If you mention divorce on impulse, can you regain it?

If you mention divorce on impulse, can you regain it? This should be looked at by object.

If the man initiates divorce on impulse, this is relatively easy. In fact, let alone divorce, even if it is really divorced, if the man's sincerity is enough, the previous contradictions have been resolved, and there is no domestic violence or other vices, then remarriage is possible. For example, Xue Zhiqian, who just remarried a while ago, is such an example.

But if the woman impulsively files for divorce, this is relatively difficult.

First of all, you must first benefit from her good accumulation in the previous relationship, and the emotional foundation is relatively deep.

Secondly, she can also show that she is really sincere after calming down, apologize for her previous impulsiveness, retract her original words, and show that she still loves each other deeply.

In this way, it is possible to regain the water and restore the previous relationship.

If there are other auxiliary conditions, such as having a child, the woman's conditions are very good, or the woman's family is very good. This will be more conducive to the maintenance and repair of the relationship.

is like Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse, they can still be together because the woman's conditions are very good.

But it is undeniable that no matter who it is, as long as the divorce is mentioned, it will cause great damage to the relationship. Sometimes if you mention divorce, the other party may become worried, anxious, suffer from gains and losses, and become suspicious, and worry about whether you will mention divorce again under any circumstances. If you mention it too much, the other party may be annoyed, saying that if you mention divorce every day, you will simply leave.

So you really don't talk about divorce. How difficult it is for two people to meet each other and fall in love with each other. Everyone is together in order to have a better life, why do you keep quarreling and even mentioning divorce?

When you have a different opinion, make your thoughts clear and sit down with the other person to have a good talk.

When you encounter grievances, express your emotions first, and then deal with right and wrong.

No one wants to live in danger of divorce every day. Speak well and communicate well to live a better life.

I wish you all a happy and fulfilling life!

First of all, I would like to say that the fact that you can realize in hindsight that you filed for divorce was a spur of the moment, not a rational decision, shows that you still have a certain amount of self-introspection. For this reason, I want to praise you, and I am not afraid of your pride.

As for how to regain the water, it depends on your determination and sincerity. At present, you are only filing for divorce, and you have not already divorced, and the two parties are still living together, so there are still opportunities and possibilities for regain.

First explain frankly to the other party, when you filed for divorce at that time, you were also angry, it was your fault, and sincerely say sorry to the other party. Don't underestimate this sentence I'm sorry. Sometimes, a word of sorry can make a big difference.

It reminds me of a previous relationship I had. The other party made a joke in a half-joking, half-serious tone. I had some displeasure in my heart.

I was very calm and told the other party on a case-by-case basis, because of your jokes, I felt disrespected and a little unhappy. I hope you'll say sorry to me. And the reason why I want to hear this sorry is not that I can't handle my own emotions, but that I hope that he will use a sorry sentence to express his concern and respect for my emotions, and apologize for the unpleasantness caused to others by his jokes.

However, the other party will think that I am making a big fuss, I am making a fuss, and I am not joking. And deleted me.

In fact, the state of my relationship with him at that time, both parties obviously had a lot of appreciation and good feelings for each other, and it was not so bad that it couldn't go on. Even if he just sends a sorry message, I can not blame the past and abandon the past suspicions. As a result, it led to our breakup.

From this, it can also be seen that the three words sorry represent an attitude. An attitude of respect and care. It is also a stepping stone to open the opponent's defenses.

Secondly, since you want to recollect it, you still have to take some practical action. You can't just thunder and not rain. Really use her respect, understanding, care, and care to express your determination to rebuild your relationship and express your attachment to your family. <>

Finally, you can also mobilize your mutual friends to help you intercede and say good things in front of each other. Between husband and wife, as long as you really have the heart to change and really want to redeem, it is not so difficult after all. The key is your sincerity and dedication.

At this time, you might as well pay more, and don't pull out the iron rooster. Hehe. Although it's a bit cheesy to talk about money, sometimes, it's often those cheesy things that are the most direct and effective.

Finally, I wish you all good luck and happiness.

Do you just tell her well, he just feels too sad, he loves you and he will listen to you after he is angry, don't file for divorce as soon as you quarrel in the future, break up or something, the spinal potato is very emotional, if a clan's heart is really broken, sometimes it is really difficult to go back to before.

All such impulses are in the past.

It is useless to say all of this now.

Or you can talk about compounding.

But it's better to be cautious.

After the divorce, if one party repents, the parties may agree to go through the remarriage formalities.

As long as the two parties reach an agreement, both parties may go to the civil affairs department of the area where one party's household registration is located to handle the remarriage together, provided that both parties are willing to do so.

The Marriage Registration Regulations stipulate that:

Article 4 When a mainland resident marries, both the man and the woman shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has permanent residence to complete the marriage registration.

Where a Chinese citizen marries a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident marries a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the marriage registration.

Article 5 Mainland residents who go through marriage registration shall present the following certificates and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) A signed statement that he or she has no spouse and no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

Hong Kong residents, Macao residents, and Taiwan residents who have gone through marriage registration shall present the following certificates and supporting materials:

1) Valid pass and ID card;

2) A statement notarized by a notary public at the place of residence that the person has no spouse and that he or she has no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

Overseas Chinese who go through marriage registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) Valid passport of the applicant;

2) A certificate issued by a notary public or competent authority of the country of residence and certified by the embassy (consulate) of the People's Republic of China in that country that the person has no spouse and has no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party, or a certificate issued by the embassy (consulate) of the People's Republic of China in that country that he has no spouse and has no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

Foreigners who go through marriage registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) A valid passport or other valid international travel document of the applicant;

2) A certificate issued by a notary public or competent authority of the country where the person is located, authenticated by the embassy (consulate) of the People's Republic of China in that country or authenticated by the embassy (consulate) of that country in China, or a certificate issued by the embassy (consulate) of the country where the country is located that he has no spouse.

Article 6: In any of the following circumstances, the marriage registration authorities shall not register the parties to the marriage registration:

1) They have not reached the legal age for marriage;

2) It is not voluntary;

3) One or both of them already have a spouse;

4) Belong to direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations;

5) Suffering from a medical illness that is considered unfit for marriage.

Article 7: Marriage registration organs shall conduct a review of the documents and supporting materials issued by the parties to the marriage registration and inquire about the relevant circumstances. Where the parties meet the requirements for marriage, they shall be registered on the spot and a marriage certificate shall be issued; Where the parties do not meet the requirements for marriage and are not registered, the reasons shall be explained to the parties.

Article 14: Where a divorced man and woman voluntarily resume their relationship as husband and wife, they shall go to the marriage registration authority to register their remarriage. The provisions of these Regulations on marriage registration shall apply to the registration of remarriages.

Now that the divorce rate is rising, many people are moving towards the tide of divorce one after another. When love comes to an end and a marriage falls apart, it is a failed experience for both men and women. Loved, hated, lost, after this experience, how can a woman not feel?

The past is like smoke and the wind, the heart is sad, and there is no one to sue!

Divorce has become a fact, and looking back, it only adds to the sadness. Whether it is regretting marriage or regretting divorce, one knot to one is an indelible memory for women. After divorce, women occasionally think about it and often feel distressed, but what can it do?

1.Regret divorce in a fit of rage.

Now, some women, with a bad mentality and poor self-control, shout for divorce as soon as they quarrel with a man, and they do what they say, so they hurriedly divorce the marriage, wanting to teach the man a lesson and make the man regret it. After the divorce, a lonely person, and I couldn't find a better man, I remembered the good of my ex-husband, regretted that I divorced impulsively, and regretted that I shouldn't have been so ruthless at the beginning.

2.Regretting the divorce due to a misunderstanding.

Some men, who did not make mistakes, are purely women chasing after the wind and shadows, self-righteous, mistakenly thinking that men have someone outside of marriage, how men explain, women do not believe it, between husband and wife, if there is a lack of minimum trust, any communication is superfluous, in desperation, men have to agree to the woman's request for divorce, just like that, a marriage came to an end. After the divorce, the woman finds that she has misunderstood her ex-husband and wants to redeem it, however, the man's heartache is not easy to heal, or, the man lets go and starts his life again, and the woman will eventually find that she can't do anything but regret.

3.Listened to the rhetoric of a third party.

After a woman gets married, she is uneasy about her duties, she can't bear loneliness, there are people outside of marriage, behind her husband's back, and a third party, you and me, regard the new love as the best spouse, and can't stand the rhetoric of the new love, so she tries her best to divorce her husband, so that she is happy with the third party above board. After the divorce, she found that her new love was not as good as she imagined, and she was even inferior to her ex-husband, so the woman regretted it.

4.I regret that I had a bad personality before, had a bad temper, and was not good to my ex-husband.

Some women take men's goodness for granted, wantonly oppress men, and men do a little less than she wants, she will not give men a good face, and even worse, they will humiliate men and say some ruthless words to men, making men unbearable, so husband and wife are incompatible, quarreling endlessly, and reluctantly being together, that is, hurting each other and torturing each other, so the two divorced. After the divorce, the woman met several men, found that no one could stand herself, recognized the shortcomings of her character, remembered the goodness of her ex-husband, and regretted that she was "not blessed in the blessings".

I've been married for ten years, and some conflicts between husband and wife will rise to the family's Let your relatives bully your husband Is it necessary It's been 10 years It's been over for 10 years, and this family thing is still so hypocritical You are a princess You deserve it.

Both sides are responsible for this situation, everyone is growing, you might as well let each grow through this matter, and at the same time you can care for each other, not only you are psychologically uncomfortable, but he is the same. There will be feelings for ten years, but if you want to be together again, both of you must grow, learn to be tolerant, and learn to understand.

The divorce rate is so high now, in the final analysis, because the husband and wife do not attach importance to the matter of marriageI remember that when an item was damaged in my parents' generation, they would immediately think about how to repair it, rather than choosing to replace it, and when young people nowadays are damaged by an item, their first thought is to replace it with a new one, which is a change in their mentality, not only for objects, but also for marriage and love.

They don't know how to change themselves to cater to each other, and they always want the other person to do everything to satisfy them, this is what love itself should not be, divorce after impulse, although you will regret it, but I do not recommend getting back together with your ex. Because two people have failed cases, even if they get back together, there may be countless quarrels, and when two people break up, they think about each other's shortcomings.

Therefore, due to the impulse, two people divorced, but two couples who want to reconcile, they will think about the sweetness of being together and will not consider some flaws and insuitability of the two people's personalities, so I suggest that it is better for everyone to find a love that suits them again, because good horses do not eat back grass.

But there is still a premise, if two people have children like this, it is best to be cautious. After all, having children will keep the relationship between the two people close, and the combination of husband and wife will also give the child a better space to grow. CauseChildren from single-parent families will have certain personality defects, and parents should also consider their children.