Does he have a city, be a man with a city?

First of all, I have a few things that I can be sure of.

The first point: as long as there is a conflict between two people, then both of them are at fault.

The second point: some things don't like to drill the horns too much, both of you love to drill the horns, snarky, mean, misunderstanding will arise from this (more understanding, a little more communication, a little more tolerance The problem will be solved naturally.)

The third point: the two of you still have something in common, and the two people who have the same will be similar, so I want to say that it is absolutely possible for the two of you to have a good relationship.

The fourth point: Chengfu (in fact, it is a higher wisdom and strategy of human beings) Aside from those traditional Chinese secular eyes, who said that the city government must be treacherous and cunning when it is deep? And here I can vouch for my personality that when he excessively flaunts his city in front of you, he actually has another real voice in his heart (he wants to pursue the city, to pursue a higher level of human wisdom, and he also wants you to have this wisdom too).

This is a naïve child, and he says that others are immature. This is a very dangerous person who will do stupid things if he hits the wall a few times. "He said that he usually doesn't tell the truth, that he has a different attitude towards people, and then he likes to pretend to be humble in front of some women, and he wants to laugh when he sees their self-righteous reactions, and then I say that he is not humble in front of me, because he is not the object of ridicule, and then it is not fun to be humble to me," and his heart is "You are a smart woman, I can't fool you".

Also, he's always trying to avoid you, right?

<> "Be a person with a city.

1.No internal friction.

Be generous in small things, and ruthless in big things.

2.Appropriate refusal.

Human nature is that the more things you scruple about, the more people bully you.

3.Smile and show people.

Smiling is not necessarily polite, and it may also be a warning from Orange Wisdom.

4.Less care.

The more you care about something, the more it torments you.

5.You teach you how others treat you.

Whose thoughts you care about, you become a slave to whom's leniency, and the highest level of control doesn't care.

People who are really deep in the city tend to have four characteristics.

1.Silent and always seems particularly quiet.

The French writer Montaigne said: Silence is more beneficial to social interaction than insincere words. A person who is really deep in the city will not talk exaggeratedly, and the more people talk about it, the more silent he is.

He sat quietly and listened to what others said, and did not interrupt or express his opinions. Maybe someone said the wrong thing, and he heard it clearly, but he just smiled and didn't take it seriously and didn't correct other people's mistakes.

2.Left and right, when encountering trouble, can always get out of the way.

People who have a city government have learned some ways to deal with things from left to right. No matter how troublesome things are, they will think of a more perfect way to deal with the troublesome things in time; If things don't have much to do with you, then you will slip away and you won't take the trouble out of you.

3.Hidden deeply, there is always a smile on his face, hiding his true thoughts.

There are many things in life, but they are just passing by with a smile. The people who really have the city government are not the fierce gods and evil faces you imagined, but the faces are very good-looking, and they are very friendly in dealing with people. He has a lot of connections, but not many people who have a deep relationship with him. He doesn't join useless social circles.

4.Very self-disciplined and insist on improving their abilities.

The more self-disciplined a person is, the luckier he is. A person who is very deep in the city will also be very self-disciplined, and when no one is looking, he will read carefully, ponder the words and deeds of others, and find what he wants. Using other people's strengths to make up for your own shortcomings and help you succeed is a shortcut in life.