Do you think face matters? Is face really that important???

I've been thinking about the question, why do men go drinking?

They may binge drink when friends get together, which seems to prove that friends have a certain place in my heart, and then the friends get drunk and don't go to work the next day with headaches; Drinking heavily when friends parted, saying that they would "binge" again when they met in the future, and then the friend delayed the ride because he drank too much; Drink when you are happy, and then grumble when you are drunk, and your mouth is full of discouraged words; When you are sad, you drink bitterly, and then vomit, but you will suffer your relatives and friends who live together.

One day, I invited my ex-girlfriend to dinner, and to your surprise, my girlfriend brought her boyfriend with her. Men will have a strong PK amount of alcohol at the wine table, and then your girlfriend's new boyfriend loses, and you show your "manly" side in front of your girlfriend. But she will help her boyfriend out of the wine table, leaving you who is glad that you didn't lose, and you are still lost!

One day, a friend invited you to be a guest. Then the friends get drunk, leaving you and a group of "friends" who don't know each other very well to continue the fight, and the two sides have their own ghosts, and they break up unhappily.

Most men drink alcohol because of face, but because of drinking, it brings a lot of inconvenience to themselves, relatives, and friends, so I don't advocate drinking. I think it's not just drinking to earn face in front of friends, maybe there are more and better ways to solve it, depending on the person and the matter!

Backbone is important...

What is face Can you eat?

This is the same as the festival, sometimes it is needed, and sometimes it can be dropped to the ground.

If you think it's important, it's important.

In a deceased relationship, the importance of face will vary because each person's values and cultural background are different. Here are some common points:

1.The importance of face: For some people, face can be important in a relationship.

They may care about their and their partner's image and reputation in social situations, and want to show their success, happiness, and stable relationship to the world. They may care about what others think of their relationship and struggle to maintain an enviable image.

They may think that caring about their image in front of their significant other can maintain their dignity and self-confidence. Caring about face can be an expression of their self-worth and self-esteem.

3.Authenticity and transparency: Others may be more concerned with authenticity and transparency in a relationship than with face.

They place more emphasis on deep connection and genuine communication with their partner rather than seeking external approval or a superficial image. It's more important for them to have a genuine, honest relationship.

It is important to understand that the importance of face in a relationship is not necessarily right or wrong, but rather a reflection of personal preferences and cultural values. Each shedding pair has different relationship dynamics and communication styles, which need to be negotiated and balanced according to each other's needs and values. Building a healthy, respectful and understanding relationship is paramount, and it is up to both parties to decide whether or not they care about face.

Face is needed, and innocent face is beautiful and fascinating. Just like people's dress and grooming, moderate grooming, good at embellishment, long spirit, raise ambition, can put the finishing touch, benefit people, give people enjoyment. Like"Combat heroes"、"Model worker"、"Activists"The face of so on is to be respected and to be created.

Whether face is important or not depends on the occasion and what it is compared to.

If it is compared to personal honor and disgrace, face is not important. The big husband can bend and stretch, the gentleman forgets all the favors and humiliations, and the confident person knows that the people and things that offend his face are the fault of the other party, not his own fault, and the psychological problems of the other party can only be solved by himself in his growth, without having to manage it himself.

If someone is afraid of losing face in front of his parents, you have to tolerate him, because he is filial and afraid that his parents will worry that he will be bullied.

If you are a businessman, when meeting customers, you should pay special attention to "decency", dress neatly, and brand well. It doesn't matter whether you are handsome or not, but the standard businessman image must be done well in order to "suppress" the other party.

As an entrepreneur, you often need to show your face, which is a habit, and sometimes you will suffer rejection and failure. Those who succeed have crawled out of the grave of failure, and of course they can't succeed if they want to save face. (Of course, it is not that successful people do shameless things, but they must correctly face the rejection and failure of others).

Between husband and wife, you don't want to lose face. Otherwise, there will be quarrels every day.

If it is the honor or disgrace of the country, then we must safeguard our dignity and rights and interests.

You can lose face, but you can't lose your dignity. Sometimes you'll be embarrassed, and that's okay, just do things according to your own principles and you feel right. Face is for others to see, the people you care about understand you, and irrelevant people don't have to care too much about it.

This is a person who replied: "The most worthless thing in this world is face, men and women are the same, don't care too much about these, feelings, career, studies, all aspects of life must be put down and proceed from reality, as long as it does not harm society, do not break the law, do not affect the progress of human civilization, everything else does not matter, you are a man, then you should be even more shameless, or you will not succeed." "What do you think?

But I don't think so!

Important, the key also depends on the occasion.

As the saying goes, a man lives a face, and a tree lives a skin.

Although many people say that you can't die to save face in what you do, there are very few people who can let it go.

The writer Yishu's book has the following statement:

Selling self-esteem in front of money and love is the most stupid thing to do. - He's lonelier than fireworks

If someone throws you with a banknote, kneel down and pick it up one by one, it doesn't matter, when it has to do with your food and clothing, a little bit of self-esteem is nothing. - Xi Bao".

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.

It doesn't matter, many people fall on face, and it is worth it to objectively overcome difficulties and fold face, but people will be very comfortable when they have face, and they can use this to influence other people's judgment to bring themselves an advantage.

If you're too face-conscious, you're never going to take the first step, and you're going to make 10,000 excuses to cover up your cowardice, and in the end, congratulations, you've finally turned yourself into something that people look down upon.

Everything about dignity is important, but it's also relative.

Face is important for rich and powerful people, and when you are poor and can't even eat, of course face is not important.

To die is to save face and suffer sin, and face is earned by oneself and not given by others.