The story of a child being beaten by his parents 10

Alas, without words, the world is crazy!

When I was a child, I had a more powerful beating, and now I am more impressed, that is, when I first went to school, I was naughty and skipped class to catch birds in the mountains, and then I was beaten by my father, I feel that this kind of beating education is not advisable, and it is harmful to the growth of children

Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use the way of violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart for a long time.

will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and over time, they may hurt themselves when facing problems.

Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but this is actually related to the way their parents usually teach them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.

When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but by force, and even hurt others.

Clause. 2. Willing to please others.

Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to be willing to look at other people's faces to please others, and they will follow what others say they are not sure of their inner thoughts, speak carefully, and they will lower their posture.

Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat backwards when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.

Thirdly, the child will become very timid.

Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of the **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.

When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take on problems and responsibilities, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.

Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.

But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and they will not want to say it to their parents when they are really in trouble and danger.

I remember playing at home with a girl during the summer vacation in elementary school, and I was also the child of a teacher in the same dormitory. When we burned the candles, Li Xianghou poured the candles and burned a hole in the mat, and the sheets under it were also broken, which was a bit serious, but my mother rushed in and yelled at us. Mom threw the stool into the room, pointed to the side of the stool and yelled at the girl

Stand still. "Then he ordered me to take off my belt, take off my pants, lie down, and count. They beat me up in front of people and scared the girl so much that she couldn't cry.

Later, my mother also told the girl's parents that every time I made a mistake, my mother tied my feet together, tied my hands with my feet back, and then took the soft belt of the water and pumped it until it was swollen. Cry or move 25 times, write an examination, kneel (on the washboard) for two hours, he watches, and moves ten times on the belt.

The girl went home and was beaten by the swimmer.

There is a child who usually has to score 61 points in exams, and his father is very angry, because this child usually scores 100 points. The parent pulled out the child's pants and beat them severely. The child said:

Today is Children's Day, and I just scored 61 points! ”。The child kept screaming, but the father kept fighting.

In the end, the child cried and asked his father why he wanted to talk about beating him, but his father said: "I left 61 fingers for your stupid silver pp, I wish you happiness!" ”

It was raining and there was a lot of water outside.

The little boy was very happy, and ran back and forth in the muddy water, all over his body.

The little boy's brother came back and looked angry and beat him up.

The little boy has 5 brothers and grandchildren.

So he shot Ma Chun, he was beaten 5 times!

Personally, I think that there is a lot of room for growth in simple stories. My father gambled, and my mother didn't work... Personal Imagination,,。 This kind of family.