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The first situation of the man: the man may like a woman because of a certain point, such as beauty, and this kind of love may not be eternal, the flowers will always be grateful, and the aesthetics will be tired. The second scenario:
As the landlord said, I like a person, but I don't know what I like her, and the external environment, such as family and career, does not hinder the development of the two, so the two are likely to last a long time. The first situation of the woman is different from the man, the man often can't stand the test of time, and the woman often can't stand the material test, for example, a woman likes a man just because the man is rich, once bankrupt, the relationship will be terminated, and the lover, Xiaomi, is often like this. The second type, similar to men, can't say what they like, but the outside world, such as family, career factors, etc., women take it more seriously, sometimes they like someone, the family does not agree, or the man has no future in his career, women tend to give in, and men often struggle when they encounter this situation.
This is the concept of love in my heart, hehe, in connection with the actual said
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You're right. Conditional likes are really hypocritical!
But how can you like him if you don't have the conditions?!
The condition is: feel! ~
You have to feel it to like him! It's all by feeling" < (ms is so contradictory) When someone asks you how you like him, as long as you really like this person, you should say "because I feel that way about her, so I like him." To like him is to like him by feeling ".
Haha > "I'm from my own personal point of view
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There is a saying, "I love you, not because I like who you are, but because I like the feeling of being with you." ”
If there is one purpose of love, it is to give, to give to the people you love.
If there are none, it is not love. Not liked.
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I don't think so! There's always a purpose! To like a person is to like him as a whole, including his looks.
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Love has a purpose, or you can't tell, but it certainly is! Otherwise, if you don't love, there is no purpose, then it's not love!
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There are conditions for liking someone, but there are no conditions for loving someone.
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The world is so big, how to define love!
Everyone's view of love is still different. Love or bread? It's about your value orientation.
Sometimes it's the intersection of the two, so why bother to distinguish it so clearly!
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It feels like it's all half and half
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The beginning is to be happy with each other.
Then it was pain.
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There was really a girl I liked for a long time before, and I finally gave up. The reason is a little helpless, because of the lack of qualifications. In the eyes of many people, as long as two people like love, they can be together at all costs.
But that's the ideal state of Yu stupidity, and real life is real.
Everyone is different, and if you can meet someone who is willing to love you and care about you regardless of everything, you must be happy. But if you meet people who love each other, they care more about their own families. It seems reasonable for her to choose to become a stranger to you because she is powerless to refute her family's interference in her life.
In those months, I've been wondering, why can't two people who like it be together, whose fault is it? I tried, I told her desperately that I would work hard for the future assigned to us, that I would bring her happiness, but to no avail. Then I gave up because I figured everything out and it turned out that everyone was right.
It's just that the happiness of this world requires you to have matching qualifications. Even if you are lucky, you must also have the qualifications for good luck, such as the character, connections, background, etc. of good luck, and these various conditions are actually qualifications.
Since then, I've never questioned in my heart why the world is unfair. Instead of worrying about those, you should improve your qualifications. Whether it's exercising your abilities, exercising, developing hobbies, learning to dress up, or working hard to earn money, that's all about improving your qualifications.
When I have the opportunity to choose happiness, I hope to be qualified to have happiness, to be with the person I really like, and to give her and give us a beautiful future happiness.
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It's easy to spoil someone, you can just dig it out, but it's hard to love someone, you have to understand him, you have to love him, you have to hide your inner worries, while encouraging him, stumbling all the way, you have to suppress the joy in your heart, and at the same time be strict with him.
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No, as long as two people love each other.
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It takes sincerity and that's it.
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Can a person fall in love with someone unconditionally? My answer is yes, everyone thinks this way when they are young, when love is first opened, and crushes are even more unconditional.
As long as there is a place where he needs you, you are willing to do anything for him, and you never think about whether it is worth it. The power of love is infinite, sometimes unimaginable, and even sometimes we ourselves find it incredible.
Some love, you have never had the luxury of getting anything, as long as the other person is happy, you are happier than anything else.
You may silently follow behind him and smell the body odor on his body after he walks past. It's like he walks side by side with you in the rain, and you feel content and happy.
In your mind, you may have fantasized about countless moments when you were side by side, but none of them were as exciting and exciting as him actually sitting next to you.
Love is a thought of countless days and nights, and it is the silence of silently waiting for a person, as if only he and you are left in the world, eternal and unchanging.
So, loving someone can be unconditional and unrequited.
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No! There are several classifications of love according to different people, the love of parents and children, the love of men and women, and the love of friends.
1 The love of parents and children. This kind of love is selfless, especially the love that parents have for their children. However, this love is also conditional.
The opposite of love is hate, and anyone has the possibility of hate. If the behavior of a parent towards a child or a child to a parent hurts the other person too much, then hatred arises. It's just that there aren't many things that can cause hatred in the relationship between parents and children, but they do exist.
So the love between parents and children is also conditional.
2 Love between a man and a woman. There is no unconditional love between men and women. If you can attract someone or make him fall in love with you, you must meet certain conditions for him.
Isn't there such a saying? One person's liking for another person "begins with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character." You don't have the looks to try?
Don't you have the talent to try? You don't have a character to try? See who will fall in love with you?
In the story, it is often written that a good-looking girl is disfigured in an accident, but her boyfriend never leaves her and always loves her. First, that's the story, second, it's disfigured, and the appearance is gone, but the talent and character are still there. That's not unconditional.
So you must never trust a person who says he will love you unconditionally.
3 Friend's love. First of all, if you can become a friend, it means that you meet certain conditions for him, such as being able to talk together, such as you have helped him, such as you are very cheerful, etc. If you don't match his idea of friends at all, then you can't be friends at all, and what kind of friendship are you talking about?
Therefore, the love between any person is conditional, and you should cherish it. Don't squander other people's love for you!
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I think that a person's love is unconditional and pure. When we accept someone, our hearts are full of joy, and the other person is our whole world. This has nothing to do with the economy, parents, or friends.
If the feelings for a person are mixed with other things, then your own love is not simple, and the love you get will not be pure and pure.
This is where most people contradict each other, obviously I love you very much, but why did I lose to reality in the end. This has nothing to do with unconditional love, only with time. is like Yang Zheng and Wen Hui in love to the end:
The young Wen Hui fell in love with Yang Zheng who was willing to take her to see the Aegean Sea, did she like the Aegean Sea? What she likes is Yang Zheng's heart that is willing to take her to see the sea. But in the end, they didn't make it to the end, they just insisted silently, aren't they giving?
Actually, it's not, it's just doing what you think you can give each other love. But it backfired, the good living environment did not make Wen Hui feel Yang Zheng's continuous warm love, so in the past ten years, Wen Hui has seen more of Yang Zheng's entertainment, and has no time.
On the other hand, Wen Hui opened her own hotel and became the president, silently doing everything for Yang Zheng, enriching the economy, and at the same time, she did not say too much to Yang Zheng that she was not a housewife. Yang Zheng accidentally discovered all this, only to know that the two had been silently paying for each other, and the ending was naturally different.
Love needs to be paid, when a person can't see the other party's pay, or can't see the value of the result of the other party's pay, it will be said that the other party is not in love. But that's not that I don't love it anymore, it's just a different way.
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Hard. First of all, people are independent individuals, they all have desires, have their own ideas, and they need to have their own lives and independent space, and they cannot be completely dependent on others, otherwise they will lose themselves, and unconditional love for a person will lose themselves, lose their independent personality, and thus lose their own value, and this kind of life is meaningless. Secondly, a person's life is not only about love, but also about family affection, affection, and other things that need attention and energy, these factors will intersect with love, make people distracted, and it is difficult to love someone unconditionally.
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Yes, as long as she is moved, she will love her unconditionally. Only they looked at each other in obscurity, and there was no verbal commitment. or scold you at every turn, I still fight her even more and love her in the bottom of my heart.
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Yes, if a person comes into your heart and takes deep roots, you will be crazy about love, no matter what the person's family conditions are, no matter what the person's shortcomings are, you will not care, only see his advantages, do nothing for him, and will not think about the consequences, as long as he is happy.
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Yes, but such people are rare, and there are fewer and fewer of them. In the past, such simple love abounded, and when they were hurt more and more, they lost confidence and were unwilling to fall in love again. If you meet such a person, you must cherish it even more.
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Yes, as long as my heart is moved, I will love him unconditionally, only silently look at each other, without any verbal commitment, or scold you at every turn, I still love him, love in my heart.
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I believe that there will definitely be some innocent boys and girls in the world who will love someone unconditionally, but as a person who has come over, I think this is an immature and dangerous idea, real love is the love that interacts between two people, love should be rewarded, this return is not money, nor material, but a response to love, love mutual. The love that is given unilaterally is called unrequited love, and the love that responds is the real love.
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When you meet your true love, you will love someone unconditionally, and when true love comes, you will love desperately.
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Anyway, I don't believe that such selfless love can only appear in literary works, and I believe that loving someone must have a picture or a picture of the other person's appearance or something else.
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