Why can you only be the stranger you know best?

Can't be friends after a breakup :

If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends? No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

Suppose both parties have a new love after breaking up, but you are still friends with your old love, what does the new lover think. Who doesn't think you're disconnected from your old love? The new love must be dissatisfied, and he is even more afraid of creating a diagonal relationship in the pulling and pulling.

Although there are some examples of peace and quiet, these stories are inevitably a little embarrassing to hear. When you see your old lover, how can you forget the days you have walked with him through thick and thin? Unless it has not been unforgettable.

Looking at your former lover, kissing me and me with others, and happily, is your heart really so balanced? All human beings are dignified, so why bother to suffer for themselves? It's better to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away and live your life again!

Can be friends.

It is also possible to be an enemy.

You can also be the most familiar stranger.

It's up to you.

Nothing is absolute.

That is, pseudo-intimacy, simply put, in a relationship that should be intimate, in order not to break the stability of the relationship, to avoid the negative impact of conflict, to cater to each other, hide yourself, and keep each other's intimacy at an arm's length, becoming "the most familiar stranger".

In his statement, Professor Wisselman said: "The interesting thing about this experiment is that now we have further confirmed the power of human social relations. But there can also be a dark side to social relationships, and the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology has shown in a study that complex social relationships can also make us less considerate of others.

In a recent study conducted in Argentina by psychology researchers at American universities, it was said that one person smiled and made eye contact, and another person deliberately ignored others, and then another researcher stepped forward to ask the person who was ignored or watched.

It was found that those who saw each other smiling expressed a sense of attention, while those who were ignored were visibly frustrated. This shows that even if strangers ignore or even ignore your presence altogether, you will definitely be affected by negative emotions.

Extension: Meaning.

We call typical characters "familiar strangers", which is correct, and it profoundly reveals the relationship between the commonality and individuality of typical characters from the aspect of the social effect of typical characters. All typical characters are the unity of a distinct and unique personality and a concentrated and profound commonality.

"Familiar strangers" comes from Belinsky, who believes that every typical is a familiar stranger to the reader. Familiarity is because it comes from life, and it summarizes certain phenomena and laws in the real relationship that the reader has felt and realized, so that the reader can associate some similar characters from this typical image.

For example, when many readers read "The True Story of Ah Q", they feel that Lu Xun is scolding themselves, which is the case. Strangeness is because people with such personality characteristics seem to have never existed, they are new objects and new lives, which entrust the writer's thought-provoking and yearning aesthetic ideals, so they give people a new sense of aesthetic satisfaction.

"Strangeness" therefore refers to the fact that a literary model has a distinct, unique, and rich personality, and has unique psychological activities, behavioral patterns, and linguistic characteristics. For example, the image of Ah Q is impossible for readers to see in life, because it was created by Lu Xun with typical techniques, it is fresh and unique, and it is the only original "this" in ancient and modern times.

The artistic charm of literary typology lies in the fact that literary typology comes from life and is higher than life, and has both individuality and commonality. is a "stranger familiar to the reader". Therefore, literary typology has a more obvious and important aesthetic enhancement function on the basis of general social functions.

The reason for the familiar stranger reveals the unique aesthetic value of literature lies in its originality, in its perfect unity of distinctive and unique personality and full and strong commonality.

Hegel called the "familiar stranger" "typical" "this one" or "this".

Familiar strangers, hehe, as the name suggests, are very familiar, but for some reason become strangers, this stranger is psychologically subjectively imposed, you have been together, have had deep love or friendship or other aspects of feelings, but because of some reasons, such as betrayal, such as breakup, such as all kinds of other behaviors that will cause great harm to each other, emotional breakdown or friendship breakdown, want to face each other but can't face it, everyone becomes strangers, You are the most familiar person with him in the world, but you would rather not know him, this is a familiar stranger, cherish the present, is the most deserved!! Good luck!!

The most familiar strangers are generally talking about boyfriend and girlfriend after a breakup. Shakespeare said that after a breakup, you can't be friends because you have hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you have loved each other deeply. Once it reaches the point of breaking up, it will be like a stranger, and there will be no intersection when the relationship fades.

So two people don't talk when they are together, like strangers, and because they know each other's hobbies when they are in love, they add up to familiar strangers.

Summary. My dear, why do the most familiar people become strangers, because in our lives, for example, two lovers are the most familiar, if for what reasons can not be friends after breaking up, they can only be strangers, then there will be people who were once the most familiar, and now they have become strangers. Like this, it is generally used to describe the situation and relationship after breaking up with two lovers, oh <>

My dear, why do the most familiar people become strangers, because in our lives, for example, two lovers are the most familiar, if for what reasons can not be friends after breaking up, they can only be strangers, then there will be people who were once the most familiar, and now they have become strangers. Like this, it is generally used to describe the situation and relationship after breaking up with two lovers, oh <>

Because two people who have really loved each other, there is no way to be friends after breaking up, and two people will have their own lives after breaking up. Of course, each has a new partner, so for the sake of each other's lives, it would be better to be only strangers.

Dear, is there anything else I can do to help you<>

From the perspective of love, the most familiar stranger is that two people who once loved each other end up being strangers, but there is always the existence of each other in their hearts.

I have hurt each other, and I don't want to think of the unpleasantness of the past, so I choose to escape, so I choose not to be friends anymore, and I want to erase the memory of each other as much as possible, but I can't do it, so I become the most familiar stranger.

Familiarity is because it is always in the heart, or pleasant or painful memories, but he chooses not to continue, and it is to forget completely, so he chooses to become strangers to each other and no longer have intersections. This person sees you regain your happiness.

He will disappear.

It's a stranger again.

But believe it.

He will live well in another corner of the world, and when one day they can face each other's past, maybe they can be friends.

Loved. It hurts. separated.

But I still can't forget it.

Familiar with each other.

Even the scent of each other's bodies.

You can tell right away.

But. When they are no longer happy for each other's every move.

But it still can't.

When you forget about each other.

On the road. Pass.

It's just that they don't know each other.

Passerby. But in my heart I still will.

There was a faint ripple. A pang of pain.

If you don't look back, why don't you forget. If there is no fate, why swear.

Today's all kinds are like water without a trace. Tomorrow and night, you are no longer strange.