What kind of reactions can be made at the dinner table by the child, and whether he will be able to

It's rude to pick and choose with chopsticks. Grabbing vegetables from others and putting them all in front of you seems very stingy.

The first reaction is to be picky or not, if he is not picky, it means that the child's body will be better in the future. The second reaction is to see if he will politely serve vegetables to his parents, which means whether he has filial piety.

The third reaction is whether he will finish the meal, and if he can't, what he will say represents his cultivation.

Most of the families are only children, or second children and three daughters, and parents treat the child as a treasure and are very spoiled. If there is good food at home, it will be eaten first by the child. But the more accustomed children are to this, the easier it is to cultivate the bad habit of not looking at the natural environment, not looking at people's eyes, and loving to eat alone.

Children who eat alone at meals do not understand sharing and only care about themselves, giving people a sense of selfishness. This kind of child has a relatively low EQ IQ, and if it is not corrected, it may be difficult to get along with others after stepping into society, and it is not easy to be promoted exceptionally, and it is impossible to have a future.

Children eat alone, do not understand courtesy, do not talk politely to others, and it is not even easy to look at people's eyes and do things. This kind of child is not sensitive to the mood swings of others, and has poor social skills at the dinner table. If parents do not pay enough attention to this matter, children will continue to maintain such bad habits when they grow up, and they will miss many opportunities and may be overly introverted.

The child's performance when eating can show the child's emotional intelligence. The level of emotional intelligence of the child will not be good for the child's future development. Therefore, parents must pay attention to this matter and not be careless.

In that way, how to change children's bad dining habits and improve children's emotional intelligence?

Parents can basically give a very good first impression by informing their children of the standard norms, explaining the table etiquette to their children, and stipulating that the children follow the process. For example, at the dining table, the elderly must be seated before the child can move the chopsticks. When eating, be civilized and polite, learn to listen to people's words, look at people's eyes, and detect other people's mood swings.

In this process, the child's emotional intelligence can be gradually improved.

Shape children's cheerful personality and let children know how to share.

Telling others about your favorite foods will not only make them happy, but also enrich your heart. This kind of fighting spirit is a basic practice process to improve emotional intelligence. For example, when children eat, it is important to let them know how to share and not eat alone.

Secondly, parents should prepare their children to participate in the drinking party, and let their children touch the atmosphere more, so that the children can naturally be more extroverted, and they will no longer eat alone and not talk at the dinner table. There are many possibilities for children, and this kind of personality change is so beneficial to the social ** and emotional intelligence of children when they grow up.

If the child always chirps when eating, is always picky eater, and always likes to eat alone when eating, then it is difficult to become a big child.

If your child always likes to eat alone when eating, always likes to talk all the time during meals, and always likes to be picky eaters, it will be difficult for him to achieve great things in the future.

When eating, he is very picky and picky eater, and often throws some things he doesn't eat on the table. I have high requirements for food and like to eat snacks very much.

Once, my cousin was happy to move and invited a few good friends to her home for dinner. Since they all have children, it can be called a dinner party for younger friends. My cousin made several large tables of food and yelled at each other for the children to eat.

My sister has a friend named Xiaoli, who usually wears beautiful clothes, and her son is also a young man. After the table was served, everyone was happy and had a lot of fun eating. But then something unpleasant happened, Xiaoli's eldest son Xian couldn't eat, and immediately stepped on the stool, holding wooden chopsticks in his hand and picking them up and down the plate, making a mess.

Since the customer's face is taken into account, everyone laughs and passes. However, when everyone chatted in private, they all felt that Xiaoli's cultural education was too much of a failure, why did the child eat so unruly, and he was really not afraid of making jokes. This kind of unruly personal behavior will make the child more and more unruly, and do not know how to respect others when interacting with others.

This kind of child will definitely be liked by children, and it is easy to be independent by the crowd.

Lei Lei has been pampered by her grandmother since she was a child, and there is no shortage of delicious food. I went to kindergarten, and because I was far away from home, I ate and took a nap in the kindergarten in the afternoon. The school restaurant is very rich and nutritious.

However, Lei Lei's partial eating was very serious, and the children ate very deliciously, because she did not meet the taste, so she immediately fell the food to the ground, attracting a group of children to look sideways.

The teacher mercilessly criticized Lei Lei, but Lei Lei went home and sued her grandmother. In the end, my grandmother was pampered, and she would do it well at home every day and send her to kindergarten. Such a spoiling will not have a positive effect on the child's development, but will also cultivate the child's bad habits.

Therefore, the habit of partial eating must not be cultivated, not only is it very easy to become more and more pampered, but the self-control ability is also very poor when you grow up.

Don't consider the feelings of others, protect and eat alone. Now it's basically two generations around a child, what to eat and drink are given to the child, pampering the child at the same time to make the child feel that this is the right thing, not considering the feelings of others, at home, no one accommodates when going out, so desperately protect the food, the wrong food habits when I was a child, and when I grow up, I become selfish and selfish, and I have no quality.

The child does not have a good sitting posture at the dinner table, and the mess is made at will when picking up the dishes, and the unhygienic performance must be corrected in time.

In our country, there is a long table culture in our country, and there are many rules on the dinner table from ancient times to the present, such as: waiting for the right to eat. In fact, it is also the most basic table etiquette in a family, but most parents are blindly used to their children, causing their children to eat only for themselves.

The good habit of starting when the elderly are seated, which is extremely disrespectful to the elders, will be looked down upon by the current society when they grow up.

Many children are picky eaters, picky eaters, for the table of cloth food has been careful to choose what they like to eat, regardless of the other party, and will also bring their favorite food to the front of the "eat alone", do not like to eat casually on the table. That's actually a very bad little problem, not only is it not polite, but it is also uneducated.

Some children will also have a strong sense of possessiveness when they see the ingredients they like to eat, fearing that others will take them away, so they will put a lot of them on their plates at once. But the Hand family ate too much, and if he was not careful, he would clip too much, and in the end he couldn't eat it himself, so he had to throw away the leftovers. Although the money is not much, this waste of food is very "price reduction".

In fact, children often do not understand the table culture, and their families do not pay enough attention to this, in order to cultivate children's better eating habits, parents must have a certain "novelty". I think this "novelty" is not necessarily very solemn, parents should give the correct demonstration to their children, so that children can learn in front of them. And at the same time as teaching the child, tell him why he did it, what kind of adverse effects it will bring to people if he doesn't do it, etc., so as to increase the child's first impression.

Every child loves to eat snacks, but many children can't stop tasting them, and even eat snacks as meals. When it's time to eat, the parents are ready to cook, and they don't go hungry and play on their own. However, at noon or before going to bed, they are hungry and will eat noisily, and parents are worried that their children will be hungry and only make food for him.

This is a vicious circle, parents should discourage and refuse to allow children to eat snacks as meals, and let children eat on time.

I especially like to eat alone, gobble up when eating, and when I eat, my mouth is full of rice, and several copies of celery are used to make this potato, which will be very bad, and it will also make people laugh at the child's tutoring problem.

When eating, he often knocks on the bowl, often knocks on the table, shouts when he eats, and is often picky eater.

When eating, you chirp, when you eat, you can pick and choose from the plate, and always pick your favorite habits to eat.

From the dining table you can see the upbringing and quality of a child. The dining table is a place that will make people relax, and if a child can still behave modestly and politely on such occasions, the child's self-discipline can be seen in the first place. In this case, it can be done well, and it must be good in normal times.

From the dinner table, you can see a child's literacy, the baby who has rules at the dinner table is a good parent, on the contrary, it is difficult to become a big tool in the future if you only care about yourself at the dinner table and have no table manners.

The child's personal cultivation is determined, and the child's politeness and quality can be reflected at the dinner table, as well as the upbringing of the family behind the child.

1.Eat without lying on the table, 2Don't bring the food to a place that is particularly close to you, 3

Don't clip dishes that are particularly far away from yourself at the table, which is also a sign of respect for others, 4Others don't turn the table casually when picking up vegetables5When eating, it can reflect the quality of a child's upbringing.

First, always knock on the chopsticks and knock the bowl, second, always ignore the elders and start eating by themselves, and third, always rummage in the bowl, this behavior is not polite, and it will also make the elders very unhappy.

Ignoring the feelings of others, turning over the dishes, picking what you like to eat, putting your favorite meals in front of you, gobbling them up, ignoring what you don't like, completely ignoring others, and being rude, this is obviously useless. If you can pay attention to the feelings of others and know how to be polite, this must be promising.

First of all, the elders should be allowed to move the chopsticks at the dinner table before the children can eat. Secondly, when a child's favorite food comes up, see if he is willing to share it with other children. Then see if he will fill the bowl with food. Finally, see if he will waste food.

Children can sit quietly and enjoy their meals when they eat, and there is no habit of wasting food. Such children are generally not too bad when they grow up.

Eager to eat food with their hands, such a child may be more selfish. Children who take the initiative to serve meals for their families will have a particularly stable and popular job in the future.

Since ancient times, there has been a saying that people regard food as the sky, pay attention to three meals a day, and eating is a very mediocre and very important thing in daily life. And upbringing is also a quality that makes people feel comfortable from the inside out. It is safe to say that developing good table etiquette is an important prerequisite for ensuring the success of children's careers after entering the society in the future.

The child's performance at the dinner table determines his future development, and parents must not indulge it.

First of all, let's understand several bad behaviors of children at the dinner table:1. Tap the plate

At the dinner table, a few naughty children will "bell" the bowl and plate at the dinner table, which will make people feel disgusted by such behavior.

2. Move the chopsticks first

At home, in order to let the child eat a hot meal in time, parents will always ask a child to eat by himself when the meal is about to be ready, and develop a bad habit of teaching the child to move the chopsticks first.

3. Pick and choose

When children eat, their favorite foods are eaten by people who pick vegetables, and they don't like to eat a bite, or even turn over vegetables casually.

These types of behavior on the table are the most common in children, and parents must be careful not to pamper their children.

Every small gesture in the process of dining reflects everyone's upbringing. Everyone's "eating appearance" is not a personal matter, in social occasions, eating with friends, "eating appearance" has become a social etiquette. Civilized "eating appearance" should be cultivated from an early age, and parents themselves should first set an example for their children.

1. When the family eats, try your best to help your parents do some things before the meal, such as the dishes that are placed and later become your meals.

2. Before eating, the children must remember to wash their hands.

3.When everything is ready, say to the other elders or guests, "It's time to eat!" ”

4. When taking a seat, you should let the elders or guests sit first, and then sit down after they are seated. Try not to make the sound of the chair or stool rubbing against the floor.

Pay attention to hygiene 1, the main purpose of the napkin is to prevent accidentally soiled clothes when eating, and it can also be used directly to wipe the mouth and hands, remember that the napkin can not work as a towel to wipe the face or nose.

2. When eating, if you feel sneezing, you should turn your head back and cover it with a napkin.

3. At the dining table, picking noses, tickling, and picking between teeth with your hands will affect the appetite of other elders who eat together, which is very impolite.

4. Don't burp uncontrollably at the dinner table, which is not respectful to others.

1. When picking vegetables, children should pay attention not to touch their neighbors.

2. If you go to a restaurant with your family, you should wait for the dishes to be transferred to your front before moving the chopsticks.

3. When picking up vegetables, you should not clip too much at a time, eat your own bowls and plates, and then go to pick up the dishes.

4. Don't stir in the dish with chopsticks, look for the part you want to eat.

There are no small things in daily life, and if you cultivate them well in the details, your child's future can be more effective. Children are still young and don't understand what is a big deal, parents can lead by example and subtly change their children.