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If you don't feel it for a long time, there's no point in cultivating it. Maybe you feel reluctant to separate, but this reluctance is for a friend, for the feeling that someone is good to you. And not necessarily for the person.
You have to distinguish whether you just don't hate it, just like to the uncle and big brother next door, or whether he occasionally does something that will move you very much, and will make you think of it inadvertently, and your heart will be warm.
In this way, it is possible to distinguish whether there is a sense of cultivation or not.
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If you think that he is not annoying because you need someone to talk to, need to take care of, and need to relieve loneliness, then, cultivating feelings in this way, the chance of success seems to be small, and there is no successful example around. But it's up to you, and it might be an opportunity not to be missed.
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I advise you to still cultivate feelings. It's cultivated slowly.
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If you really want to cultivate, you should pay attention to the small details to make the other party moved.
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What can be cultivated is man-made.
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There are many people who like you, few people who love you, and even fewer people who are willing to live with you for a long time and love you. Because long-term lovers are not found, but cultivated.
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What can be cultivated, you must take the initiative to get along with others.
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Why give opportunities to people who don't feel it? If it's just loneliness, forget it, no one can afford to hurt these days.
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That's right, it's not a drop of cultivation, so what's ......
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Get in touch with him for a while and get to know him from a variety of perspectives, and then consider it if you still don't feel good about him.
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Agree with the upstairs statement and get to know each other before making a decision.
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I think so! How else to say "love over time"?
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Wow to be friends first, and we'll see it after getting along slowly.
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Feelings can be cultivated.
Feelings can be cultivated, but there is a prerequisite: both parties cannot be repulsed, the atria can be opened, and then feelings can be slowly developed through long-term contact.
There are many feelings, love, affection, friendship. In addition to family affection, love and friendship all start with strangers. When I first entered the school, I didn't know who the teacher was and who my classmates were.
On the playground, ** is crowded, I don't know who will be in the same class as you, it is possible to pass by with you, or even become your tablemate, and then after a few years of classmates, the relationship between the two of you is getting deeper and deeper, from the love of classmates to the love of girlfriends, brotherhood.
Most of the feelings between people have a time process, and they must ensure that they do not contradict each other, are willing to accept each other, want to know him, and want to be friends with him, so that they can slowly cultivate feelings through long-term contact.
In addition to love at first sight, most of the love is also the mutual attraction of both parties, the desire to understand each other, slowly develop feelings, and finally the desire to stop, produce love, and finally develop into a lover relationship.
So feelings can be cultivated, as long as you don't hate each other.
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OK. 1. Communicate frequently. Communicate with your beloved from time to time, so that the relationship can last longer and the two will be more closely connected;
2. Take care of each other. In all aspects of life, take care of each other, let him feel his heart for him, and keep it in his heart;
3. Pay attention to details. In the usual details, observe each other more, understand each other's preferences and habits, and increase the tacit understanding between both parties;
4. Keep learning. It is necessary to learn more knowledge, and it can only be used in time when needed, and when cultivating sentiment, it is also a matter of cultivating mutual feelings;
5. Learn to listen. Let the other person feel the importance of what he is saying, and at the same time ask questions accordingly when the other person is speaking, so that the other person knows that he is listening carefully.
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Of course, love at first sight, in fact, to put it bluntly, it is to see the color, the real feelings are cultivated, and they all need to be accumulated by time, not something that can be completed in an instant.
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Feelings can be cultivated, some people fall in love at first sight, and some people are together for a long time, so two people have no feelings together but it is possible to be happy with each other in getting along.
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Of course, feelings can be cultivated, and feelings are cultivated to get along, love at first sight is a feeling, not feelings.
Besides, if there are feelings and feelings, you will only know after getting along, if you are not very disgusted at first sight, you can get along to see if it is suitable or not, and then what does it matter, everyone is like this.
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Feelings can be cultivated.
As long as you're with this person, you don't have that kind of mentality that you are very disgusted with. Then the two of you are together, and this relationship can be cultivated slowly. Some people may not like it at first, but as you get to know each other, you will find that you already like them.
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Since you can agree, then at least it shows that you are not so repulsive to him, and in this case the relationship can be cultivated, and I wish you sweet and happy.
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Of course not.
Why? Let's take a look at the context in which this question is raised – my observation is that there are generally two types:
The first type - I'm single, I'm old, I want to get married but I don't have a partner, but I'm afraid that I'll be older and it will be more difficult to find a partner in the future, so I want to start a relationship quickly, and if I get along well, then I can get married quickly.
But I'm worried that I don't like the person I'm looking for, or he doesn't like me very much, after all, it's not so easy to find someone who "sees the right eye".
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Feelings can be cultivated, and some people may not have that feeling at first, but with the increase in contact, two people may have feelings for each other in the process of dating.
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Yes, feelings can be cultivated slowly, there is no emotion when you are together at the beginning, and this is how you love over time.
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Feelings can be cultivated, and through time through meticulous consideration and care for love, this kind of thing is slowly grown through time.
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Feelings can be cultivated slowly, there is a temperature between people, raising a dog can raise relatives, you are good to a person for a long time, can't she feel it.
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Feelings can be cultivated, two people are together, if the time passes, there will naturally be feelings, so two people are together. Getting along slowly can produce feelings.
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Of course, feelings can be cultivated slowly, and feelings can be cultivated slowly, so when we talk a lot, we don't stick to the first impression.
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Feelings can be cultivated, if love at first sight is to play a game and buy a full level, then cultivating feelings is to practice trumpets from one level at a time, such feelings are more solid and reliable, and love is a long stream, not turbulent.
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If the two feel good together, the relationship can be cultivated slowly, but if it is impulsive and there is no feeling, it is difficult to say.
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The so-called slow cultivation is just looking for the moment that makes him or her heart flutter for a long time.
After finding this moment, all the once ordinary bits and pieces will become sweet and beautiful.
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In real life, some of us do get married first and then fall in love, which shows that after getting married, two people have lived together for a long time, and slowly such feelings will be cultivated. Therefore, feelings can be cultivated, as long as we manage our own family with our hearts, we will eventually have a good result.
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There is no doubt that feelings are cultivated, and no two people who are originally unrelated will have feelings out of thin air.
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I agreed with a soft heart, agreeing is not the same as getting married, you can get along for a while, you have to protect yourself, your feelings are all dealt with, don't think about cultivating it after getting married.
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If you are together all day, you will gradually have a good impression of him, and the relationship will gradually deepen.
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I don't think it's love, it's more just feelings that arise from emotion. Or rather, it's just the feelings that come out of habit. Love is more of a moment or a first sight.
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The relationship cultivated can also be love, because two people run in with each other together, and slowly they will have a good feeling, and they will be very comfortable together.