How do you have a good relationship with your stepfather? Let the mother not be embarrassed?

I don't know what the specific situation is in your home.

Is your stepdad good to you?

If he treats you well, you can treat him like a relative, speak and act kindly, just like an ordinary person.

If your stepfather treats you badly and you don't want to embarrass your mother, then try to avoid him, avoid meeting, conflicting, and communicating with him. If you don't want to do this, then you can talk to him and ask him what is wrong with you, if it is because you are a stepdaughter, then you can't change it, or use the above methods. If it's for other reasons, you can communicate, you have to say that you don't want your mother to be embarrassed, but don't be weak, don't let him hold you back because of the reason "you don't want to embarrass your mother", or even do whatever he wants to you.

Learn to resist when appropriate.

And if your stepfather treats you well in front of your mother and doesn't treat you well behind your back. Then you can also be double-faced, be kind to him in front of your mother, and show that you are really in the mood when your mother is away. But avoid conflicts, especially head-on conflicts, because looking at your name as if you are a girl, the strength of girls and men is still very different, and you will suffer losses and be wronged.

Be smart.

Also, the most important thing is to communicate well with your mother, show that you have no hostile attitude towards your stepfather, approve of their marriage, and make sure that your mother believes in you and your sincerity. Otherwise, if you have any conflict with your stepfather, she may believe what your stepfather says.

I don't know your age and gender, and I don't know your family environment, if you are a little girl, you should pay attention to protect your body, I think you should understand if I don't say it very whitely.

Finally, bless you that he will be a good stepfather.

Be polite and courteous, and you'll be fine.

In front of your mother, be nice to your stepfather!

<> why are you doing this? Do you want to be as humane as possible? If you have been single for a long time, you have to find a way to get off the single, no matter what, she is also your elder, she is older than you, and she should learn to respect each other.

Many divorced families often lack education for their children, don't be afraid to make mistakes, and be able to correct and admit your mistakes in time, which means that you can still be saved. At this time, you have to calm down and apologize to your stepmother and admit your mistake, saying that such a thing will not happen in the future, and it is best to write a letter of guarantee so that people can see your sincerity.

What makes you single for too long, too young and immature? Everything has a reason, introverted, unwilling to communicate with others, rigid old straight men often find it difficult to find a girlfriend for the rest of their lives. Therefore, in terms of personality, you should have more contact with others, including some women, don't be afraid, she will not eat you and Youpei.

Now that your parents are divorced, you are both adults and should have your own opinions. At this time, you can move out, of course, all on the premise that you have capital. But it seems to me that I don't want to live with my father and stepmother, even if I borrow money from everywhere.

Now there is a lot of work to cover, even if you don't eat it, you can reduce a lot of expenses. If your financial conditions do not allow it, then you will live in your own dormitory, and it is not good for such a big person to always live with your parents, and then change your current living situation through your own efforts.

In fact, you should take a light view of life, and don't be disappointed in anyone, especially your other half, otherwise, it will be difficult for your life to go on

Clause. 1. It is inevitable to encounter disputes in the family, and when encountering problems, parents should first ask themselves a question, what we have to do, is it for the sake of children? If you just want to vent your anger, don't take action.

Children are innocent, especially children under the age of ten, and we can feel our kindness to children through their eyes and actions.

Clause. Second, reorganize the family, because they love each other, they will overcome all difficulties, and they would rather be troubled by their stepchildren than get married. The party with children must play a role as a link and communicate more with both parties.

Avoid misunderstandings. The so-called concern is chaos, you have to tell your children that no matter whether it is love or not, your parents care about you, and you will be anxious and lose your temper.

Clause. 3. Even biological parents should manage their emotions and try not to beat and scold their children, not to mention that we are stepparents? Stepparents are not good at doing things, they want to be good to their children, and if they say a few more words, they will be mistaken for abusing their children, and beating and scolding will be scolded as vicious.

Try to communicate with your child, if you can't communicate, it will be managed by the biological parents to avoid misunderstandings.

Clause. Fourth, before entering the remarried family, the husband and wife have established a strong alliance with their children, and the relationship is close. After forming a new family, parents may worry that their children are young, fragile, and excluded from their stepparents and other relationships, and will invisibly protect their children more, and then form a sub-alliance problem.

Clause. Fifth, in addition, the traditional concept requires stepparents to treat their stepchildren "as their own", which is also a misunderstanding. It is never possible for a stepparent to whimsically "become" themselves into the child's biological parents, taking the place of their own position or role as Suijian's biological parent.

Clause. 6. There is a great deal of heterogeneity in remarried families, because when integrated into a family, in many cases, there will be a lot of problems to be solved for a stranger's new family. Therefore, in the process of getting along, we must slowly run in and produce harmony, and make our own efforts to change, so that children can accept themselves.

Because there are also many people around us who get along well with their stepchildren. It is also because they love their children as their own children, their children are loved and cared for, they will accept themselves, get along with themselves and become a family, and they will get along well.

1. Lower expectationsIn the eyes of children, stepparents are the "enemies" who break into their families and steal their love. Stepchildren always focus their strengths on their biological parents and add their weaknesses to their stepparents. This time must be mentally equipped in advance.

Children have the nature of children, don't expect children to be intimate with you when they come up, adjust your expectations first, and you will reduce the anxiety and worry of remarried couples.

2. Love House and Wu. If you truly love each other, you will love each other's children from the bottom of your heart. When the daughter put her arms around her mother's neck, she pleaded with tears in her eyes

"Mom, I don't want a stepfather, I will listen to you and serve you in the future." "What woman in the world can bear the tears of her own children? At this time, the man should appear as the child's big friend, tell stories, do homework, and play games with the child, and only after a long time can he get the child's approval.

Is the man willing? This is a big problem. Therefore, if a remarried family wants to get along happily with each other's children, the husband and wife must truly love each other.

3. Treat sincerelyDon't think that the other party is a stepchild, you don't dare to express your true self, dare not cause conflicts, and swallow your anger in exchange for smooth interpersonal relationships. A good interpersonal relationship is based on the "exposure of the true self" of both parties, and telling the truth is the most powerful and "low-harmful" at the same time. Don't think that you only need to do better than your biological parents to establish a good stepchild relationship, this kind of comparison hidden under words and deeds is often more likely to hurt the hearts of stepchildren.

Instead, it is better to face the problem head-on and admit frankly that you will never be able to compare with your own parents, but will try your best to provide what you can do as a stepparent. In this way, the child will also let go of the "demanding" and "hostile" of the file, and give each other a chance to truly build a relationship.

4. Accurate positioning stepparents do not try to replace their parents, in the child's psychology will always give the parents an unshakable position to block and space, the child can give the love of the parents from the parent, and at the same time can give the stepparents the love from the stepson, which is not contradictory. Because from a psychological point of view, no one can "betray" their parents, and this practice of falling in love with stepparents, cutting off the relationship with their parents, or avoiding talking about their parents' relationship will put the child in a strong psychological conflict. A child will be willing to enter into a new family relationship with his or her stepparents only if the stepparents fully respect the ex and allow the child to maintain a close and solid bond with the biological parents.

In the case of restructured families, the relationship between stepparents and stepchildren is often estranged. ......At this time, how to properly handle this aspect of the relationship is of great significance to the happiness and harmony of the family. ......Specifically, in order to manage the relationship between stepparents and stepchildren, it is necessary to move each other with sincerity, calmly respond to misunderstandings, and properly handle conflicts.

1. Stepparents and stepchildren should move each other with sincerity and eliminate estrangement.

The estrangement between stepparents and stepchildren arises due to the lack of an emotional foundation between them. ......For this problem, both stepparents and stepchildren should touch each other with sincerity and narrow the distance between each other, so as to eliminate the estrangement, produce a sense of closeness, and finally achieve the goal of harmonious coexistence. ......This is the most important measure to improve the relationship between stepparents and stepchildren.

2. When there is a misunderstanding between stepparents and stepchildren, deal with it calmly.

Even if there is a misunderstanding between the biological parents and the child, it can be easily resolved. ......But for stepparents and stepchildren, misunderstandings between each other can have serious consequences. ......Therefore, when there is a misunderstanding between the stepparents and the stepchildren, they must deal with it calmly and avoid affecting the feelings between each other because of the misunderstanding, so as to avoid the emergence of estrangement.

3. Measures should be taken to properly handle the conflicts between stepparents and stepchildren.

It is inevitable that some conflicts will arise between family members. ......However, for stepparents and stepchildren, once there is a conflict between each other, it can seriously affect the relationship between them. ......Therefore, both sides should try their best to resolve the contradictions and maintain the feelings of envy between each other, which is of great significance for eliminating estrangement and creating a harmonious and intimate family relationship.

Only by doing this well can we truly resolve contradictions, eliminate estrangement, and let stepparents and stepchildren live in harmony as biological parents and children.