Now some people will divorce immediately after giving birth, what do they think?

Now some people will divorce immediately after giving birth, what do they think? Nowadays, many couples will choose to divorce after giving birth, and many people don't understand why, why they still want to divorce quickly when they have children, in fact, there are reasons for this.

1.Lack of communication between couples. At the beginning of the marriage, the newlyweds are often sweet and sweet, and they confide in each other about everything.

However, after the birth of the child, Bao's mother shifted her attention to the child. Daddy's communication. As for Bao's father, he is busy working to make money and is usually tired when he comes home.

In this way, the two reduced the frequency of communication due to fatigue. Over time, it will only become more and more negligent in communication, leading to emotional estrangement and eventually parting ways.

2.Men are indifferent to women. It is said that men are all children, and their role in marriage is more likely to be that of a big boy who needs to be taken care of by a woman, rather than taking the initiative to care for others.

After giving birth, you not only have to endure physical pain and hardships with a baby, but also have to endure great mental pressure. If Dad Bao at this time is still the same as before, he doesn't take the initiative to take care of Mom Bao, doesn't take the initiative to take care of the baby, and doesn't care about Mom Bao. Regardless of whether the mother is tired or not, whether the body recovers well or not, it will make the mother.

Discouragement, which leads to a rift in the relationship between husband and wife. If Baoda is not repaired in time, it will eventually lead to a breakdown of the relationship.

3.Bao Ma serves the whole family alone. Many mothers will leave their jobs in the late stages of pregnancy to concentrate on raising their babies and wait until the baby goes to kindergarten.

took care of her husband, some lived with her in-laws, and also took care of her in-laws, becoming "servants" in the family. Not only is the work hard, but the husband does not receive understanding and support, and there may also be quarrels, which can lead to the rigidity of the relationship between the husband and wife, and eventually divorce.

4.Today's women pay more attention to the present moment and will not wronged themselves. In the eyes of many people, a woman is "worthless" when she gets married.

No one wants to remarry if she has children. Therefore, it is too bold and incredible for a woman who is married and has children to dare to file for divorce, just like choosing a person to die. In fact, today's women dare to do this because today's women pay more attention to the present and will not wronged themselves.

They don't care about the future. As long as they feel that their current life is miserable, it should end immediately. As for what will happen later, they will not scare themselves, on the contrary, they will think better for the rest of their lives, thinking that divorce is a new beginning.

Because these women know that men don't care about themselves very much after giving birth, they want to divorce immediately.

These people may not really like each other, but they just want to deal with the urging of marriage in their own family, or they may do it in order to have a child of their own.

This is because when you are pregnant, there are already cracks in the relationship between the two people, but at that time, women have no way to be pregnant, and after giving birth, the conflict between husband and wife will break out, which will lead to divorce.

It may be that the man will not take care of the woman at all in his life, nor will he help the woman take care of the children, so the woman will be particularly desperate, and finally divorce because of this matter.

Because these people don't have the other half at all when they raise children, and the two have no feelings.

It is because the two people are not suitable at all, and after giving birth to a child, it is found that the two people have more conflicts, and the three views of the two people are completely different, so they choose to stop the loss in time.

Because of these mothers, they have a lot of grievances left during pregnancy, so after giving birth, they will choose to divorce and take the child alone.

It is because life is boring, and the pressure of life is also very high, so these people will choose to divorce when they have children because they are afraid.

Because these people do not have any foundation in their marriage, and the husband and wife have no affection, they will choose to divorce.

For the sake of the child, I still have to endure for a while, I may be more depressed because the child is still young, so I am more depressed, and I can communicate with the child's father in time if I have problems.

I don't know what kind of person thinks like this, and if you have a child, you want to leave it alone? What to do with children, born in a single-parent family, the impact on children in the future is not just talking, don't get married if you have this kind of thought, and harm a family.

In my opinion, divorce is not a trivial matter, or it is recommended that you think about it carefully, and also take into account your newborn children, if you must divorce, it is recommended to be honest and honest.

Many women have suffered a lot of grievances when they are pregnant with a child, but they have no way to conceive a child at that time, so they will divorce immediately after giving birth.

It was because there were a lot of conflicts between the two people when they were pregnant, and there was no way to divorce because of physical inconvenience at that time, so they chose to divorce after giving birth to a child.

It was also because the personalities of the two people were incompatible, or they found that they were not suitable in the process of marriage, so they immediately chose to divorce.

When I got married, there was a problem in the relationship, but I had a child, so I had no choice but to get married, give the child a name, and give birth to a child to divorce.

Nowadays, some people will divorce immediately after giving birth, in fact, it is not that they do not consider the feelings of their children, but that they can fully see the true face of the family when they give birth to children.

Many women do not see themselves clearly before they get married, and the attitude of their husband's family, but instead discover their true state during pregnancy and childbirth after marriage. Some husbands don't really think about their wives, don't consider their wives' feelings, and don't have any care and tenderness for their wives. Some parents-in-law also do not regard themselves as a family and are forever excluded, and at the same time, they are selfish and selfish and only think about themselves.

Such actions and practices will only make a woman want to divorce desperately after giving birth to a child because she is already disheartened.

Some people say that we should take into account that it is very unfair for a child to face the divorce of his parents as a newborn child, and it is impossible for them to grow up in a sound family environment. In fact, if the parents do not have too much love and are not very harmonious, and the whole family is full of low pressure, it is the greatest harm and torture to the child. Many children are faced with this situation.

They may subconsciously think that all marriages in the world are like their parents, and they don't know that there is true love and harmonious family existence in the world, so there is not much positive guidance for their emotional cognition and pursuit of the future.

Even if the parents are divorced, as long as the parents still love their children, the children can get enough love. Although it is not a complete family under normal conditions, complete love can still make children thrive. They can also shape their emotions and three views in every bit of life, so as to understand the real reasons for their parents' divorce, and they can also understand their mother's original choice.

So, don't use your children as an excuse, you should make your own life better, so that you can learn how to move forward from confident parents.

It's not that they don't think about children, it's that Feng Wanshi has seen through too many things with silver limbs after giving birth, and the in-laws don't treat themselves as human beings at all, so these people choose to divorce.

Of course, I will consider it, but adults must love themselves before they love their children, and only when they live well will they give their children a good life.

I don't think about it, young people nowadays are more selfish, they feel that life is their own, and it is more important than anything else that they are comfortable.