Parents speak ill of you behind the back of relatives???

Of course, it is not right for parents to speak ill of their children in front of relatives, it will definitely have a certain impact on the child's psychology, and it will also change the impression of relatives on the child.

Actually, my parents didn't. Behind the backs of any outsiders or relatives, speaking ill of their own children. Unless because of something, you don't understand what your parents mean, and your parents are in a hurry, so they tell outsiders or relatives about you.

This is also very normal, your parents are because you did something wrong, so she said it in front of her relatives, so what can you do? Because he is your parent, if you try hard, do things and say bad things about him.

It becomes a good thing that motivates you.

This is very wrong behavior, you can communicate with them and ask them not to do this again, it will make you lose face very much, and the consequences of losing face, they may not be able to imagine.

Parents do this, it is very likely that some of their own behavior is really inappropriate, they want to talk about it in front of relatives, and they also hope to get some help and do not persuade you.

I don't think so, most parents don't speak ill of their children. They are usually praised. I think it's your fuss, or your nervous sensitivity.

Me too, as soon as I got to the dinner table, my dad asked questions, whether it was good or bad, I was annoyed, and I don't want to go home for dinner now for the New Year.

No parent really wants to speak ill of their child. Sometimes it's just for the sake of talking, that's why you speak ill of your relatives. Some parents may like to show off their children, and some parents like to talk about the bad things about their children, and I guess your parents are probably the last one.

I think you can communicate well with your parents, and as a child, you should get along like a friend and learn to empathize. You can talk to your parents if you can respect yourself, and think about it, if I and my classmates talk about the shortcomings of my parents in front of you, what do they feel?

Maybe parents hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. They may think that you don't listen to your shortcomings and don't care. In front of relatives, reflecting the hardships of educating children, you are also face-loving, dignified, and don't want others to look down on you, so use the radical method to make you pay attention and correct and reflect on yourself.

The most important thing is communication. Or parents are overly modest, relatives meet to talk about some things about their children's work, they must praise each other, parents may just listen very happy, too modest to talk about your various shortcomings.

You can tell your parents that excellent people are better if they rely on encouragement and praise. belittles me every day, I am not convinced, and the relationship between my children, respecting you and not talking back to you, will definitely produce a rebellious mentality, and act against you. I think this approach is also a mistake in education, which will cause psychological damage to children.

Encouraging others to be better people is an ability that everyone should learn. Don't use the banner that I am good for you, in front of others and behind their backs, say that others are not good, and communicate in a timely manner when there is a problem with education, not complain in front of others. Parents should learn to maintain the dignity and face of their children in front of outsiders, and if they can't do it, do they expect others to respect your children, recognize your children, or even respect you?

This is because you have done a lot of wrong things yourself, or you are not good in the past, so when you say it in front of your relatives, it is mainly to teach you a lesson and make you realize your own mistakes.

I'm excellent at asking questions.

It is particularly good to answer this if you think you are very good, and you have a certain amount of self-confidence, but people always have shortcomings, and parents personally think that their children's shortcomings should be corrected, and most children are unwilling to correct their shortcomings, so they will always say that their children's shortcomings are in the process of chatting with parents, because this is exactly what parents have a headache, and it is just to exchange ideas with relatives and friends.

Questions, but they went too far.

I have a lot of self-esteem, too.

You don't have to pay too much attention to answering this, any parent is like this, and the communication between them generally doesn't have much to do with you, just don't pay attention to it, which is a common thing in the world.

It's been 13 years since I asked the question, and they've never praised me.

It's always been to slander me.

I think this situation may not seem to be anything for parents to just talk about your shortcomings in front of relatives, but if he really hurts your face, you can communicate well with your parents.

Your parents always speak ill of you and belittle you in front of your relatives, you can talk to your parents about your feelings and let them know that they are saying this and that they have hurt you. Of course, your parents may just want to promote you and not really speak ill of you.

Tell your parents that you can't publicize the ugliness of your family, no matter how bad I am, no one will sympathize with you, but will laugh at our family and talk about it everywhere.

If you are not financially independent, you will move out and stay away from your parents.

Your parents don't know how to respect their children. Such a character is difficult to change.

If there is no independence, you can only endure it, endure until you are independent and leave immediately.

If both parents speak ill of you in front of your relatives and belittle you, it proves that you must be bad. There is not a single parent who does not love themselves and care for their children. You should reflect on what you have done.

Parents always speak ill of me in front of relatives, what should I do if I get lower You can talk to your parents, you say that no matter how bad your child is, you can't say bad things about me in front of others, so that others will think of me.

My mom was like that too.

My parents' generation thinks differently from us.

So I never told my parents about these things again.

Haha, in fact, your parents don't really belittle you when others reluctantly say bad things about you, they want you to be touched and hope that you can make changes.

If it's not particularly important, you just let it go, pretend you don't care, and after a long time, if you don't react, they will say that you will find it boring.

There is a certain element of modesty in saying that your family is in front of your relatives, and you can also tell them that you also have self-esteem and ask them to respect your feelings

Maybe for some parents, these seem to be nothing, but they don't take into account the child's face.

Are these still your own parents?

People don't have perfect truths, they don't understand?

Isn't there a flaw in them?

Why do they hurt their children like this?

Will this make them shine on their faces?

The fact that the son is not the fault of the father just shows that they are not a qualified parent at all.

It feels like you can communicate with her, but obviously the communication is ineffective in this situation, and as a result, you won't tell him these things in the future and keep your own secrets, and he has no material to share with others.

Your parents say that you are a shortcoming, but you are unrepentant, and your parents have a way?

What parent doesn't love their child? But the child is too ignorant, and the parents are also very sad?。。

Mom said "don't do it if you have the ability"? What did you do that everyone should blame? Only if you correct it yourself first, can you not be told by your mother.

You really can't just be allowed to do it and not allow others (your mother) to look at you and talk about you. She certainly has the responsibility and the right to accuse you of your mistakes.

Parents say some bad things about you in front of relatives, in fact, this parent does do a bit excessive, but you have to summarize your own reasons, if your parents are not sad, he will no longer say you.

What should I do if my parents always speak ill of me in front of my relatives and belittle me? You should tell your parents well, there is a good saying, the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, you put your worthlessness, relatives will laugh at you like this, the rich envy you, you have no money, you have shortcomings, you must look down on you, so don't talk to your parents about this and that, and then you say it, people will not respect you, they will look down on you, don't expose your shortcomings, even if it is relatives, report good news or bad news, respect yourself, but also respect others.

They may not be happy with what you did, right? When they do this, they actually want to undermine your self-confidence and motivation. This way you have the possibility to find a job as they want and find the job they want.

I think that good communication with parents is the relationship between children. We should also get along like friends and learn to put ourselves in the shoes of others. Tell your parents if you can respect yourself and put yourself in the shoes of others.

If I tell my classmates about my parents' shortcomings in person, how do they feel psychologically? Will they feel cold?

You can tell your parents that good people can only get better through encouragement and praise. I'm belittled every day, I don't admit defeat, it's hard for me to respect you and not talk back to you. I'm definitely going to rebel and do it to you.

I think this practice is also an educational mistake and can cause psychological damage to children.

You should know what your parents say about you and try to get rid of these bad things and problems as soon as possible. Over time, you will lose yourself. In fact, it is important to communicate with your father first and tell him what you think.

If your father still despises you, you can only comfort yourself. There is an old saying that "all parents in the world are parents". They may ask for something that we can't answer, or they may go out of their way for our good.

Parents can also add their own ideals to their children to achieve it. If they don't agree, communication is the solution and they should be strong. They will go their own way.

What others say is also advice. It is best to make it clear when appropriate, so as not to hurt the feelings of the other party.

You should be calm with such parents, who always speak ill of their relatives in front of their relatives, this behavior is not right, you should point it out and express your dissatisfaction, because you are also an adult and can give advice.

When getting along with such parents, try to behave as well as possible, and don't let your parents discover their shortcomings, so that your parents won't speak ill of yourself in front of relatives and friends.

I think you can prove that you are not as unbearable as your parents say, and you also have to tell your parents not to suppress your children in front of others.

How can I empathize, not only in front of my relatives, but also go to my mother-in-law's house to say, fortunately, my mother-in-law's family has three positive views and knows what I am like, and now my mother-in-law is very annoyed with my parents, funny.

If relatives hear it, it's not easy to do, and there is no room for recovery, so the ancients had a saying, meditate and think about yourself, don't talk about others, you must control your mouth, don't say discordant words, relatives and friends are not all you can hand over, what you say should be left in two, take it as a warning.

As long as it's the right thing, do what you have to say! But don't talk nonsense, it's good to be yourself, no one is perfect, don't say bad things, talk more about the advantages of others. Let them know their shortcomings so that they can correct them!

Then apologize to your relative and trust him to forgive you.

Don't talk nonsense, it's good to be yourself, no one is perfect, don't say bad things, talk more about the advantages of others.

What should I do if I talk about the painting of family affection? As long as you know that you are wrong, correct it to your relatives in the future, please owe them a debt to make them feel your sincerity, and your relatives will forgive you.

How old are you, friend? That's not good.

Just say it, it's no big deal!

First of all, if it's the first time you hear him say bad things about you, I think everyone thinks differently and has a different attitude towards things, so you don't have to care about everyone's opinion. And what we have to do is to calmly analyze the reasons, our reaction should not be too intense, first judge whether there is any contradiction with this person in the past, and whether we have offended Wu Ran. As long as you do things properly, you don't have to pay attention to other people's opinions.

Because only the little ones will slander others behind their backs.

Other methods: 1. Find a third party to evaluate.

If you have a particularly convincing elder in your family, you can invite them out and have them do justice to you. It's best to invite all the people in the family out and let them all come and judge them.

After all, there are many people and there is great power, and it is much better for everyone to come out and administer justice to you than for you to go to him alone to judge him. Your malevolent relatives will not be so arrogant when they see the power of the crowd.

2. A tooth for a tooth, an eye for an eye.

The most direct way to deal with this kind of person is how viciously he treats you, and how you can return to Feng Tangzi. Since he is so vicious to you regardless of intimacy, then you don't have to save face for him too much. Besides, this kind of person is not worth saving face for him.

But this practice is ***, and it is possible that the two sides will fall into an endless battle between you and me and you back. This method is not recommended unless absolutely necessary.

3. Live better than him and make him red-eyed.

Some vicious relatives just don't see people well, and when they see others doing better than themselves, they are red-eyed. Since they have this trait, then simply make them red-eyed. Do better and better in your career, and live better and better.

If you can live in a luxury house and drive a luxury car, the effect will be better.

I guess if you can really get better than him, he will have to come to the door to slap you. Even if relatives like this come to the door, ignore them. <>