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I think this has something to do with the environment in which the landlord lives, isn't there a good saying: people and like gather, things are grouped? To put it simply, sometimes it will change with the change of the environment, for example, there are many people around you, you should see less cyclists who drive BMWs are iron buddies, they are all riding and cycling together, you see, a bottle of mineral water is usually sold for 1 yuan in the supermarket, in the dance hall or Di bar?

It's not necessary to sell for five or six yuan, what is that, isn't it just that the environment is different?

I used to be very similar to you. I've described myself as hypocritical. Because I always felt like the buffalo in the countryside, and the master could work when he was whipped with a whip, and I didn't care about me, and I had no direction. I hope that's not the case.

In fact, there are a lot of things delayed by that, first of all, my positioning is not clear. What do you want to do in the future, the real reason is not found, that is, the most desired thing in your heart has not been found, so you are confused, and when you have your own dreams, give yourself a life position, what you want to do. Then set goals and make a plan for each day.

Your goals can be divided into large, medium and small, there is one far away, one in the near future, what reward do you give yourself after doing it, and you don't have to punish yourself a little, these are your own set. A daily plan is a good way to discipline yourself. When you think something is important, something is urgent, you should know how to deal with it.

Maybe a lot of people say it's tiring. It's not worth it. I said that it is very difficult for a person to succeed, but it is even harder not to succeed for a lifetime.

Because he has lived in that unpleasant environment all his life. I've been thinking about how to succeed, but I'm still hesitating. That's even more depressing.

I mean that by all that. The landlord has to decide for himself, after all, we just provide you with some references, your own destiny is in your own hands, fate and fate, life can not be changed, but we can change our luck, you can read or not read out to start a business, just start with me, you should plan your own life goals, you can do anything.

It's better to continue studying now, it will be too difficult if you study after work!

No way, people are like this. This is mainly a personality problem, in fact, people, when it is time to work, you have to work hard, and when you should play, you should play to your heart's content. It mainly depends on one's own psychological restraint ability.

Relax on your own for a few days first! When you get bored, think about the future! Think about how you can survive in this society! What you learn in school may not be useful in society! It's better to find a job that is not tiring first, and then learn as you go!

I don't think playing games is a waste of time, in my opinion, playing games is a pastime, a kind of entertainment, and it is good to play games after work, which can relieve the stress of work. If you say, playing games is a waste of time, then you watch TV, anime, movies, watch ** and the like, it can also be said to be a waste of time, then this doesn't make sense at all.

You can go to play and have fun after work, and what you play depends on what you like, as long as it doesn't affect your work, it doesn't matter what you play. Also, in my opinion, sometimes playing games is not just a pastime, but also a way to make money.

I have a colleague, as soon as she has free time, she goes to play the landlord, at that time there was a landlord to earn phone bills, as long as you continue to win, you can earn a lot of phone bills, and how much you get in the end depends on the number of games you win. Anyway, the number of games she participated in and won added up, counting other activities, and the phone bill she earned was more than 1,000 yuan, because her average monthly consumption was more than a dozen yuan of phone bill, so if it was calculated, she estimated that she would not need to pay phone bills in the future.

Also, there are some gods who play games full-time, they are all playing games to practice advanced materials, advanced equipment, etc., and then sell the materials and equipment to others, exchange them for RMB, or practice a good role in the game, and then sell it, it can also sell well.

In general, in my opinion, as long as it doesn't affect your work, it's still good to play games, or you can make more money if you play games well.

However, if you play games all day long, you delay your business, and you don't do anything else except play games, you are wasting your time and youth.

So, I think the first thing you have to do after you graduate is to look for a job, find a job that suits you, and play games in some free time in the evening to relieve stress. However, if you don't have a job, you just play games at home all day long, which is a bit too much.

Because everyone has responsibilities that everyone has to carry, and it is impossible to avoid them forever. When you feel that the future is very confused, you can only hide from the game for a while, and you still have to face it. So I think it's okay to play games, but they must be moderate, and you can't waste your life because of games.

The purpose of the game is only to pass the time of boredom and relax.

We don't have to make a big career, just have a job where we can support our families. Therefore, I think that after graduation, he still likes to play games, as long as it does not affect his normal life, it is not a waste of time.

It is not possible to generalize. If you have a normal life and work to be busy after graduation, it is not a waste of time to just like to relax through games once in a while.

After all, there is so much pressure in life now, and the pressure on employment is also very great, especially for the children who have just graduated, they are tired of finding a job, and they are even more tired if they can't find it. There must always be a window to vent, otherwise how can you withstand such a lot of mental pressure?

When I first started working, I was yelled at by my boss every day. You can't find someone to complain, and no one listens to what you say, the society doesn't want to campus at all, and no one cares if you're comfortable or not. At that time, every time I was scolded, I would go to the Internet café and play games for two hours.

Although it doesn't make sense, after venting in the game, you can devote yourself to your work again, and the boss's reprimand has long been flying out of the sky.

This life lasted until I was able to do the job. Slowly, due to the increase in workload, I had to give up my plan to go to an Internet café to play games. Later, I bought my own computer and would always play for half an hour before going to bed to relieve the fatigue of the whole day.

Even if you don't play games, doing anything else is just like a waste of time, isn't it? No one says what your time has to be used for, as long as you feel that your time is being used for a certain role and is meaningful to you personally, you don't have to worry about being seen as a plaything.

Of course, if you don't want to make progress after graduation, you just play every day, and the whole life depends on the group of people who gnaw at the old, it can only be a different matter. Playing is completely different from playing without moderation. Although many people are also creating wealth by playing games nowadays, that is a minority after all, isn't it?