I live in someone else s world, what does it mean to be told to live in my own world???

You say you care a lot about what other people think of you, but I don't think so.

I don't think you have the necessary assertiveness and a certain amount of initiative.

Why does a boyfriend care about you more than anyone else? That's because you're his girlfriend now and always with him.

But his incomprehension also caused you a lot of negative influences. In the current situation, you should be aware of the seriousness of the problem.

It is impossible for a person to only live in the world of his partner, tell him that you also have your space, that you also have relationships that need to be dealt with, talk to him well, tell him your hardships, and if he really loves you, he will understand you.

Then devote time to getting along with classmates, participate in more group activities, and take the initiative to help others when they are in difficulty, maybe it will be a little embarrassing at the beginning, stick to it, people's hearts will always grow flesh, and the situation will improve.

Don't cry all day with a sad face, be sunny.

I hope it will help you when you think of this.

You think of this as your QQ space, hehe

As you can tell from your inner life, the question you ask is "How do I go on?" ”

Tell you, "People can lose everything, but not themselves", that is, to be confident! Don't care too much about what others think of you, and take every step of your way in a down-to-earth manner is the most important thing. For the friends around you, you should greet them with a smile; For those classmates who bully you, you have to turn your grief and anger into strength; For your boyfriend, I think it's best for you to find a good opportunity to talk to him and tell him about your struggles and difficulties, so that he will understand you.

I want to open a little, I want to believe that tomorrow will be better, and only I can create my own happiness!

Actually, to be honest, I often have low self-esteem, but I will try to comfort myself hoping to be friends with you, mine.

People have to accept themselves, face their true selves, this is the hardest part, we always want to make others feel good, but in fact, it's just a matter of finding a mirror to make yourself look happier, in fact, only you know what you really need, and you don't need to force yourself too much.

Maybe you are introverted by nature, so introverts have their own advantages, and even they can't see that since you are a very delicate and sensitive person, you can get self-strength from many books, first recommend a book of Adler's inferiority and transcendence, you can read it first.

The meaning copy is that you are more self-centered, but the self has its own benefits, it can block out the interference of the outside world, so that you can concentrate more on what you want to do, the disadvantage is that it is difficult to integrate with other people, so you must grasp the scale, when you should be self-conscious, when not so self-conscious.

It may be that you don't care about the affairs of the outside world, you only care about your own affairs. Doesn't react much to other people's things.

Probably means you're short-sighted.

Actually, it's not a big deal, there's no need to live like someone else's eyes, it's too tiring.

Maybe you don't know how to care about other people's feelings, or maybe it's too non-mainstream.

only cares about oneself and does not respond to the emotional needs of those around him; The people around you can't attract you; There is no desire for the outside world; Other people's thoughts have nothing in common with you.

According to psychologists' research, people living in their own world usually have the psychological characteristics of being sensitive and suspicious, self-esteem, and strong self-esteem.

If you live in your own world, you must be a weirdo in the eyes of outsiders. They will even think that you are sick, suffering from severe depression, do not like to communicate with others, do not like to go out for a walk, just live alone, live in your own world, and do not have any contact with the outside world, they sympathize with you, and they also despise you.

As long as people live, they must contact and communicate with the outside world, which is actually our mission to come to this world, which we must complete seriously, sincerely structure, and communicate with others, which is also one of the necessary skills in our life, the way of survival. People who don't know how to communicate and don't know how to accept others have no future. If you meet such a person in life, people don't love it, they don't like to deal with such people, and they don't like to be friends with them, so people who live in their own world are destined to be lonely people all their lives, because even if they still have ideas, work hard to do a lot of things, and have achieved a lot, but no one can understand him, so they can only do nothing and be obscure.

I know such an aunt in my life, the aunt is in her 30s, but she never communicates with others, just lives in her own world. If you sit with him and chat, you ask, she asks, and sometimes even when you ask, she doesn't imply a fight. She stays alone in the house every day, and even rarely talks to her husband and children, looking at her, I always feel that she is thinking about problems, but you can't understand why she has so many problems to think about every day, and she has been in this state for three or four hours.

The most speechless and frightening thing is what the aunt does in her daily life. She doesn't talk to other people, she always talks to people when she's alone in the house, and when she's alone in the house, I'm always talking to myself, singing, and sometimes even dancing. Every time I pass by her house, I am frightened by her self-talk.

In my life, my old Jane is reluctant to contact her, and no one in my life wants to contact my aunt, because everyone is sad by my aunt. At the beginning, everyone was very enthusiastic and actively chatted with her, but she was always cold and indifferent, giving people a very arrogant look.

Living in your own world, not communicating with others, this is a patient, a person who can't use people's social communication normally, a person who can't live well, just living in his own world, not caring what others think of you, this is not right, we still have to try to contact the society, communicate with others.

Summary. Most of the people who really live in their own world are introverted and unsociable. There will also be not many good colleagues at work, who will feel that they are right in everything and are self-centered. Make it difficult for others to accept. ”

Most of the people who really live in their own world are introverted and unsociable. There will also be not many good colleagues at work, who will feel that they are right in everything and are self-centered. Make it difficult for others to rise to old acceptance. ”

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Most of the people who really live in their own world are introverted and unsociable. There will also be not many good colleagues at work, who will feel that they are right in everything and are self-centered. Make it difficult for others to rise to old acceptance. ”