In the first year of junior high school, students fall in love, what should parents do?

This is a necessary stage for human beings, and this age is the time when you are full of infinite curiosity about the opposite sex, so don't think it's wrong. Don't be afraid of what mistakes your child will make, as long as you have good and correct guidance, not only will nothing happen, but also give your child a correct outlook on life, so that your child can have a healthy and happy childhood.

My first love was in fifth grade, a crush to be exact. At that time, I liked a little brother in the first year of junior high school, a very gentle and tall little brother. My mom was a math teacher and happened to teach him.

He was a bit bad at math, so his mom would let him come to my house on weekends to make up for it. This little brother will play Monopoly with me, and he won't dislike me for being stupid like my brother. He will also patiently teach me how to learn Chinese and English.

The little brother's language is very powerful, but he is partial to the subject, and he can't do mathematics. The little brother would also make me laugh when I was being bullied by my brother. He's a really nice guy.

At this time, I began to like my little brother very much. Because I talked about my little brother in front of my mother many times, my mother also said in front of me: "I talk about liking at a young age, and I am not ashamed, I am really not good."

To be honest, I was very hurt at the time. I'm wondering if my little brother is so good, shouldn't I like him. My mother's words had a certain impact on me.

Later, I deliberately avoided my little brother, and since then, I hid back in the room. I wasn't happy for a long time.

Later, my dad asked me what was wrong, and I said, "I like little brother, why does my mother say I'm so bad," and my dad smiled and said to me, "Little baby, do you like little brother because he looks good and is willing to play with you?"

Of course you can play together, but you have to remember that oh you are a girl and he is a boy, you must know that there is a difference between men and women, and you can learn like a little brother, he is not very good at learning. Look up to him. ”

This passage really affected me, and my dad didn't think I liked my little brother and scolded me. Instead, he told me patiently. Later, I played well with my little brother and made a lot of progress in my studies.

Now that I think about it, I don't really like it, I just think that my little brother is good at studying, good-looking, and willing to play with me.

Nowadays, it is very normal for students to fall in love, and I hope that parents can distinguish whether their children really like it or fake it. If you really like it, if you really fall in love, let him understand that there is a difference between men and women, don't steal the forbidden fruit, and let him realize that learning is the main thing, don't go to a very strong opposition. You must know that junior high school students have a rebellious period, and if you scold him, he will do it against you, which is counterproductive.

The main thing is to communicate and empathize. Everyone has been through this experience. It's okay to empathize and guide well.

This kind of problem cannot be ignored and must be properly dealt with and intervened.

For example, ask him or her why he or she is in a relationship and explain to him or her what is at stake.