I ve been drunk, crazy, stupid, and troublesome, but youth has passed, why is the friendship gone?

The friendship is not seen because everyone has their own circles, and they haven't seen each other for a long time, so the relationship becomes strange. Because of the difference in the three views, it is coming to an end, even if we have played together and made trouble, but some feelings are gone, and I can't find the original feeling. <>

First, the young partners, because they each ran to the sea of people and there was no news, when they were young, they were really happy with those friends who lived very closely, everyone went to and from school together, played games together, and went on outings together. I feel that in addition to studying, the thing I look forward to the most every day is to meet those friends. I also went swimming in the river without telling my parents, and we also went to tease teachers we didn't like, and we sang loudly like madmen on the bridge together.

Thinking about it now, it was a great relationship, I felt carefree, and I felt that the friendship could last a lifetime. But when everyone went to study in different cities, they found that the contact became less and less, from a few times a year to once a few years, and finally there was no news. <>

Second, the topic is over, there is no more to talk about, I used to be close to those partnerships because I always felt that there were countless topics to talk about, I felt that I could talk about everything, and I always felt that the time was too short, and I felt that I couldn't finish talking. We can talk about our ideals, about the people we like, about our future plans, and even about a boy in the next class, we will happily talk about the old man for a long time. will also say that if you get married in the future, you should settle in **, and you will have to marry your children in the future.

But I didn't expect that after many years, the little friend who could be trusted with his heart would only be embarrassed when he met again, and he didn't even know what to talk about. <>

Third, the friendship disappears, and it may be that you feel that you have not been in touch for too long, and you want to contact your former partner again, but you find that you can go out with a sentence before, but now you have to push back and block. It's always said that we'll meet another day, and then a few years have passed, because everyone is in too much of a hurry, and there is no time to maintain this friendship.

After the youth has passed, everyone is relatively busy and has no time to manage this friendship.

It's because they haven't experienced the current life together, and they can't talk together without a common topic, so they are slowly estranged, but don't worry, in fact, the two people don't have frequent contact, but if there are difficulties, friends are still the first to stand up.

Because if the friendship is not managed, then it will slowly drift apart, and friends will become passers-by.

Because a lot of times each of us has to go our own way. If we don't go together, the friendship will naturally break up.

Because friendships need to be maintained for a long time, when we are past the time of students and have our own jobs, we will reduce contact with our former classmates.