What happens if you say harsh things to someone you love?

I think you should pay attention to a few things: 1He said, "You didn't want to be a policeman, but she is a policeman now, and her family is very powerful, which point is not better than your family?"

This shows that he may not only have a favorite element in his relationship with you, but also other factors, such as power and family background. What do you love about this kind of person, you say that you still have feelings for him, because you think about his impure purpose of being good to you, so you have to remind yourself in your heart that most of his previous kindness to you is fake. (What I said is not false at all, you can see from his words) 2

You say that he plays games at home all day, which means that he is not well educated, and you say that educated people will be so spineless and stay at home all day long? I guess he must be in a mess. 3.

When you said that you told him what your friend said, he said that you looked down on him, which means that he did not understand you from your point of view, and said that you looked down on him, and you didn't have it at all, didn't you, or you wouldn't have come to ask for help. And your friend is right, he really has no future, and your relationship with him may not end well. He is blind and has self-esteem, so he will say that you look down on him.

People who are blind and have self-esteem are not good at dealing with things. Hope you can give me my advice. I wish you to find true happiness to seek.

It's all impulsive, angry words, and we must be more understanding and tolerant, so that it can last forever.

The cruel words are all momentary angry words, you may regret it just after speaking, tolerate and understand each other, think about the problem from the other party's point of view, don't be unreasonable, tolerate and understand each other in order to maintain the longevity of love, I wish you happiness.

The most ruthless is often said to break up, divorce or regret falling in love and getting married.

You can think about it from the other party's standpoint, if you are too emotional, you will inevitably have cruel words, so let yourself calm down and dissipate your anger.

Because they won't leave us. In fact, this is very wrong, and it will break the hearts of those who truly love us.

This is because we always think that we will not be angry when we say cruel things to the people we love, because we dare not say cruel things to others. At the same time, when we are emotional, it is always those who love to comfort us, and we want to say some cruel words in our hearts.

This is mainly because for the person you love, you feel that he is particularly spoiled by you, will satisfy you unconditionally, make you bully, and have a full sense of security, so you will say cruel things to the person you love.

In contrast, people who hear cruel words will be more upset, these words will really make people's hearts hurt very much, and will definitely affect the relationship between two people.

Of course, the people who heard the cruel words were even more sad, because they didn't say cruel words, which showed that they cared about the other party very much, but when they heard the other party say these cruel words, they also hurt their hearts.

I think that people who hear cruel words will be even more uncomfortable, because the other party is attacking them with words, and they are still the people they love the most, so it will be more or less sad to crack the old man.

Maybe it's because of anger, anger makes people lose their minds.

Maybe it's because I'm too disappointed.

It is likely that you have to express your feelings first.

A breakup must be inappropriate for two people to get along.

In fact, there are really many reasons.