What to do if you become vain in college

In fact, what you see now is only the clouds of the past, it is only a matter of time, and some problems can be solved by time. If you really feel unwilling, then make yourself stronger.

In fact, it's good to be able to see where your own problems are.

Now it's all about how to get out of it, right?

Actually, there's nothing wrong with vanity, because almost everyone has this mentality.

It's just that good vanity has a premise, that is, within your ability.

You see, you've figured it out, you have a desktop computer, and the tablet is of little use to you, so why bother?

You know, what computer you use doesn't mean who you are, and it doesn't mean how good you are.

When I was a freshman, all three of us had computers in my dorm, and I didn't buy them until I graduated from college, which was nothing, but I still got along with everyone very happily and gained a lot.

You said you wanted to buy it, but you restrained it, which is already very good.

At least there is moderation.

To give you a suggestion, if you really want something, go and make money yourself.

In college, there are many opportunities to make money. Study hard to get a scholarship, this is a big guy; Tutors and the like are not bad.

There's nothing wrong with making yourself better, but oh, this good point is something you have to work on.

Our parents have already given us too much, we really can't let them pay for our vanity, we don't have that qualification.

There are some things, just enough, just fit yourself, no need to compare.

Is that okay?

For those of us who are college students, we may all be in adulthood, and our requirements for all aspects may become more and more empty, for example, there may be some comparison psychology. For example, seeing that others eat, drink and wear better, there will be a sense of jealousy when they leak themselves, which is nothing, this society is inherently unfair, we just need to know what kind of best we can match, maybe the words are a little ugly, but this is the balance is the truth, the medicine is bitter, and the advice is good for the ears. As adults, we must have a healthy psychology, do not be carried away by bad trends, and be the leader of emotions, rather than letting emotions dominate us, and be a healthy youth in the new era.

Learn to control your desires, and then you can go to work to earn money, and make your vanity and inferiority complex disappear through work.

First of all, you have to know what vanity is, vanity, that is, a person asks, gets, the kind of recognition of others, likes to face, um, and deliberately does some performance that does not conform to his identity, to win the love of others, well, that is, if you are too vain, you will not have a self and become particularly floating.

Vanity is very terrible for us, and it can make a person waste in a short period of time, and to reduce one's vanity, in fact, we can first reduce oneself psychologically, and we have hints in our hearts, and we can read more books.

I feel that there are still very few people with vanity in the university, after all, everyone is highly educated, and they will never compare with each other, everyone is very modest, at least the people in our class are like this.

Chinese people have a good face and love to compare, some people have serious inferiority complex, love vanity makes young people lose the direction of struggle, it is difficult for people to be comprehensive and excellent in all aspects. So don't compare in the mess, of course, just don't leak if you learn to be excellent.