Why do many people say that divorce is not good, so don t get divorced easily?

The so-called rather demolishing a temple than destroying a marriage, many people think that divorce is not good, and it cannot be easily divorced. Most of them are considering that they are still primitive couples when they get married and live, and the two are the happiest. If you really can't live with each other, you will choose to divorce, and on the issue of divorce, both husband and wife should not have impulsive thoughts.

You can't choose divorce easily, which is not beneficial for the couple or the children. After the divorce, if the husband and wife have feelings for each other, they will still think of each other's goodness. <>

Especially in rural areas, people with traditional rural beliefs believe that as long as young people are divorced, most of them will consider divorce because they are unhappy in their marriages. For today's young people, the reason why the divorce rate is so high is because young people are too hasty in their thinking about issues. When I was thinking about getting married, I didn't think about whether I could live in old age, but when I divorced, I divorced the other party because of anger.

After the divorce, in short, you will suffer from the fingers of rural people behind your back. <>

The word divorce cannot be easily mentioned in marriage, and once the husband and wife file for divorce, there will be a certain gap in their hearts. Every couple hopes that the relationship between two people can go on for a long time, even if there is no way to live with each other, most of them will choose to continue to live together because of the problem of children. In order to give children a healthy and happy childhood, but also to let children live in a happy environment.

Parents can't easily consider divorce, after all, the responsibility for the sake of their children is very heavy. <>

In life, most couples fight for custody of their children after divorce. If the custody of the child is handed over to the father's side, and the child's father is welcoming the second marriage, and the child lives with the stepmother, this will be seriously harmful to the child. No stepmother will treat the child sincerely, so it will feel very pitiful for the child, but the mother is not able to take care of the child after the divorce.

Many people are not in a particularly good mood after divorce, and it is difficult to start a new life in a short period of time, which has a greater impact on children.

Because it is very difficult to find a partner after divorce, you may only be able to settle with others, and it is impossible to achieve true happiness.

My cousin's daughter celebrated her 5th birthday, and our old cousins got together again. Another year has passed, and it has been almost half a year since my cousin divorced.

Regarding the divorce, my cousin was in pain for a while, she lost her home, and her daughter was given to her ex-husband, and she suddenly felt that she had nothing in her life.

For her divorce, for onlookers, she really raised her hands and feet in favor, but her cousin was unwilling and uneasy, unwilling to end the 10 years of mutual support in this way, and did not worry that her daughter would grow up in a single-parent family.

The breakdown of my cousin's marriage, like a long-lasting puncture, is not an overnight thing. It's just that in the past two years, the fetus has cracked so much that even a one-year-old child can feel it.

They quarreled, fought, and coldly fought, and every time the children came to our house, they spoke cautiously and babbling, and there was something in their eyes, but they just didn't say it, and they always cried inexplicably. Once, the experience of a mother and daughter crying in a restaurant is still vivid in my mind, as if I couldn't pull it out.

That day, my cousin, who was crying, still had the scars of the fight with her ex-husband the night before, and as soon as she saw me, she started to spit out the feast and complained frantically, pointing to the scars on her hands and legs ......I talked for a long time, and I wanted to cry while talking. Children who have always been obedient begin to be restless when they hear their mothers speak, and adults don't listen to anything. She didn't listen to good words, she shouldn't scare her, she wanted everything when she saw it, and everyone who finally got together didn't know what to do.

My cousin was so angry that she slapped her face, and the child's face changed color, and suddenly the mother and daughter cried in the restaurant, and I was stunned for a while.

Since then, the pain of marriage has added another shadow to my heart. I looked at my cousin, and I was in pain and hate.

This party, the children after the divorce, bouncing, mischievous, talking loudly and laughing. Cousin, every day the Gongxiang Bureau worked, studied, and started again. She started hiking, learning to swim, and drinking and chatting with friends.

They are all good when they start over.