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If you like it, take the initiative, no matter what the ending is, you won't regret it in the future, it is reasonable for men to chase women, and women chasing men are cheap, whose law? Girls who can take the initiative to pursue love have personalities.

For example: if there is a guy who likes you and you have no feelings for him, and he pesters you every day, dying for you and living for you, will you marry him?

According to what you said, he doesn't feel very good about you, of course, feelings are cultivated in contact, you first have to take the initiative, just find an excuse, see how he feels about you, make an appointment a few more times, if it's okay, come on, if it's not good, I also gave an example above, you are a college student should understand.

Basically everyone has lost love in their lives, don't be a frog at the bottom of the well, enlarge your circle, look far, and die for someone who doesn't like you, is it worth it?

In terms of safety, I think you should find a companion, if you can't find it right now, don't go first, or go early and come back early, safety first, I don't know how to draw, I don't think you have to go to the place you said, change to a safe place.

Finally, you don't like to talk much, so there is a bad place, be enthusiastic, easy-going, nod and say hello when you see your classmates, respect others is equal to respect yourself, if you have a poker face all day long, do you like it? Be a well-informed lady! [I'm speaking directly, I hope you don't mind].

If you like it, you will chase it, and you won't regret it even if you can't get his love.

Eh, I'm not going to be quiet, and I don't owe anyone money...

Let's try to be an ordinary friend with her first, and then develop step by step

Ignore him! --Dress yourself up beautifully, eat what you want to eat, play what you want, be a happy woman, and there will be people who appreciate and love you! Believe me!

Why bother? To be so unhappy in order to make a good impression on someone, think about it, is it worth it? Instead of being contradictory and uncomfortable, it is better to completely "makeover".

To be a true self, I think, is better to be free. If you give up this contradictory relationship and be a happy person, there will definitely be many people who like you.

He can be approached through your friends.

Like a person, you can neither tell him but also tell him directly, if you don't tell him, he will never know, you have to tell him directly, then you have changed in his mind. So, you have to choose to approach him slowly, didn't you say that he sent you a message? You can also use the message, on a certain day, or a week, when everyone doesn't have to go to school, send a message to him, ask him out, of course, for what reason you want to ask him.

After asking him out, you don't necessarily have to ask him for the reason, but when you make an appointment, of course, you want to do something romantic, first pretend to deal with your reason for asking him, and then use thirst or hunger as the reason to go to eat with him, or McDonald's or something. Of course, don't call it too expensive, because boys will generally force them to pay no matter who asks them. It's best to make a cup of coffee for one person, it won't be too expensive, and it will also give him the feeling that you are not such a person who spends money so much, pay the bill, depending on his economic situation, if he is really poor, you don't give him the opportunity to get off the stage, you can take the opportunity to go to the toilet to buy the bill first.

Personally, I disagree with what the friend above said. Of course, there is also a point of agreement.

I've had a lot of friends who are so eager to help.

Let me start with my opinion:

First of all. You have to think about one thing clearly. Do you like him?

If you like it, don't talk to other people's financial situation for the sake of your family's financial situation. Take this to heart. This is an important point!

Maybe you don't feel that way in your heart. But that doesn't mean he hasn't thought about it in his heart! You said it too.

He is a boy who does not complain about the family. If you want such a boy to find a girlfriend, he rarely takes the initiative or passively to make a rich girl! Because he has a feeling in his heart that he is not worthy of you.

You have to think about that too.

Talking about how you go about confessing to him:

Sometimes it's not clear what to say. I feel it. There is no need to eat or drink.

Since you want to express those sincere words in your heart. I still hope you find a more appropriate time and place. The two of us sat down and had a good chat.

Focus in the middle or speak at the end. You can test it out beforehand. His feelings about what you are.

What I'm talking about how he feels about you is not your "Pampered" and "Spending Money into Running Water"! It's the feeling of this for you.

But you also have to understand his personality. Get to know him better. That's how you will capture his people and his heart.

And also. Don't try to help him with money problems. If you really want to help him.

You can find his friends or classmates. Says it all. The premise is to make sure that his friends and classmates will not tell you.

If that boy is a sensible person. You should understand!

Thank you! Zou Jie said.

Emotional conflicts are most common in daily life, which may be different, but they are basically trivial matters in life. And if we have such a problem, if there is a disagreement on trivial matters, we must solve it reasonably. Generally, girls must give men faces, and boys quarrel with girls on the surface, but in fact, they should secretly prepare surprises for girls, so that a relationship can reduce the appearance of contradictions as much as possible.

1. What are the most common emotional conflicts?

Among the emotional conflicts, the most common ones are actually some trivial things that we say in our daily lives. I have to say that these trivial things can't be seen or touched, but couples quarrel peacefully because of trivial matters, and I believe that many people feel uncomfortable in their hearts when facing such a situation. But since the matter has arisen, it must be resolved reasonably.

The daily chores are:

1. In the cold winter, girls want to eat watermelon, but boys think about girls' bodies and strongly persuade girls not to eat watermelon, because eating watermelon is not good for the body.

2. Girls already have dozens of lipsticks, but on anniversaries or birthdays, they hope that their couples can buy themselves a lot of lipsticks.

Second, specific solutions

1. Taking watermelon as an example, the starting point of the boy is the cold winter, and the watermelon is already cold. If a girl eats watermelon, it is not good for her health, so boys recommend that girls not eat watermelon. But this is where the contradiction arises.

If the boy wants to solve this contradiction well, on the surface he is very angry, because kindness is regarded as a donkey's liver and lungs, but the boy secretly still has to prepare gifts for the girl.

2. For girls, boys' good intentions may also be experienced. But since things have happened, and the contradictions are about to erupt, it is useless to talk too much to girls at this time. Therefore, when the girl calms down, she needs to borrow the slope to get off the donkey and give the boy face appropriately.

The above are some of the ways in which couples should resolve conflicts in their daily lives, but we also need to pay attention to the fact that each person's situation is different and needs to be determined by the specific situation.

The most common emotional conflict is to quarrel because of some trivial problems, or because the other party and the opposite sex get too close to each other, two people should respect each other, and should communicate in a timely manner when encountering problems, must treat each other sincerely, do not quarrel because of some trivial things, should tolerate each other, and should also give each other more security.

I think the most common emotional conflicts are third parties, exes and money problems, and if you want to solve them, I think two people should communicate.

There are big differences in the opinions of the two people on some things, and there will be some quarrels about some small things. It's easy to get conflicted. At this time, we must remain reasonable, strengthen communication, and learn to be tolerant. It is also necessary to learn to show weakness appropriately.

In real life, there are no lovers who don't quarrel, and it is very common for everyone to have friction and conflict due to their lifestyle, way of doing things, etc. There are some quarrels and then separation, and some of them try to fit in after the quarrel and gradually become a habit, even if there are more blind dates on the surface, or you don't see the quarrel and conflict. Regulate your mood.

Sometimes quarrels are really unavoidable, but we must control our emotions. In the case of a quarrel, there is no need to maliciously slander, let alone expose other people's scars, and there is no need to blindly blame the other party for their shortcomings.

Take the initiative to attack and communicate with sincerity. No matter who is right or wrong, if there is a contradiction, it should be resolved, there is no need to delay, if you can, don't quarrel, quarrel can only enhance the contradiction and make everyone grumpy. Lovers have problems, everyone is angry, very easy to be cold and violent, unwilling to meet with the other party to speak, to solve the contradictions, to solve the problem must be positive, the longer the problem drags on, the less easy it is to solve, and it does not hurt the peace.

Actively apologize and actively reconcile. In fact, many couples quarrel with each other because it is very easy for the other party in love to vent their emotions on other people's bodies, which is also a difficult problem worth thinking about.

Quiet, calm, soft to communicate with the old gentleman, and the lover to communicate, to solve this matter, if it is a temporary can not be solved, let the lover to understand, if it is not a normal thing, maybe there are some contradictions between husband and wife, but also coexist, because there are some contradictions that can not be solved in the short term, it must be solved for a long time or take time, just communicate carefully, and wait, communicate not to put it aside, Wait until you find time to communicate, on the premise that it suits your own opportunities.

Whether it's a misunderstanding or suspicion, you need to find the cause immediately, and you need to calm down together to find the cause of the dispute. Because we only need to find the cause together, it will not happen that it seems that the problem has been solved, but there are still suspicions in the hearts of both parties, or both parties do not admit that it is their fault, then the next time there is a conflict, or a quarrel to solve, so find the cause to really solve the problem. In any case, as long as you love each other, when each other is willing to give their hearts to the other party, there will be no suspicion or damage, because when you understand the other party, you can understand and guard each other, and then let the emotions be the same as the first time.

I may choose the way of communication, slowly alleviate the conflict between two people, and then just talk about it.

I will use communication to solve it, and I can talk about the problems that two people feel in the relationship, and find a way to solve them.

I will take the initiative to communicate with the other party, and if it is my fault, I will take the initiative to apologize and promise the other party that I will never do it again.