There are almost no gifts, does he love me?

Updated on society 2024-02-09
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe he's just sluggish and doesn't know how to express himself.

    I don't have to have anything particularly valuable, I just want him to think of me at a special moment, or at a certain time in my life, and think of me to make me happy. "

    You said it very well, girls don't necessarily want the other party to spend money for themselves, they just want the other party's concern.

    You try to express your thoughts and concepts euphemistically, and you can say something coquettish on a special day"You don't care about me at all","Woo, every time I have to remind you to remember, I'm going to be upset"Anyway, I succeeded.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He loves you, but this is not what he wants him to do, if he often gives you this and often gives you that, one day, when he has no new ideas, you will still feel that he doesn't care about you, he doesn't love you!

    In the current situation, he will give you a little thing, and you will feel very happy!

    There is a message for you, I hope you always remember!! Maybe it's a lot better if you think so.

    When you eat too much honey, you don't know what sweetness is!!

    He doesn't care about you, not usually, but at critical times!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sometimes you don't say what you want, and he can't guess what you think.

    Men are not as romantic as women.

    Thinking about these boring questions all day long.

    If you ask him and he doesn't satisfy you, it means that he doesn't value you.

    But you don't tell him to guess that he's not a god.

    And men are stupid.

    You're stupid too.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Would you rather hold on to the flaws and waste them like this and not solve the problem?

    The numbness of love may become a habit. Accustomed to the habit of not feeling.

    Your boyfriend may be one of the numbness of love.

    Maybe he really loves you, but he is not used to loving you in that way of giving gifts, you can try to discover other ways he loves you. If you can't find out, then have a long talk with him, tell him all the doubts and complaints in your heart, and see how he reacts. After all, love is something that comes out.

    If you don't communicate, how can you know each other's hearts?

    Don't believe the. Have a good communication with your lover.

    A true lover is to use all the thoughtfulness and care, even if there is no gift, as long as there is a heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, it's such a coincidence, my him is exactly the same as yours, but we've only been together for 3 months, and I'm thinking about breaking up with him, but I don't know how to speak, because he also said that he loves me very much, and he can't bear to give him the care or gifts or time that lovers should have, no, he will do his business when he goes shopping and completely ignore my feelings, it's annoying, we're only 3 months and I really don't know if I want to break up, but you've been 3 years, and you've endured it. How can you endure the next 30 years?

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Whether it is love or not is not measured by this.

    You have to experience it with your heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love needs to be expressed with the gifts you say, but those expressions are not love in themselves, and without these expressions, love is still love, of course, as two people get along, it seems that your boyfriend is not doing very well, but that does not mean that he does not love you

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's similar to my boyfriend, you break up with him, if you don't give up first, he won't feel a crisis, he won't know how to cherish if he doesn't lose, and if he doesn't take this step, he will never know how important you are to him. If he cares about you, he will definitely try his best to keep you, and if you start again, he will change, become more concerned about your thoughts, and understand your feelings with his heart. If he gives up very lightly, then this man is not worthy of your love, so get rid of it as soon as possible.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Experience whether you are happy now, why if you are not happy, you can put forward any requirements, of course, you must pay attention to the way, you may not know if you don't bring it up, education!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I believe that you are not vain, and women can be vain, but don't love vanity.

    But I believe that he loves you, and I don't need to measure whether he loves you or not, really.

    Because, I'm afraid that one day I will regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's be honest. You're a little naïve. Love is the communication of the heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Or what he thinks: Spending your energy on work now will give you a lot of what you need in the future. But this kind of thinking of men is not very good.

    Personal opinion.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Can't say he doesn't love you.

    It can only be said that everything he expresses is different from what you hope.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Surely love, let's take a test with him?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In the process of getting along, boyfriend and girlfriend will give each other gifts to please each other and warm the feelings. But many people find that boyfriends don't like to give themselves gifts. What does that mean?

    Find out today. Do you know what's wrong with your boyfriend not giving gifts? Gift-giving is a traditional virtue, and there has been a saying since ancient times that gifts are exchanged.

    When two people have a good relationship, they will naturally give each other gifts, friendship, family affection, and love. When men and women fall in love, from pursuit to marriage, the degree of affection is different, and both parties will give different gifts to each other and their families to express their concern and concern for each other.

    However, not all boys are careful and notice the importance of gift-giving, and tend to ignore or even forget. Many girls have a common problem when they fall in love, that is, their boyfriends don't like to give gifts to themselves or their families. What does it mean when a boyfriend doesn't give gifts?

    I'm going to give you an in-depth analysis to let you know what he really thought when he did it. Not everyone's relationship can be smooth sailing. Being able to understand the other person's thoughts in real time is also a sign of responsibility for one's own feelings.

    We have to pay attention to the subtle movements of her boyfriend.

    The character is big and informal. Compared to girls, boys are mostly careless, especially when it comes to etiquette. Many girls are naturally very sensitive to etiquette, so with a woman's care, the relationship between family and relatives can be more stable.

    Relatively speaking, boys like to be free and easy, and do not like to be bound by etiquette, so they always ignore or even forget cumbersome etiquette. For this kind of big-hearted, unruly boy, it's normal to forget to give a gift.

    I was so busy with work that I forgot to give gifts. Nowadays, people's living standards have improved, and their material requirements have also increased. In order to meet the demands of life, most men are busier at work and face more pressure.

    They work overtime every day, and all they can think about is how to improve their performance, so that their salary can be slightly higher this month, so as to improve their family life. Under such pressure, many boys forget things that are not very important to them, such as giving gifts to their significant other and friends and relatives around them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It doesn't have to be that he doesn't love you. It is very likely that he is a straight man, and for him, he has no concept of giving gifts, which is not a necessary ritual in life. If you care about this, you can take the initiative to remind him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can't tell if your boyfriend loves you by gifts. The main thing is to see if your boyfriend has you in his future plans, if there is, it proves that you have a very important position in his mind, if not, then it is definitely not love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Possibly. I think even if it's a straight man of steel, if he has a little thought about you, he will give you a stone. No gifts, no surprises, doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you, but not once is too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It may be that he doesn't know what gift to give you or when to give you a gift, and you can remind him that he won't be with you if he doesn't love you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Communication is very important when two people get along.

    In your cognition, "giving gifts = loving the other person", "not giving gifts = not loving the other person", maybe the other person doesn't think so.

    Have you ever asked him what he thinks about "giving gifts"?

    And how did he feel when he received a gift from you?

    You say, "To be honest, I don't think he will do anything for me", may I ask you that you are together, in addition to the matter of giving gifts, in other things, does he do anything for you?

    If in anything, you have always paid more, and he has always been the one who accepts, then after a long time, you will inevitably feel wronged, dissatisfied, and angry in your own heart, and your feelings will be unbalanced.

    Then you can ask him to do something for you, or you can give less, so that the feelings will reach a relatively balanced state in your heart.

    I think a lot of times, girls have some expectations in their hearts, but they don't tell each other.

    As for boys, they are more "stupid", they can't guess, and it's hard to guess.

    So sometimes you just give it a try, like you tell him, "Valentine's Day is coming, and I want you to prepare a gift for me." ”

    It's also interesting to look forward to what gifts he will prepare next.

    The relationship of intimacy is still very knowledgeable.

    It's not easy to meet someone you like, but do it and cherish it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because if you don't even want to spend money for you, you definitely don't love you, don't think that saving for the other party will make you more liked, this may be his most direct expression.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When a person's material life is still in the stage of solving the problem of food and clothing, do you think he will have the money to buy gifts for his girlfriend?

    Grandma always told us how sad their days were, everyone couldn't eat enough, and if it weren't for the fact that Grandpa's family had white rice to eat, she wouldn't have married Grandpa.

    It's as simple as that, only when the primary problem is solved, will the spiritual level of enjoyment be considered. Grandma felt that at that time, grandpa was able to make him full, that is, he loved her, and she would wonder why grandpa didn't buy her gifts? No.

    But does a gift have to be paid for? Of course not. Although Grandpa didn't buy any gifts for Grandma, Grandpa made a dresser for Grandma with his own hands, from going up the mountain to cut trees, to selecting wood, to designing, etc., which condensed Grandpa's love for Grandma.

    A man is so poor that he has no money to buy gifts for his girlfriend, he will also prepare gifts for women with his heart, and it doesn't cost money to pick wildflowers on the side of the road.

    For some couples, the woman's conditions are so much better than the man's that the man feels that the woman lacks nothing, and those who lack it cannot afford it. I'm embarrassed to buy those that are within my financial ability, and I feel that I can't give them away.

    Therefore, the disparity in family conditions has created a man's inferiority complex in this relationship.

    If the man does not belong to the first condition, the kind of poor jingle, then the fact that the man never buys gifts for his girlfriend only means that he does not love this woman.

    Giving gifts to each other is a way for people to express their love and feelings, and there is no requirement that you have to prepare expensive gifts, as long as you have a heart, if a man can't think of it, then it can only mean that he does not have this woman in his heart.

    In the end, does the man who buys you gifts every day necessarily love you?

    Of course, if you don't buy gifts for women every day, but you don't want to spend time with women, and men who don't want to promise women don't necessarily love you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This person likes you, and he is also stingy and unwilling to spend an extra penny for you. That way, if you marry him, life won't be easy. The point is that he is willing to spend money for himself.

    He usually pays for meals and is willing to buy you small gifts. Sido explained that he wasn't the only one staying. In this case, if he is really good to you, you should concentrate on it, not your money.

    Why not spend the money on me? I'm a person who seems to be more material than emotional, but I still think so.

    Of course, it cannot be ruled out whether he is economically poor, but should there be more or less poverty? At least for now, my boyfriend is still single. If he really doesn't give you £1000, a guy only has £100, but he's willing to give you £99.

    Who would you choose between these two types of men? Although this is just a metaphor, we can understand that there is a way that loving your life does not give you enough, and that the person who does not love you has more ideas than you want.

    I really love this girl, I want to marry her, I want to live with her for the rest of my life, at least I will trust in my own efforts or really touch each other's parents, but nothing. I know it's horrible to cheat that girl with a mouth. The man who sold you and helped you get so many people and money is an adult.

    He has no reason. Your boyfriend is just playing tricks on you. As a woman, you are weak enough.

    If you don't know if you like it or not, you don't have money.

    This must be your boyfriend's cabin. No gifts, no surprises. If you don't have money, but you have a heart to lose, I think a lot of gifts can be made without money.

    I'm sure a lot of girls don't want gifts and spend more. Carefully observe and analyze your boyfriend's family situation and his own financial situation. If he really has more than his heart, but less than his strength, there is no problem.

    He's a potential **, and he's deliberately hiding it from you! I was angry when I saw this! From a professional point of view, this is selective consumption.

    From the core of consumption, it can be seen that it is more valuable to spend lead money to live in a hotel! He has a strong purpose to find you.

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