How to politely refuse a confession from a married boy?

Updated on workplace 2024-08-13
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    So how can you be frank and clever without hurting the boy's face, and at the same time be able to reject the boy's confession? It's a problem of the century, haha, but it's not like there's no way to deal with it.

    1.Bad sense, my boyfriend and I were once engaged. As soon as these words came out, it was tantamount to drawing wages from the bottom of the kettle, and it completely broke the boys' thoughts about girls.

    Everyone has been engaged, which means that people who are about to get married, no matter how much the boy likes it, there is no hope. Ordinary people can't do this kind of thing, right?

    2.I'm sorry, but I want to focus on my studies now, and I don't want to fall in love yet. That's frank enough, but it's just a little bit of lethality.

    If girls say this, boys will not give up, they will think that the girl may be ashamed, and it is not meaningful to bear his confession, so they will also leave the boy with follow-up hope.

    3.You're good, you're good, it's just that I don't deserve you. Although this kind of self-depreciation refusal will not hurt the other party, it is not very effective.

    Besides, today's girls are all arrogant little princesses, and it is fundamentally a coincidence to think of using this method to reject the boys' confessions. You're so good, I don't think I'm worthy of you. Of course, the expression is very good, but there is no convincing force.

    Although we have known each other for a long time, both parties need to think about emotional matters calmly, and express that it can only be a friendship. How effective is it? As long as I grasp this degree.

    Suppose, if you meet the other party, you are a stalker, and you don't give up until the Yellow River, wouldn't you fall into the whirlpool of feelings? I can't sleep at night and don't think about tea, which not only affects my work, but also affects my life. If you handle it well, you can still be friends, and if you don't handle it well, you can't make friends.

    4.I was young, and my parents didn't approve of me dating boys. There's no way to be real, so let's move out of my parents to round this scene.

    As for whether it will work, I can't guarantee that, but frankly it has been done. I think it's appropriate for us to be brothers and sisters. Informing the other party of the relationship we should be in gives the relationship between the two of us a position.

    Actually, I thought that if you didn't like this boy at all, you would be able to say no to it. It is really not good to achieve the desired effect by adopting a frank way of refusal. Relationships can become difficult for people who are often in your field of vision due to work or other reasons.

    In fact, complex things can be handled simply. It was very clear to him that it was impossible between us, and let him dispel this thought. If you ask for an appointment, you can also refuse.

    Time is the best medicine and the catalyst. I believe that everything is in the breeze, so that my life can be put back on track.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Refusal will definitely hurt others, you can only be polite, say no, you can't miss thanks if you're unhappy, give some praise, say that you're not good, and say that married boys can find girls better than themselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    1. Don't reject a boy through a friend's message, it's better to say it in person if you refuse. If you don't dare to call, you can try texting or writing letters.

    2. After a tactful refusal, the guy may ask you why. You don't need to tell him all the reasons why you don't like guys, just say "I'm sorry, I don't feel that way about you". 

    3. If the boy really needs an explanation, think of a reason in advance, such as if you already have someone you like, it's best not to say hurtful things like "I just don't like you". 

    4. If you really feel that it is impossible to be together, the attitude of refusal should be firm, maybe your euphemistic refusal will be lustful in the eyes of boys, so the attitude must be firm. Let him clearly understand that continuing to persist will not lead to results. 

    5. Don't humiliate others, everyone has the right to like others. Tactfully reject a guy, so that the guy thinks that you just don't like his type, not that he is not good enough. Therefore, the best reason for refusing is that the boy is not smart enough, not handsome enough, etc.

    6. Reject others tactfully, tactfully rather than blindly going around in circles, so the shorter the conversation, the better. After refusal, the boy may still peet for more explanations, but in fact, this is not necessary, and the clearer the explanation, the more hurtful it may be. 7 The above is how to euphemistically reject a boy's confession, some references, I hope it can help you.

    Hope, thank you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's good to sincerely decline, tactful and resolute, since you don't like it, don't let the other party have thoughts, and make it difficult for yourself to remain unchanged in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you want to show that you don't want to deal with someone at the moment, or find some shield to let the guy know what you mean, it's better to hint a little bit, and basically if you say something that you say no, the guy will understand what you mean.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You're good, you can meet better people.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hehe, this is simple, he obviously wants to have an extramarital affair, if you want, it's fine, don't refuse directly, don't spit out, so he thinks you're interesting to him, just be a little bit.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Introduction: How to refuse a married man's confession? When a married man confesses to you, you have to choose to be tough or ignore it. Let's take a look at a few ways to say no, maybe it's better!

    Refusal method 1, in fact, I also wish I could say this to you, but I can't lie to people anyway.

    When a married man confesses to you, it may seem a bit cruel for you to start with this sentence, but in fact, as soon as you say it, the other person should immediately understand your true intentions. But there's nothing wrong with this, it's much easier to make a clear position at the beginning than to go around in circles with vague words, the feelings in reality are different from literary romance films, the simpler it is, the easier it is.

    Refusal method 2, relaxed and comfortable when with you, but we just don't call.

    It's really rare to meet a friend of the opposite sex who can make you completely put down your guard and get along naturally, but if you are embarrassed to say no because of this, there is no doubt that it is a mistake! If you are a person who attaches great importance to love and friendship, then you must not be sloppy at critical moments, and you must clear up the relationship with a married man, which will also be very beneficial to the direction of your relationship.

    Refusal method 3, I don't think I can give you what you want.

    If you are sure that you can't have feelings for a married man, then you might as well tell him the truth directly, at this time white lies or silence are not appropriate responses, know the truth. Warriors dare to face the bleakness of life.

    4. I am not completely sure how I feel yet, and I don't want to have a hasty relationship.

    This sentence is by far the most subtle, and it is also the least lethal to the hopeful confessor. However, although it is polite, this sentence implies a certain risk, married men are likely to think that there is still hope for success, if you have enough patience to wait and see and continue to work hard, maybe you will continue to stage a series of pursuit actions, you still can't really avoid the complicated emotional turmoil of correcting mistakes.

    Rejection method 5, what I want is a plain and ordinary relationship, and the flamboyant and high-profile plot is not suitable for me.

    Married men like to take confession as an unexpected surprise that marks the beginning of their relationship, so they will suddenly blurt out in a situation that you are not expecting and preparing for, and married men should be caught off guard and then moved to tears in the plot designed by married men, and you will eventually be together. However, the reality is that you do not play cards according to common sense, and the truth is that you do feel helpless about his confession, but there will be no subsequent emotion. Remember, if it's really not your thing, be sure to calm your mind and say the above sentence calmly.

    6. I care about you, but I don't love you.

    This is a tactful, decent and direct confession to a married man, which can not only take care of the other party's feelings appropriately, so that the scene will not be too embarrassing and stalemate, but also clearly express his position. It is also a very effective comfort to let him know how important his place is in your mind.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    How to refuse to search for Liang Qi's confession of a married man?

    Actually, I wish I could say that to you, but I can't lie anyway.

    It seems a bit cruel for a married man to confess to you. In fact, once you say it, the other party should immediately understand your true intentions. But there's nothing wrong with that.

    It's much easier to be clear at the outset than to be vague and beat around the bush. Feelings in reality are different from romance in literature. The simpler, the easier.

    Rejection 2. It's relaxing and comfortable with you, but we just don't call.

    It's really hard to meet a friend of the opposite sex who can make you completely relaxed and get along with nature, but if you're too embarrassed to say no because of this, there's no doubt that it's a wrong move! If you are a person who values love and friendship very much, it is important not to be careless at critical moments and be sure to maintain a clear relationship with a married man, which will be very beneficial to your relationship.

    Rejection 3. I don't think I can give you what you want.

    If you are sure that you can't have a relationship with a married man, then you might as well tell him the truth directly. At this point, white lies or silence are not appropriate responses. You must know that true warriors dare to face the bleakness of life.

    Rejection 4. I'm not completely sure of my relationship, and I don't want to start a relationship hastily.

    This sentence is by far the most subtle and the least lethal to the hopeful penitent. However, although this sentence is polite, it carries a certain risk. Married men are likely to think that there is still hope for success.

    If they have enough patience to watch and keep trying, they may stick to a series of pursuit actions without you really being able to avoid the complex emotional distraction of error correction.

    Rejection 5. I want a bland and ordinary feeling, and the high-profile plot is not for me.

    Married men like to use confession as a surprise to mark the beginning of a relationship, so they will blurt it out when you have no expectations and preparation. The plot designed by the married man is to catch you off guard, and then moved to tears, and finally get together. However, the reality often doesn't make sense.

    The truth is that you are really overwhelmed by his confession, but then you will not be moved at all. Remember, if it really doesn't suit your appetite, you first have to calm down and say the above sentence calmly.

    Rejection 6. I care about you, but I don't love you.

    This is a tactful, decent, direct, and clear confession to a married man. It can not only properly take care of the other party's feelings, but also make the scene not too embarrassing and deadlocked, and clearly express your position. It is also a very effective comfort to let him know how important he is in your heart.

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