patience to take care of children, but the elderly with children are easy to spoil children, let children alienate their parents, and the relationship with parents is weakened; Parents with children can cultivate a better parent-child relationship, parents' parenting concepts and methods are more scientific and reliable than the elderly's, cultivate children's good habits from an early age, and cultivate children's independence. I think it is the responsibility of parents to give birth to children, and since the children are born, it is best to bring them by themselves, so that they can accompany the growth of the children.

The elderly are more spoiled, and in the end the children are more disobedient, and the elderly can't be taught as carefully as adults, and their learning ability will be worse.

The old man is very doting on the child, and he will not care about the child as long as the child is happy, and everything can be done, so it is also very bad for the child's future development.

There are a lot of differences in the babies educated, and the babies they educate themselves may be more polite and more cheerful and lively, but the children educated by the elderly must be the opposite.

First of all, the children brought out by themselves are more regular, and the three views are also relatively positive, and there will be no particularly serious procrastination, but the children brought out by the elderly are generally more confident, and their personalities are more public.

Children will have a big difference in personality. The children brought by themselves will become very lively and have very unique ideas, while the children brought by the elderly will become very irritable. Sometimes it's timid.

There is a difference between the elderly with a baby and with a baby by themselves, for example, the elderly are more doting on the child, which may meet the child's willful requirements and make the child's personality have some problems. Parents know a lot of scientific education methods, so they can let their children receive the right education and make them better and better. But the quality of some elderly people is also relatively high, they may be teachers, and they can educate their children well.

We often say that the next generation is close, so the elderly are more doting on their children, and they will chase after the children with their rice bowls when they don't eat, so that the children can eat. But in this case, the child will become more and more arrogant, and he will become less and less fond of eating. Because we often say that the favored are always fearless, so the child can also feel the love of the elderly, he will be very arrogant, will treat the elderly badly, and will always put forward some bad requirements.

For example, after cooking at the old man's house, he says that he doesn't like this kind of food, and asks the old man to go out and buy KFC or McDonald's for himself, saying that he wants to eat fast food. Therefore, other people's children must have a degree, not too much spoiling children, to educate children well, not to let children develop some bad habits.

Now that the above has said the difference between the elderly and their own baby, now let's talk about how to let the old man bring the child well. First of all, young parents can negotiate with the elderly, because the elderly are also relatively old, and they have no reason to be a lot, and they must be able to understand young parents. And the old people actually know that they are doing something wrong, but because they love their grandchildren or granddaughters very much, they will always spoil them, and they will always meet some of the children's requirements.

Therefore, young parents should negotiate with the elderly, so that the elderly can understand some correct education methods, and also allow the elderly to educate their children well. For example, when the elderly do not know how to meet the child's requirements, you can let the elderly call **, and let the parents communicate with the elderly, so that the child can feel afraid.

Older people tend to be "doting" in caring for their children, so their children's self-care skills are poor, and their lack of life skills may persist into college or even marriage. Due to their poor self-care skills, many college students send their dirty laundry home to be washed. The children in the mother's care rarely have this kind of problem, and the mother will let the children take the initiative to participate in some labor, but they have achieved quite good self-care skills.

Due to differences in parenting styles and attitudes, you will find that the children in the care of the elderly and mothers have different personalities. For example, children in the care of the elderly are more patient, responsible, attentive and compassionate, but they are often insecure, lonely and lack self-confidence. The children in the mother's care grow up to be confident, generous, creative and curious.

The difference is that the children brought out by the elderly may be more rustic, and then they will develop a lot of different bad problems, and the children they bring may restrain some bad behaviors of the children, and then they will not let the children play with some dirty things.

There is a big difference between the elderly with a baby and their own baby, first of all, the child's personality will be different, the child's learning style, behavior, civility and politeness, and table manners are different.