If you love me, why don t you get engaged to me?

Let's be honest with each other. For girls, youth is the most important thing. After three or five years, the flowers are also grateful, if the man changes his mind, you will be the one who suffers.

You should also think about what marriage means to you. Is it the result of love, a state of stability, or a life of abundance. If it's the former, you can communicate with your boyfriend and tell him that sharing hardships is also a very important thing, and there is no need to wait until you have money to get married (you know, the criteria for being rich are also very vague); If it's the latter, I suggest you be realistic and go on a blind date with someone else, maybe there will be other gains.

I think there are two possibilities.

One. He doesn't love you.

Two. He loves you very much and doesn't want you to marry him who has no money now, and follow him to suffer.

Talk to him, talk to him, ask him what he's thinking before making a decision.

Talk to him and see what he has to say.

Tell him tactfully, someone introduced you to someone and asked him if you should see him! See how he reacts?

I suggest you meet or meet because you don't care if he doesn't have money, and he still doesn't want to get engaged to you, let alone get married!

I think when a girl reaches the age of 26, it's not like a boy, he's fine in three or five years, and girls are very different! So you have the right object don't miss out!

Well, let's talk about it. The most likely scenario is nothing more than 2:

1 is that he really loves you very much, and he doesn't want you to suffer after marrying him, so he really wants to make more money so that you can marry beautifully. You can observe his work status and sense of responsibility, etc., and tell him more that you don't care about the amount of money, and the two of you will be very happy together.

2 Through the above observation and communication, it seems that this is not the case. Then, it is possible that he doesn't care about you very much, or that he doesn't love you enough to the point of wanting to get married.

Both men and women have standards of love in their souls, and the more open the society, the more people will respect their own standards.

Why is this all the case? At first, I was like you, but then I thought that if two people have feelings, some things are just a formality. The key is to see if he still loves you

If the answer is yes, stick to each other's feelings!

Love is a responsibility, and he wants to wait until he is able to take on this responsibility.

Does he really like you?

I also want to know the answer, because I'm like this, what should I do?

He's not in a hurry, what are you anxious about, relax, what should you do, and make more friends by the way! Are you so unconfident in yourself!

I don't love you anymore

I've only known each other for half a year, and I think it's a bit early to talk about marriage.

It depends on the situation if you don't want to get married after getting engaged:

1. If the man does not want to get married, he can take the initiative to negotiate with the woman to withdraw from the marriage;

2. If the woman does not want to get married, she needs to return the corresponding bride price and withdraw from the marriage.

If a request for the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom is ascertained to fall under the following circumstances, the people's court shall support it:

1. The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2. The parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together.

When a man and a woman are engaged, the bride price is generally paid by the man's family to the woman's family. When a man and a woman form a property relationship, the actual owner of the property may be the woman, or the woman's parents, matchmaker or other persons. When the bride price is not controlled by the woman herself, it is difficult to return the bride price.

The other party is not willing to marry you immediately, it depends on the reasons given by the other party and the real psychological state of the other party as you judge.

1.The other party can't give you happiness right away because of his own conditions, and he wants to wait. If the other party has no confidence to give you happiness because of the poor material basic conditions, personal work is not stable, and there is no confidence to give you happiness, I don't want to delay you, and I am afraid that you can't hold your head up in front of your parents, relatives and friends, and want to use a certain amount of time to prove yourself, he has also made it clear to you that after you get along, you can also believe in your boyfriend's personality and feel that what he said is true, then you can give him a period of time, but not more than three years, if three years, he has not changed anything, If you don't have any success, then this person is not worth your wait, because a woman's time is very precious, and there are several or three years in her life!

2.If he is half-hearted, he has not yet made up his mind. Nowadays, the pace of society is relatively fast, and the pressure of life is relatively high, some people are forced by the pressure of reality, will not choose the true love in their minds, will abandon their lover for the sake of material conditions, and then use his wife's eyesight to create a career, and then look back to find his true love, such a person is a scumbag, so you have to figure out whether your boyfriend has this consideration, if so, then give up as soon as possible, if you can't be sure, you should also observe carefully, and try it.

3.Some boys just don't want to be responsible and don't want to enter the palace of marriage. If you meet such a boyfriend, you have to ask your heart, if you really just want to fall in love, then you can choose such a boyfriend, if the purpose of falling in love is to enter marriage, then such a boy is obviously not suitable for you, such a boy is not responsible enough, responsible, and will not marry for you in the future, because he can clearly tell you when he is in love now, he is not willing to get married, so this shows a problem, or he is using you, Either they treat you as a spare tire, anyway, they don't really love you, and such a boy should give up immediately.

I don't want to get engaged to you before I get married, most likely because I want to have a free body, and I am not very optimistic about each other's feelings.

The conditions are not ripe, and they want to get along further and get married again.

1。Think about why marriage is recommended.

Marriage is a huge commitment, and it's important to consider all the factors that may influence your decision.

Talk to your partner about what you think is best for both of you. If they agree, then they can proceed.

Consider the benefits of getting married.

Marriage gives you a legal status (joint ownership and tax benefits) and can make things easier if one of the spouses dies or gets sick without health insurance.

It may be easier to get approved for a loan if both spouses are listed on the loan documents rather than just one person applying in their own name (especially if there is an outstanding balance).

If one party has only assets in their name, such as a house or car, these assets may be taken by creditors in bankruptcy proceedings unless they are converted into joint ownership with the spouse before filing for bankruptcy (which can involve expensive legal fees).

2: Consider your relationship. Consider your relationship.

When you're thinking about getting married, it's important to think about your relationship. Are you and your partner ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage? Have you discussed a major issue:

Kids, finances, and religion? Do both partners have a lifelong commitment to each other? Do you share common goals and values?

These are all things to consider before getting married.

For example, if one person wants children, but the other doesn't want them at all, or isn't sure yet – this could cause problems in the future. Or if one party's religious beliefs are inconsistent with his or her spouse's religious beliefs – this can also lead to difficulties.

Session 1: Consider Your Relationship. Don't be afraid to say no.

You should think about why people are urging you to get married. If they are pressuring you because they want to see you happy, then you may be able to ignore them and wait until you feel that your relationship is ready before getting married. If they are pressuring you because they don't like your partner or think you'd be happier if another person joins, then it's definitely time to have a conversation with them.

If you feel like you're ready to get married and your partner is just as ready, then do what feels right for you! Marriage is great; However, if getting married doesn't feel right, then don't do it! You can say"Nope"。

When someone pressures you with intimidation, threats, manipulation, coercion, etc., to do something that may be bad for yourself or those around you, including children, you can say no.

Revelation. If you're stressed, or you don't think you're ready, getting engaged isn't a good idea.

So, before you start reading, make sure you understand what takeout is.

You can take advantage of takeout to help you decide if you want to read this article or not.

After all, what's the point of getting married if your relationship isn't progressing? If a relationship has been established and both parties are ready to take this step in life, congratulations! You've found someone who is willing to live with you.

You've found someone who also wants to spend your life with!

A man loves you, but he doesn't want to marry you, and there are only these two possibilities.

Because I like you, I don't love you.

Both of them are already engaged and want to make sure if their fiancée loves each other? Is it an arranged marriage? From acquaintance, love and love to walking together, getting engaged and married to become a family, this experience and understanding is what must be experienced for each other to join hands for a lifetime and become a family.

Because you know it, you will cherish it, and because you cherish it, you will take care of it. Do you really love him? Do you really love each other?

You can see from the bits and pieces that there is nothing in your heart? How much of your presence is in his mind? From the words he said when he looked at you, patiently explained, and smiled with affection, you can see his eyes, and the psychological pretending is not pretended.

You are here. So through the chat between you, and the usual greetings to each other, how long does it take to reply to you, and are there any sweet words? Is it impatient?

These can be seen, do you love it or not? Same as I thought, so be it!

You should have met through a blind date, both of you have reached the age of marriage, you have been together for three months, and you feel that you can get engaged to each other, and the time for marriage is probably not far away, right? You're nervous because you can't be sure if your fiancée really loves you. I ask you, do you really love your fiancée?

To what extent is love, and how many days have the two of you spent together in three months? When you first met, did you have the feeling of your heart beating faster, when you couldn't see her, did you feel like you wanted to see her? In fact, there is not so much love in real life

The mountains are edgeless, the heaven and the earth are together, and only then can you dare to be with you! Although modern Chinese are still more reserved, does she immediately say, love you. Is that really love?

Don't be naïve, your real situation may be that you want to find a partner, fulfill your parents' wishes, and start a family.

Hello, since he is engaged to you, it proves that he loves you, how can a girl be embarrassed to say that she loves you? I think as long as we don't stay apart for too long, he won't change his mind, so you can rest assured. Even if it's engaged, it's impossible to love to death, you have to be.

Relationships still need you to take care of each other.

Both are already engaged. You also have to make sure that your betrothed fiancée loves you or not, and if he doesn't love you, you can rest assured that it is impossible to get engaged to you.

What kind of logic are you, since you are engaged, I don't know if the other party loves you or not, the other party must love you, otherwise I wouldn't be engaged to you.

When you get engaged, you talk about marriage. Show love and acceptance of each other with actions.

Do I still need a written certificate?

I can't be sure if I've known each other for three months, but can I be sure after I get engaged?