I m separated from my girlfriend now, and what do you think I m supposed to do

Updated on psychology 2024-08-02
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Stick to it wholeheartedly

    My boyfriend and I have been separated for 3 years, and we are still together, although there are many conflicts in the middle, but as long as we take it seriously and insist on it, we still believe that we will be together.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    What about the division of the two places? I'm not separated from my girlfriend, aren't you going to live? Dividing the two places is the time to test your love.

    If you can stand the test, you will be very happy in the future, if you can't stand the test, there is a saying: not a family, not a family.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Actually, I think it's better to be separated, because I used to be together with my boyfriend every day, so there were a lot of problems, and I was almost about to break up, but then we separated from the two places, and I didn't expect the relationship to be much better, and now we are still separated from each other, and the relationship is very good. Hehe, but remember to type** and text more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you both feel that this relationship cannot be given up and must be together in the future, then hold on, it will get better, and find a chance to come together. I've been separated from my girlfriend for 3 years, and the relationship has always been very good, but I spend more money on civil aviation and railways, hehe.

    If you feel that waiting like this is not the way to go, the two of you should discuss what to do in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The person I want to chase now is not with me, and I am very annoyed Hey, I sympathize with you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Let's talk more, sometimes love has to go through the necessary test.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you love her and firmly believe that she is the one who will live together in the future, then you yourself should know how to do it better than the bystanders!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At that time, I still felt that as long as we loved each other, there would be no hurdles that could not be overcome, but as time went by, I found that there are really too many uncertainties in long-distance lovers, which will affect our relationship. Recently, her long-distance girlfriend said that she wanted to break up because she felt that the long-distance relationship was too tiring, and she wanted to clean up her mood and start her life alone.

    My girlfriend and I had a long-distance relationship after graduating from college, and for us younger, we didn't think that long-distance relationships were so difficult at first, but we were both more optimistic at that time. But after more than a year of long-distance relationship, we have gradually become a little more than enough. The factor of distance makes it impossible for us to be by each other's side at all times, and occasional get-togethers also require running day and night in order to not see each other in a hurry.

    One of her and I was in the south and the other in the north, and it took about 20 hours by train, and if we took a plane, the plane tickets were very expensive, so we could only see each other in a month or two.

    At the beginning of the long-distance relationship, we were able to insist on sending messages to each other every day and calling **, but later everyone was busy with work, and it became two or three days to chat about WeChat, and only once a week**.

    In the three years of long-distance relationship, we also had quarrels, and when it was serious, we also had emotions and wanted to break up, but then we all reconciled. Some time ago, my girlfriend suddenly called**, and she told me very calmly on the other end, why don't you break up. When she said that, I wasn't surprised, I just felt powerless and sad.

    Because we both have our own pursuits and persistence, and both of our careers are currently on the rise, neither of us is willing to make sacrifices to accommodate each other, and we can't see the future together, so breaking up may be our best choice.

    It's just that if you separate like this, I will feel very reluctant and unwilling, we have been together for six years, and the relationship of six years will be broken up like this, how easy is it to let go? But what if you don't separate? Continue to drag on like this?

    We're all too old to afford it.

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