The family died on the twenty ninth day of the lunar month in 2019, can they paste the word blessing

The family died on the twenty-ninth day of the lunar month in 2019, can they paste the word blessing this year? No, many local customs and habits, within three years of the death of someone in the family, do not stick the word blessing on the door, couplet, this is the family's respect for the deceased, memorial, whether there are changes in customs and habits in various places, it is better to ask the elderly at the door of the house, because many customs and habits are passed down from generation to generation. According to the old tradition in some parts of our country, generally someone in the family has passed away for three years, and the couplets and blessing characters are not pasted, and all the red things are not put in the house.

Of course, now is a new society, and it is not necessarily necessary to pay so much attention to the new era. Special affairs, like this kind of thing, you can consult the opinions of other people in the family, and strive for the opinions of the whole family before deciding, so as to avoid disagreements and family conflicts.

No. Under normal circumstances, someone in the family dies, within three years can not post the Spring Festival couplets, if you want to post, you can't paste the red Spring Festival couplets, but to paste the gray blue, the blessing characters are red, and you can't paste.

The customs are different in different places, but it seems that it is common in the whole country not to set off firecrackers, not to post red Spring Festival couplets, and not to hang red lanterns for three years after the death of relatives, and it is not possible to give New Year's greetings to others. Our hometown has not been posted for three years. Hanging waves are a bit like the horizontal batches of couplets, but they belong to the category of paper-cutting.

About 20 years ago, there were some changes, no firecrackers, but white couplets can be pasted, and colorful hanging waves have also appeared for the bereaved family.

There are customs of the death of relatives in various places, and the taboo of the death of relatives on our side is as follows:

1. Within three years of the death of the family, red couplets cannot be pasted, only yellow couplets can be pasted. And you can't stick the door god, the word blessing, the word happiness, and so on.

2 The relatives who come from the house must wear white filial piety on their heads, that is, white gauze. You can't bring other colors, and your family members must wear white filial piety clothes.

3. Relatives who have passed away cannot see the sun. Otherwise, it will be unlucky.

4 The great-grandchildren of the family can only have red filial piety on their heads, that is, red gauze.

5. You can only put sad ** at home, not festive **.

6. Relatives should not open the coffin casually when they put it in the coffin. The burial place cannot be moved casually, and the permission of the Onmyoji must be obtained to move.

According to the traditional folk saying, if someone in the family dies, it is not possible to paste couplets, blessing characters and set off firecrackers within three years.

This is an expression of respect for the deceased.

But on the other hand, this is also a type of feudal superstition. The so-called feudal superstition refers to the beliefs and ideas imagined by the year, such as the belief in gods, ghosts and other fictional set of rumors. or blindly indulge in beliefs and worship that tend to be a certain character or heretical sayings.

Generally, yes. The sticker blessing character should be posted before the New Year, usually on the 29th of the lunar month or Chinese New Year's Eve, but the Chinese New Year's Eve of the 2022 Agricultural Disturbance Land New Year is the 29th of the lunar month, so we can push the blessing character forward by one day. The word "Fu" represents auspiciousness and wishes, and entrusts people's yearning for a better life in the new year.

It is more appropriate to paste couplets on the twenty-ninth day of the lunar month. There are two proverbs in the folk, "Twenty-eight, applique flowers" and "Twenty-nine, paste upside down", indicating that on the twenty-eighth and twenty-ninth days of the lunar month, they are all couplets. However, because sometimes there is no 30th lunar month, the 29th has become the last day of this solar term, that is, the absolute day, and the common people think that the couplet is not auspicious enough, and will choose to stick it on the 28th.

In fact, Jueri is not as terrible as the folk rumors, it is just a name for the solar term, which means that this solar term will end on this day, and the next day will be the beginning of a new solar term. This is the same as the meaning of the New Year, so on the 29th, you can still post couplets as usual.

Pay attention to the word "Fu".

The word "Fu" has the meaning of sticking the word "Fu" to indicate that the blessing has arrived, but not all the words of Fu can be pasted upside down. The word Fu on the gate should be pasted, the gate is solemn and dignified, and the word Fu is pasted with the meaning of welcoming Fu Nafu. The word blessing on the cabinet at home can be pasted upside down to express the blessing to welcome every place in the house after entering the door, and the home is full of blessings.

There are also people who have experienced some things and hope to be transferred in the coming year, they can also shout Li Xun on the door of the house to post the word blessing.