I really don t understand why I suffered. 50

Suffering is suffering because you are not capable. But suffering, it is impossible to suffer for a lifetime, as long as you work hard to live, you can still see the light. In general, suffering is for a better life tomorrow.

Suffering or not suffering is actually a feeling, in order to live, some people are very rich and live a good life, but they still have to choose to struggle and suffer; For the sake of career pursuit, some people would rather be mediocre than struggle and suffer. In the eyes of many people, they suffer a little in order to allow themselves to stand up in front of others. Also, if you really understand what it is to suffer, then you may not feel bitter.

Therefore, there is also a distinction between superficial suffering and inner suffering, and sometimes, these two kinds of suffering are intertwined. The bitterness on the surface is the sweetness of the heart, and the sweetness on the surface will also be the bitterness of the heart. It may be difficult to truly unify the two.

But this is also the goal of life.

If you haven't figured out what suffering is, it means that you are not mature enough, and when you slowly understand the meaning of the dispute, it means that you have also matured and grown.

It is to let ourselves live a better life, and let ourselves cherish the hard-won life now, so we must experience it well.

Some are to make themselves better, some are for a better life, and some are for their relatives, and it is impossible to live in the world with sweetness.

So, you have to figure out that suffering is worth it if it's for the sake of your future life and for a better future in the future.

Life is for survival and suffering, that is very normal, without hard work, you can't get a good life.

If you haven't experienced bitterness, how can you understand the beauty of "sweetness"!!

I really don't understand why I suffered. Suffering is to lay the foundation for future happiness. There is no bitterness in the bitterness, how can there be sweetness in the sweetness?

That's how they are, one of them is also poor, it's better to be poor together, maybe one of them will be able to support the family later.

In fact, every pain I suffer now is for the sake of becoming a better version of myself in the future.

I don't understand what it is to suffer? In fact, suffering is for a better life later.

The bitterness of the present is to prepare for the sweetness of the future.

Why people are suffering is a relatively complex issue, involving many factors such as human society, psychology, and physiology.

Here are some of the main reasons that can cause a person to suffer:

Physiological factors: People may encounter some physiological problems in their lives, such as illness, physical pain, hunger, etc., which can cause people to feel tired and uncomfortable physically and emotionally.

Psychological factors: People may encounter setbacks, losses, difficulties, etc. in their lives, which will have an impact on people's psychology and lead to the generation of negative emotions, such as anxiety, depression, depression, etc.

Social factors: People may experience unfair treatment, discrimination, bullying, etc. in society, which can have a negative impact on people's psyche and cause people to feel lost and helpless.

Economic factors: Economic hardship and poverty are one of the main reasons for many people's suffering, such as employment difficulties, low income, high housing prices, etc., which will lead to people's quality of life declining, feeling depressed and helpless.

In short, the reason why people are suffering is because of human social, psychological, physiological and other factors.

We need to find solutions to problems through positive attitudes and actions to improve our quality of life and well-being.

There is bitterness, there is sweetness, all sweetness is wrong, the month can't be full, and it's troublesome if it's full! There is suffering to make us more and more powerful in Zhonghe Yuanfu, and we have resistance and immunity to the bitter selling faction, as if we have been vaccinated, don't you think?

Because thinking more and doing less.

I've read a passage and I'll give it to you, the world is the nineteenth layer of hell.

Buddha Shakyamuni said that people have eight sufferings, which are birth, old age, sickness, death, resentment, love and separation, five yin and blazing, and unwanted. Birth, old age, sickness, and death are natural physiological sufferings; Resentment, love and parting, five yin blazing and unbelievable, are mental pain. Resentment will be with people or things that are resentful and hated, and it is impossible to get rid of it, which is a kind of pain; It is a pain to love to part, to be separated from one's dear ones; The five yin are blazing and bitter.

The five yin is the color of the desire to know. 'Fiery', fiery also. Sheng, many also.

Shade, obscuration, too. It means that these five dharmas can obscure our people's original enlightenment and sincerity, so that they cannot be revealed. I can't ask for it, but I can't get what I want, and it's a pain.

To live, to have to live (not to live or to die); old, can't ask for youth; sickness, not seeking health; Death, not eternal life; Love parting, begging for reunion; Resentment will be, and there will be no liberation; The five aggregates are blazing, and they can't be clear. Seeking is desire. If you can't ask for it, you will be distressed.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable in the world, but the suffering of "not being able to ask for it" should be exempted by subjective will. The strange thing is that throughout the ages, from high-ranking officials and dignitaries to ordinary people, most of them have tortured themselves on this "unbelievable". or tried their best, or tried their tricks, or exhausted the organs, or fought openly and secretly, and in the end it was "against Qingqing's life".

The things that I originally longed for can only be seen from afar, and cannot be approached, or even observed, but can only be put in the bottom of my heart. I can't stop, I can't ask for it. Emotions are inevitably sad, anxious and remorseful.

Why do people have bitterness, this is of course, there is bitterness to experience sweetness.

In essence.

We are all connected to each other.

When we change.

The people around us will change, too.

But change others.

It should never be our responsibility.

I want others to change.

It should never have been our goal.

When you can't stand it and others suffer.

The suffering of others causes you great emotions.

And when you're desperate to help her change that.

Ask yourself. What do I really can't stand watching?

When you have a strong desire to change others.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself.

Why, I don't allow her to experience pain?

What does pain mean to me?

What am I really resisting?

How do I feel when I see someone in pain?

Where is it in my body?

When did I first experience this feeling?

These questions. It will help you see what you are really afraid of.

And what is really needed.

to meet your own needs.

Do you need lots and lots of affirmations?

Do you need lots and lots of hugs?

Do you need lots and lots of company?

What exactly do you need?

When you go and see your hurt clearly and heal it.

You will be willing to feel the pain of others.

When you go to feel them.

They know they are being "seen".

I was accepted.

I was allowed to do it.

They feel "loved".

Before you try to change them.

But what you're really doing is just judging them.

Your energy is suppressing them.

And now you've created a space for them to love.

Here they feel safe.

I felt loved.

I felt allowed to be accepted and seen.

So there is no need for the old patterns to exist.

She doesn't need to "act" any role to get love.

She is willing to be herself.

Thank you for being who you are.

And by the way. She also became herself.